posted March 17, 2017 04:14 PM
may take is that he is simply into a physical relationship and not concerned about long-term or emotional intimacy.eris is conjunct the vertex which shows the strong carnal focus of the chart
the sun/moon midpoint is sqiuare to the mars/eros and psyche eros midpoints.
this does show that there is a very romantic and idealist attraction at the base of the relationship.amore on the descendant tends to shows a lovers interest in each other.
but pluto is opposed to Eris and the vertex and square to Nessus. this really increases the carnal and selfish nature of the relationship to the degree that this pattern would overwhelm the mars/venus midpoint on the node.
juno conjunct the node and trine to Jupiter certiainly brings feelings of commitmwent and even matrriage, but as yuonoted,it is likely that she has these feelings much more than he does.
with the sun conjunct to pluto and the moon/satrun midpoint conjunct to the sun and pluto, there is a overwhelming selfishness in this chart.when this degree of selfishness exists ,it is nearly impossible for a committed relationship to form because there is no compulsion to make compromise or be concern about the partners feelings and needs.
I also notice that the Saturn/Neptune midpoint is square to Jupiter which bodes that he may be misleading here with regards to his sincerity about taking the relationship to a commitment level.
the mars/pluto midpoint is conjunct to Saturn which again reflects great selfishness and bases desires, not to mention a tendency for him to become controlling and domineering.
with the sun conjunct to pluto and square to nessus,there are underlying abusive issues here.one suggestion is that she has had a abusive childhood, maybe blocked ,and therefore can not sense when there is a abusive streak in her relationships.
there is no question about the idealistic and ethereal feelings of love, but it seems the aspects of selfishness far out weigh these romantic hopes.
interestingly the node has been square to the asteroid union for the last couple of months. this may imply that there were/are currently trying to form a committed relationship.
you might use the true lilth(h13) rather than the mean Lilith.
todd