posted April 03, 2017 08:05 PM            

I have a friend and lover from my past , he has kinda resurfaced in my life but not available. We do seem to talk every now and then , well I am wondering what anyone can make out our charts and what significance we are to each others lives?

posted April 03, 2017 08:38 PM            

Colorful butterfly on the outside circle
Partner on the inside circle

posted April 05, 2017 03:12 AM            

I see you also share the opposition of Moon/Sun(yours).So this could be the reason for the bonding as Cap/Cancer are drawn to each other.

But there is more;

Venus/Sun sextile double whammy
Mars(urs)/Venus square which suggests intellectual rapport(since both are ruled by Mercury) and add to that,Merc/Jupiter in Leo(urs) conjunct his Mars- Exciting conversations

Both of you have Saturn/Leo sextile natally.

Uranus/Jupiter square(u)
Uranus/Jupiter conjunct in Sag(him)

Neptune-Venus opposition(u)
Neptune Venus trine(wide orb for him)

Mars-Saturn square(you)
Mars-Saturn square(him)

Saturn/True Node conjunct(u)
Saturn/True Node trine(him)

Chiron-Sun square(him)
Chiron-Sun sextile(u)

Chiron-Jupiter opposition(him)
Chiron-Jupiter square(you)

Chiron-Uranus opposition(you)
Chiron-Uranus opposition(him)

True Node sextile Sun(you)
True Node sextile Sun(him)

You have much in common but Saturn is strong in his chart(ruling the Moon and aspecting Sun,Venus,Mars and the nodal axis)

Come to see this chart again, I now understand why he had the tendency of seeing things in a very bleak manner (despite the Sun being in Leo).Pluto-Sat conjunct with Venus/Mars/Sun in all that,is tough.

Pluto-conjunct to Saturn is a power aspect usually sought outside of the individual because they may feel "unworthy"-especially when Chiron-Venus are in Square like in his case.

Add to that the restrictive Saturn on Venus/Mars and frustration from the Pluto -Venus-Mars aspect can certainly build up.

He does not have water- emotions are hard for him to express.

You have your Uranus in Scorpio squaring his Sun- you may inspire him as Uranus serves to start a spark.

Because of the many aspects you two have in common, there is empathy and resonance you may feel for each other. You see his struggles and obstacles and you empathize.

It is also noteworthy to see that Venus in Virgo is square Chiron in Gemini (inferiority complex when it comes to smarts).

And yet you have your Chiron in Venus-ruled Taurus?And that Chiron in Taurus also trines his Moon. So you can sooth him(yay!!!) as you have the magic(Chiron) touch(Taurus)

His Chiron squares your Saturn and conjuncts your Mars- and this often suggests that he may break-off or breakaway from you.

His Chiron trines your Moon. So you two have a Chiron double whammy Moon aspect.

I don't think of this union as particularly "fun".There could be an air of seriousness and heaviness with Chiron/Saturn/Moon being involved like this.

There are emotional wounds, healing and a lot of possible obligations you feel to take care of each other-despite the push-pull dynamic that is suggest by Chiron aspects.

posted April 05, 2017 01:10 PM            

There are quite a lot of nice Venus aspects, good Mercury aspects, and at least one Lunar (your Moon contra-parallel his Venus=positive). Knowing his birth time would really help fill out the picture, but you are starting with some really good synastry here.

Even one 'negative' aspect, your Saturn conjunct his Venus, allows for commitment. He'll be able to appreciate your work ethic and support your ambitions and organization. Just a couple words of caution about not getting too nitpicky or overly-attentive -- and especially not controlling with his personal liberty. Your Saturn in Virgo conjunct his Venus there, and square his Uranus in Sagittarius speak to that. Your Uranus square his Sun indicates to me that this may not be a conventional tie-the-knot relationship. So I advise not expecting that. Look instead for how you can break away from demanding routines and home life and enjoy some adventure together!

The purpose: I think it is knowing that a future can be built together based on love and kindness itself, mutual appreciation. Those Venus/Node aspects are desirable to anyone.

posted April 05, 2017 11:57 PM            

I am not sure how he sees or feels about me outside of being a friend. I think he is adorable and soooo attractive! I have always enjoyed my time with him and yes, it is defiantly not been a conventional relation between the two of us. I defiantly had fun being with him when we did spend time together and I really enjoyed his company.

I do try not to nitpick about things but I know I can be really funny about how a guy treats me. He can be a little illusive at times and I would have liked to have seen him more but I do my best to understand things and for the most part I do.

I do really miss him sometimes, thought on him a lot but didn't want him to feel pressured so I kept a lot of my own feelings inside. I understand he had to do what he thought was best for him, I have been in the same situation before and I know making those decisions were not easy to do.