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Topic: Uh Oh, Venus Retrograde, and the Pisces Problem.
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Mergoatsun
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Registered: Aug 2015
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posted March 06, 2017 05:10 PM
  
All my past relationships have been with Pisces, and they always seem to be attracted to me, especially during a Venus Retrograde. I'm currently trying to break up with my soon to be ex-fiance because of personal reasons he has done. I was not expecting anything to pop up, but at a networking event, I was approached by a Pisces gentlemen and now I can't get him out of my head!!! He is definitely not like other Pisces I've dealt with though.We have amazing sexual tension, but of course I haven't so much as kissed him yet until I break up with my current significant other. However, this is so unlinke me! I normally approach love with a detached notion, and certainly don't feel this way about someone else when I'm with someone. I have never felt this way about another person before when first meeting them, and it's crazy to me. He seems very interested, but also very elusive and possibly not so much interested in me as I am in him. I feel extremely guilty, but I can't help feeling this way. Even though I know you're not supposed to do anything rash during a Venus retrograde, I want to. I've attached our synastry (the first chart), our composite (the second), his natal (the third), and my natal. Hopefully someone can find some clues, and possibly how this might end up. I'm constantly thinking about him, but I don't think he feels the same. Is it the Venus-Pluto contacts? The Mars-Venus contact? The Mars conjunction? The Uranus conjunct Venus? Any advice is helpful. I know my Mars conjunct his Venus in Synastry is a powerful attractor, and I seem to be the aggressor, is this why I seem to be more into him than he is into me? Do you think he is into me?     IP: Logged |
mir
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posted March 06, 2017 08:57 PM
Interesting lunar phases again;Moons sextile
Suns sextile Both natal Sun/Moon midpoints conjunt/opp. at 24-25 Aries/Libra. So, that's a same-aspect Sun/Moon DW of 140 deg (semi novile family).
Tightly connected to that 'S/M midpoint degree' is his Saturn/Mars conjunct your Neptune, which square it. This might suggest he's controlling your dreams about him and the sense he's not that into you or even an elusive vibe from his side (your neptune is interpreting). Taking both your vedic Moon signs (23 deg minus western moon sign), your Moon is vasya to his', you would give your life for him as a matter of speaking. You can find my Vasya thread on the Vedic board. Vasya means 'subjected to' another person. IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun
Knowflake Posts: 1002
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Registered: Aug 2015
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posted March 06, 2017 09:05 PM
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Originally posted by mir:
Interesting lunar phases again;Moons sextile
Suns sextile Both natal Sun/Moon midpoints conjunt/opp. at 24-25 Aries/Libra. So, that's a same-aspect Sun/Moon DW of 140 deg (semi novile family).
Tightly connected to that 'S/M midpoint degree' is his Saturn/Mars conjunct your Neptune, which square it. This might suggest he's controlling your dreams about him and the sense he's not that into you or even an elusive vibe from his side (your neptune is interpreting). Taking both your vedic Moon signs (23 deg minus western moon sign), your Moon is vasya to his', you would give your life for him as a matter of speaking. You can find my Vasya thread on the Vedic board. Vasya means 'subjected to' another person.
Hmm, very interesting, thank you. Do you think he's controlling my dreams and being elusive on purpose? Or do you just think he's not into me? I'll check out your vedic thread, I don't know much about Vedic astrology but from I've seen, it's always very accurate. IP: Logged |
mir
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posted March 06, 2017 09:32 PM
No, it's just his nature (Saturn/Mars square Sun/Moon midpoint) and the nature coming up in relating to *you* (conjunct Neptune). It's pretty amazing when having both Sun/Moon midpoints aligned like yours too. I think he's into you. Just seeing which way the cat jumps.IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun
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posted March 06, 2017 09:49 PM
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Originally posted by mir:
No, it's just his nature (Saturn/Mars square Sun/Moon midpoint) and the nature coming up in relating to *you* (conjunct Neptune). It's pretty amazing when having both Sun/Moon midpoints aligned like yours too. I think he's into you. Just seeing which way the cat jumps.
Can you elaborate on the shy the Sun/Moon midpoint is special between us? I think he's "seeing which way the cat jumps" too, but it's annoying to me because I want him to chase me but it seems like something is holding him back, and it's frustrating for me because I feel like I'm being the chaser. IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun
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posted March 07, 2017 02:24 PM
I don't understand him at all and it's so frustrating! I thought I had gotten my answer last night because he said he doesn't develop personal feelings easily after I said I felt something different with him. But then this morning he texted me first with a cheesy pick up line about how I make his heart skip a beat? Ugh.IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted March 08, 2017 04:26 AM
I think you have an intense synastry with all these conjunctions (but sun-neptune can be tricky and neptune-saturn is considered a major karmic marker, google it)... plus Pluto-Moon, Pluto-Venus, leading to obsession and lose of control that can be scary, especially for men. Plus you are both Saturn-Venus individuals... to me it shows a love-wound and low self-esteem.Id say keep him at the distance until your relationship is over. Im cappy and I always always attract pisces men and fall for them. This is a good combo. Pisces can be very elusive though, give him time and build a friendship first. Sometimes they need the woman to make a move, as much as I hate to say it... at least to show their steady interest. IP: Logged |
Gracha
Knowflake Posts: 361
From: NY USA
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted March 08, 2017 05:31 PM
You can not be serious...I didnt really look at the chart but to break up with your fiancé over a crush is just, no words. It's venus retrograde, your feelings will mostly change once it goes direct.IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun
Knowflake Posts: 1002
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posted March 08, 2017 05:52 PM
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Originally posted by Gracha:
You can not be serious...I didnt really look at the chart but to break up with your fiancé over a crush is just, no words. It's venus retrograde, your feelings will mostly change once it goes direct.
You can't be serious. Clearly you didn't read the whole post. I was breaking up with him way before I met my "crush." He became abusive and I learned that he cheated on me with multiple women multiple times. Not exactly someone I want to marry. I've been trying to break up with him for a while, but I need everything together before I do it because he is terrifying when angry. I wasn't looking for anyone, but my "crush" popped up and hit on me. IP: Logged |
Gracha
Knowflake Posts: 361
From: NY USA
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted March 09, 2017 01:54 PM
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Originally posted by Mergoatsun:
You can't be serious. Clearly you didn't read the whole post. I was breaking up with him way before I met my "crush." He became abusive and I learned that he cheated on me with multiple women multiple times. Not exactly someone I want to marry. I've been trying to break up with him for a while, but I need everything together before I do it because he is terrifying when angry. I wasn't looking for anyone, but my "crush" popped up and hit on me.
Uh huh, whatever you say. The best!
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