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Topic: Analyzing your synastry with someone new can be dangerous?
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fatatabata
Knowflake Posts: 101
From: Paris - France
Registered: Jun 2016
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posted March 13, 2017 02:45 PM
  
Hi everyone, those words are not mine; they belong to Margym0o, who just wrote that on another topic here. That sentence rang a bell in my head. Is it what I also think? Better not to read / analyze a synastry with someone new, 'cause this could create hopes or just the opposite, soon before the relationship has the time to naturally unfold, for the better or for the worst?What all of you think about it? Please share your thoughts with me IP: Logged |
Iridia
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posted March 13, 2017 03:13 PM
It can be dangerous to those who are not skilled or/and wise enough. And then we should remember that even the best of the best can fail at interpreting the stars. Astrology is a very complex art and the human mind has its limitations.IP: Logged |
margym0o
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From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted March 13, 2017 03:16 PM
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Originally posted by Iridia:
It can be dangerous to those who are not skilled or/and wise enough.
A lot of people aren't. IP: Logged |
Iridia
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posted March 13, 2017 03:24 PM
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Originally posted by margym0o:
A lot of people aren't.
Yep. Be glad you're not one of them  (hopefully)
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fatatabata
Knowflake Posts: 101
From: Paris - France
Registered: Jun 2016
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posted March 13, 2017 04:29 PM
Yes I agree with you.
Especially since Synastry is supposed to analyze how energies could work with each other and not how they WILL.Do you think the same could be said for the Composite chart? IP: Logged |
meyray
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posted March 13, 2017 06:01 PM
I think of astrology as something you apply to yourself not something you apply yourself to - meaning you don'try to act on what you see and have it blindly guide you, rather you see if it is relevant to your situation and try to get what useful information you can from it that might help you.Synastry is only "dangerous" if you are weak-minded and you want to place responsibility on something else. Granted no one can remain completely unbiased when they see something intense in a synastry but whether they let that discourage them is from that moment on them only. As for composites I don't believe there is such a thing as a composite chart between strangers or even people dating. The composite is supposed to be the essence of your relationship and there can't be a chart if there is no established relationship. And it's silly to judge an imaginary union let alone make decisions based off something hypothetical. IP: Logged |
fatatabata
Knowflake Posts: 101
From: Paris - France
Registered: Jun 2016
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posted March 13, 2017 06:43 PM
@meyray
Oh là là! So, you think that Composite should not be analysed before a committed/longtime bond is created? Like after getting married? Like after having dated for - say - 4 years?
Please add few elements to your statements, I'm interested.And as for Synastry, what I also can't make my mind clear upon yet is: is it "dangerous" to start searching and analysing it, long before any real relationship is etablished? And, mind it, I don't make reference to silly people unable to think straight, weak-minded as you called them. I'm thinking here to normal, skilled, evolved and mature persons. IP: Logged |
meyray
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posted March 13, 2017 07:30 PM
For the composite - I think a relationship needs to settle upon itself first. It doesn't necessarily mean after a fixed amount of time or getting married just long enough for people to actually form a companionship. Because when you're strangers you don't really have any kind of relationship and while you're in the first stages of dating/courting you're still getting to know each other, you're trying to impress each other, you're not being your unfiltered everyday self and you still "don't" have a relationship. Once you become a couple and start functioning like one your composite activates (allegedly, to be completely honest......I don't even believe in composites that much, lol)As for the synastry, yeah....there will always be bias when you take a peak. But like I said, what happens after depends on what you decide. I guess the answer is not to take it too seriously.  I apologize if I sounded too harsh in my first post. There can be a tone problem when you don't add smilies to a post, haha. IP: Logged |
Beautiful_Light
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Registered: Nov 2016
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posted March 14, 2017 12:39 PM
I think it's more advantageous to analyze a synastry or composite chart than not. But be realistic. Just because you have many love aspects with a person, does not mean you will end up with them.IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher
Knowflake Posts: 1492
From: United States
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 14, 2017 05:54 PM
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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
I think it's more advantageous to analyze a synastry or composite chart than not. But be realistic. Just because you have many love aspects with a person, does not mean you will end up with them.
AGREED! I have a BEAUTIFUL synastry with a man ,I mean almost damn near "angels singing " beautiful lol, and yet, it cannot get off the ground due to each of our INDIVIDUAL issues. So while the ingredients are there, it's not going the way it"should" I also was with a man for many years and we had an OK synastry, but a pretty bad looking composite...well back then I did not know what I know now- having said that, the composite played out pretty darn exact! With the negative aspects only really showing themselves over an eight-year living together period....so basically, I have 100% faith in composites....while synastry only 1/2 (again this has been my experience) IP: Logged |
Lerena
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posted March 14, 2017 11:12 PM
I'm not sure how dangerous it is, but without a bit of experience, you won't know much about how the synastry is going to manifest. Not all synastry is going to end up being romantic, for example. Some synastry is just between friends so you can't just assume that all synastry will play out the same way. A lot of things depend upon the kind of interactions you have with someone and just looking at the synastry between you and another person without first establishing a meaningful connection can be damaging if you jump to conclusions. IP: Logged |
Beautiful_Light
Knowflake Posts: 205
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Registered: Nov 2016
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posted March 15, 2017 11:48 AM
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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
AGREED! I have a BEAUTIFUL synastry with a man ,I mean almost damn near "angels singing " beautiful lol, and yet, it cannot get off the ground due to each of our INDIVIDUAL issues. So while the ingredients are there, it's not going the way it"should"I also was with a man for many years and we had an OK synastry, but a pretty bad looking composite...well back then I did not know what I know now- having said that, the composite played out pretty darn exact! With the negative aspects only really showing themselves over an eight-year living together period....so basically, I have 100% faith in composites....while synastry only 1/2 (again this has been my experience)
That's fascinating! Thanks for your input . That confirms what I believe about the importance of composite charts. Once in a relationship, I believe they become more important than the synastry, which is what draws two people together. With aspects as well, it's also tricky sometimes discerning what can be a long-term thing versus more fated/"karmic".
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fatatabata
Knowflake Posts: 101
From: Paris - France
Registered: Jun 2016
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posted March 15, 2017 01:24 PM
Just like DreamC and Beautiful_L, I also do believe in Composite, altough I've just recently started reading them!
What I was fearing, is that Synastry (but also Composite) make you start projecting hopes, wishes and fears onto the other person or, worst, onto the relationship itself!
Or else, there MUST be a reason why you feel the urge to scan the Synastry (or the Composite, for that matter) with that person...and that, even if the relatiobship is not unfolding as a romantic relationship....hmmmIP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
Knowflake Posts: 1083
From: Durham north carolina usa
Registered: May 2015
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posted March 19, 2017 01:13 AM
I do think you have to have a strong mind to read something and not allow it to create a bias on your situation. I have seen some of the worst synastries that should not work, work out because two people loved each other enough to stick it out. According to books and other things, they should not even be together or it advises not to be together. I have also seen where two charts of two people were perfect for each other the two people just didn't really care for the other, maybe things were too easy? IDK.... Anyway, I think astrology is best used for a tool to see energy between two people, potential blockages to be understood and worked around. IP: Logged |
fatatabata
Knowflake Posts: 101
From: Paris - France
Registered: Jun 2016
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posted March 20, 2017 08:52 PM
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Anyway, I think astrology is best used for a tool to see energy between two people, potential blockages to be understood and worked around.
Yes, that's a good point, thank you. Like, taking out our Astro books only once the REAL relationship has begun IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 27, 2017 03:19 PM
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Originally posted by fatatabata:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
[b] Anyway, I think astrology is best used for a tool to see energy between two people, potential blockages to be understood and worked around.
Yes, that's a good point, thank you. Like, taking out our Astro books only once the REAL relationship has begun [/B][/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
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