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Sylven
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posted March 02, 2017 02:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I already posted a little about this two months ago. It's weird. This (new) colleague from work (I have many many colleagues, like 550), extremely amicable as am I started talking to me at the Xmas party at work and we immediately landed in a kind of quirky conversation which was enjoyable. It was only a few moments and then we went home. He said:" we should drink tea together soon!" He has a girlfriend and I have a husband. It's should be strictly fun and friendship. But I never really meet people who are so straight forward, fresh and open. I emailed him about his chart and later on we had a little bit of conversation on whatsapp. Then soon it stopped. Two months later he apps:" we should drink tea, beer or go dancing!" Whaha ... Ok! Wow, wait? Dancing? I am in for anything because I am a fun person and so is he. But let's first drink tea at work. He then asks if I want to go to a masked party of the stepfather of his girlfriend in Amsterdam pub. This was a weird conversation but then again why is this weird? I do love it actually. It's exciting!

So what do you think looking at the charts? Sudden friendship? There is a lot going on. It does feel a little unsettling as well. Uranus sq moon and opp moon, saturn conjunct Venus, Nessus conjunct Sun (wide orb) and what else was there ... Anyway.

I do believe it is only fun and friendship and that he doesn't want anything else. A lot of people don't believe a guy can be friends with a girl. But his thinking is different (Aqua Merc) and me, well ... I think in similar airy places. What do you think?

Hope this link takes you to the charts. Let;s see. I can edit if it doesn't work.
https://www.flickr.com/gp/146871313@N06/zy7u19

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Sylven
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posted March 02, 2017 02:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, on second thought, no I don't think only fun and friendship. I did ask him bluntly if his ex wife betrayed him (since T. Neppy was conjunct his Desc. a few years back). A little to straight forward I guess. But I think we will certainly land in many deep and spiritual conversations. Well, I actually don't like only fun and shallow, I need deep. His Pluto is trine my Moon.

I forgot to tell you, the tea date is tomorrow at 12 PM at work. I am so curious how this will go.

Why is the edit button gone?!!!

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margym0o
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posted March 02, 2017 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't have much to add about how it will go but I must say that composite is amazing! The pattern completion galore is very telling.

I experience something like that once with my ex and had very similar pattern completion in our composite - a very natural, instant, effortless rapport. I've never experienced anything like it and probably won't again. Having said that...my ROMANTIC feelings for him were not very strong, but we did have an amazing friendship. Even when we finally parted ways it was amicable.

Tread carefully with a relationship like this though especially since you are married. It will be hard to ignore the connection you will develop especially as you get to know him better. It might be unforgettable, actually.

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Sylven
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posted March 02, 2017 03:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oooeeeh, really?! I don't want that!! But, if this is my path it is my path. Let's just see how tomorrow goes. Wow, thank you for your insightful answer. Sweet! I don't know much about that pattern completion. I will look into that some more. I do have a lot of connections to people. I love people!!
This does seem different... can't put my finger round it.
Be back later. Yes, effortless, that is a good word.

Thank you again!!

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comdoc
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posted March 02, 2017 06:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for comdoc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Sylven,

93% overall synastry; composite relationship chart 98% made in heaven. What's not to love?

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Sylven
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posted March 03, 2017 12:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WT#?!! What? Really?? Now, that scares me!! I think I will cancel tea. Just kidding. How did you calculate that?

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Sylven
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posted March 03, 2017 08:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well it seems you're right!! I had tea with him for an hour and if it wasn't for my appointment it would have probab;y lasted longer. It was ... PERFECT!!! We inspire each otheris what I feel, we are very similar yet complementary and probably somewhere also different but exciting different. He likes similar things and thinks similar. Spiritual as well. It was so very enjoyable! He is a very nice and passionate inspiring person who loves people just like me. Likes dressing up, out of the box, adventure and good movies and educating books. I am very fortunate!!

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Sylven
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posted March 03, 2017 08:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel he really really understands me. Wauw!!

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featherlightly
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posted March 03, 2017 08:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for featherlightly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Holy cow, that's some awesome synastry!

Your Jupiter is on his north node and your north node is RIGHT on his descendant and also his sun -- dang. You have a really strong soul-pull to each other, a ton of growth and learning to help each other with. This looks like a very exciting connection.

The one thing I will say is that I'd be very surprised if there isn't any sexual undercurrent here, which could get tricky since neither of you are 'available' to let that play out physically. Moon conjunct Mars is HOT and creates a very primal attraction that doesn't necessarily *have* to be sexual, but can very easily tip in that direction. And when it doesn't have a physical outlet, it can sometimes manifest as eventual frustration/pent-up tension/arguing/etc. (especially in an air sign like you have). And his Mars in your 5th, Venus in your 8th, Mars opposition Venus and Venus square Mars... yeah. Just be aware that if either of your partnerships are struggling or unstable right now (or in the near future), your connection with this man could be the instigator of a breakup or affair (even just an emotional affair, which is trickier to realize is happening). Especially given the Neptune/Venus/moon T-square in the composite near the angles that can give a hidden or 'forbidden fruit' element. Just be careful! And clear about intentions. No matter how this connection manifests, there's a lot there that both of you can benefit from. How exciting!

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featherlightly
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posted March 03, 2017 08:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for featherlightly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also makes sense that you met through your job -- his sun is in your 6th house and your moon is in his 6th house.

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Sylven
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posted March 04, 2017 03:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aaaah, featherlightly thank you so much for taking the time and talk to me!! Sweetness!!

Yeah, I KNOW!!! All those supposedly sexual aspects. Pffieuw!! I was wondering about that too. Pluto trine Moon and the Uranus trine Mars double whammy. All I have noticed so far is that it really makes me incredibly HAPPY and INSPIRED and touches me spiritually!!! I love how we clicked on all those levels. No sexual current, at least not on my side. THank god. But I have been feeling and thinking if I really don't feel that. Maybe it sounds crazy but ... I was imagining how it would feel but it's not really there. I do feel closeness and a lot of outworldly things. As if we don't need that. So it is a really stimulating and inspiring connection. Sjeez, he is just perfect! But, luckily I don't (yet) feel the typical romance feel. Have to make sure it will stay that way. I love how some people can touch you on different layers, I am too curious for that. My spiritual path has always been my number one important thing. I wonder where this will go. He wil send me a really awesome book which he is reading right now. About someone who can exsist in different places at the same time. Like left and right brain connection etc.. Wow, I want more of the conversation we had. I love the mental contact we had. It's super exciting!

Yeah the nodes are cool aren't they?! And I do love the Sun/Moon square. It's stimulating.

Anyway, I still cannot decide if I should go with him and his gf to the masked party. It would feel awkward and I am not sure why? Maybe because I don't want to impose, what will the gf think? Hmm ...

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Sylven
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posted March 04, 2017 08:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can anyone say who feels what and what first? If you can answer such a question as I think it is two way game.

This all makes me love life and everyone in it even more. It strengthens everything I am and was feeling. It's delicious!!

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Sylven
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posted March 04, 2017 03:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would really like to edit what I have written. I am so impulsive and quick and always so loving it all and everyone. I feel this may give a wrong picture. I am a bubbly person and write from the heart but I want it gone now! Or add some nuances. Anyway, I am only interested in this man as a friend!!!

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Sylven
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posted March 05, 2017 03:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What do you think about the angels? What's the difference of feeling for both of us? North node and Neptune conjunct his angels and for example trine personal planets (Moon and Merc) to my MC. I mean I have learned both angles should be touched for it to be a two way thing. Touched in a different way?

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Sylven
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posted March 05, 2017 03:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am nicely spamming my own thread here.

I remember Moon/Mars is hot. There once was a guy i used to kiss with a few times. Only kissing, no relationship or sex. He was a PIsces, venus in Aries and Mars in Aqua. The kissing was off the charts and was very very hot!!! If not THE best kisser ever!!

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manderin
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posted March 05, 2017 11:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Conjunctions to the south node do this... but they can eventually become draining also.

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Sylven
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posted March 05, 2017 11:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What do you mean exactly. What can do what?
I know of south node in synastry can become draining.

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Sylven
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posted March 11, 2017 09:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Sylven
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posted March 11, 2017 10:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Sylven
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posted March 19, 2017 07:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by comdoc:
Hi Sylven,

93% overall synastry; composite relationship chart 98% made in heaven. What's not to love?


Comdoc and margym0o, I guess you're right! I simply love this man (and his friends and girl friend)!! No choice. It is just so perfectly delish! Hard to put into words, it's nothing I have experienced before. It feels lovely pure and simple, no complicatedness The masked party and me being welcomed to the group was amazing! Eccentric and lot's of fun. Totally fit in and at home. Instant friends ... yeah!

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