posted March 02, 2017 10:23 AM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
what are your thoughts on this composite?

I'm very interested to know what you think!

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off the top of my head, I see the sun/pluto midpoint is conjunct venus, which is trine mercur/saturn/node, but square uranus.

and the sun/mars midpoint is conjunct moon (*just to clarify, in that chart you see, sun and mars have 2 midpoints, at about 27 leo and 27 aqua, which the comp moon is conjunct the one at the 27 aqua), which is squared by a pluto which is trine chiron!

I know what these feel like! I wonder what you think, whether this guy is being real or is just trying to seduce me for his personal ambitions/satisfactions (he's a scorpio sun/mars/mercury, cap moon).

I have been friends with him for more than 4 years now, and somehow I know he'll always be there, so there's definitely some saturn in the play.

I also see that the composite mars/pluto is sqaure neptune, so I'm wondering if it points out to his selfishness, or the complete opposite, his selflessness?!

posted March 03, 2017 05:46 PM            

the first strikes me is the strong emphasis on the vertex. the Neptune conjunction definitely suggest a sense of otherworldly connection and can suggest a sense of a spiritual basis for the relationship.
but the Uranus/Saturn midpoint is also conjunct the vertex which suggest a unstable relationship as he is very hesitant to make any commitment.as Neptune is conjunct this midpoint, the inference is that he would not ne straight forward about his intention to remain "single" and could in fact give out disingenuous emotional signals.

the sun/moon midpoint is opposed to pluto. this is usually a nail the hope for a intimate, sharing and compromising relationship as it suggest pure selfish interest are at the base of this relationship .

this is complicate because with the Saturn/moon midpoint conjunct the node, the are very strong feelings and senses that there exist a devoted emotional connection here. this would be emphasized by the mercury conjunct to the node which is indices of psychic and mental connection. this suggest that you and he seem to share a common mind on many matters and can stay emotionally and mentally connected regardless of physical proximity.this aspect can not but elect feeling of destiny etc.

but the moon/sun/plut opposition simply undermines all the conscious and emotional sensitivities that suggest compassion and intimacy. so this can be a very confusing situation as mentally you may feel one way but intuitively sense all is not on the level.
also with the venus/urnaus midpoint conjunct to pluto and opposed to the moon/sun midpoint, cross signals are very likely.
the Venus/Uranus midpoint elicits intense emotional /physical /mental psychic connection. but at the same time with the conjunct to pluto....this emotion al intensity is simply an illusion .
which such intense karmic connection with theverterx and the node, the forces of blind fate really over ride the emotional feelings and needs of individual mortals.

posted March 04, 2017 04:55 AM            

this relationship, is indeed full of contradictions. the neptune theme is indeed strong, we actually met through music. when we're together we both clearly feel that we're escaping the world

the mental connection, very strong. lots of mutual interests and activities, completing each other's sentences, etc. at the beginning it used to surprise even scare us both. with time we've gotten used to it and have actually come to appreciate this friendship.

but beneath all these, I can really some selfishness on his part..even though I have made it clear that I am not romantically/physically attracted to him, every now and then he makes these attempts and suggestions. I too believe that he's confused, and maybe feels like we have to get together only because there's a lot of synchronicity with us. I think it's harder for men to keep a relationship with a woman only at the friendship level

I remember I had a composite sun in the 12th with my piano teacher as well. it feels very peaceful, but the two are always escaping dealing with real (outer) life situations

I have known another man who's born 2 weeks after him, and with him too I seem to have the similar issues. you helped me a while ago with my composite with him if you remember http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/006461.html

posted March 04, 2017 03:43 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
dear todd we're so blessed to have you here helping us so generously

this relationship, is indeed full of contradictions. the neptune theme is indeed strong, we actually met through music. when we're together we both clearly feel that we're escaping the world

the mental connection, very strong. lots of mutual interests and activities, completing each other's sentences, etc. at the beginning it used to surprise even scare us both. with time we've gotten used to it and have actually come to appreciate this friendship.

but beneath all these, I can really some selfishness on his part..even though I have made it clear that I am not romantically/physically attracted to him, every now and then he makes these attempts and suggestions. I too believe that he's confused, and maybe feels like we have to get together only because there's a lot of synchronicity with us. I think it's harder for men to keep a relationship with a woman only at the friendship level

I remember I had a composite sun in the 12th with my piano teacher as well. it feels very peaceful, but the two are always escaping dealing with real (outer) life situations

I have known another man who's born 2 weeks after him, and with him too I seem to have the similar issues. you helped me a while ago with my composite with him if you remember http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/006461.html

I am noticing that pluto/neptune issues seem to be present in all my relations (even those with women). maybe it's because of my own natal chart with a prominent pluto and neptune along other planets. maybe I should surrender to these planets because I am beginning to think that I may never be able to find a relationship which isn't like this, because of who I am myself...do you think it's the right thing to do?

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maybe I should surrender to these planets because I am beginning to think that I may never be able to find a relationship which isn't like this, because of who I am myself...do you think it's the right thing to do?

posted March 05, 2017 06:09 AM            

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Originally posted by todd:
look for a relationship that is initially initiated in a common activity rather that a emotional attraction.then again "love is a battlefield"(pat benatar)so you may just have to trust the fates will respond if you move with lightin your heart.
todd

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beautiful wise words
I'll keep them in mind

thank you again