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Topic: He wants to marry me - Todd, anyone, Composite
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Chaitaly
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posted February 22, 2017 06:24 PM
  
We are in a 8 year relationship, we live “together” but actually we’re separated by distance for various reasons; he started to talk about marriage 2 years ago, but I’m pulling away (marriage is not my main objective in life); we’ve also had several problems in our relationship, and it felt many times as if we were at the final breaking point…
I still feel a bond with him, and is quite deep one, after all, we’ve been through so much together, and there is still affection; but I don’t know if this is for marriage, should/shall we take this step according to the charts?What do you see in our composite? I post the synastry, if it helps, I’m the inner. 
Thank you!
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todd
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posted February 22, 2017 07:15 PM
I don't have time for a through look right now but the sun/moon and moon/Saturn midpoints are conjuct the vertex and the venus/sun midpoint is square the vertex with antilochius conjunct he anti vertex. this does indicate a deep "karmic" feeling and affection but I can't see whether it is fasvorble or unfavorable right now.you might add juno to the chart. todd
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Chaitaly
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posted February 23, 2017 07:53 AM
Hello Todd,
thank you for your response.We both feel our meeting 8 years ago was "fated", but we also recognize that there seem to be outside "forces" drawing us apart in the last 2 years... (and our disagreement about marriage of course, that is an internal issue)... Here the charts with juno:   IP: Logged |
todd
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posted February 24, 2017 04:27 PM
interesting a finger of god with juno sextile to Jupiter and these forming a inconjunct with the sun.this could be a sign of marriage though finger of gods,in my experirnece,tend tohave a ominoius side to them. yes it could show a fated connection, but in terms of human relationships, the mars/venus midpoint is conjunct the ascendant axis and squar eto Saturn/pluto. this is not a favorable aspect because beneath the emotional attraction is a cold and heartless need to domination. Saturn/pluto shows extreme selfishness which does not respond to the compromises necessary for a functioning committed relationship. this aspect would tend to show his need to dominate the marriage. psyche is square to eros and the midpoint is loosely conjunct venus opposed to the moon so there is a very romantic feeling between you.
but still,the emotionality and selfishness of the Saturn/Pluto aspects are not diminished by these aspects.
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Chaitaly
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posted February 24, 2017 06:23 PM
You're amazing todd. Yes I get the subtle feeling that he wants to get married just because "it's time for him to" and It seems a selfish reason to me.
1. I was curious by the way about that Neptune conjunct South Node, i haven't found nothing about it,
What does it mean in a Composite? Can the actual distance between us be a reflection of progressed Composite showing sun-uranus conjunction that seems very unstable? I mean for now it seems we cannot avoid distance for the next 2 years to come, maybe more.
2. Is it because these aspects are slow that it can take so long for us to overcome this period? Thank you so much.
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