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DreamCatcher
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posted April 07, 2017 10:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,
I would be so grateful if someone(s) could give me an opinion on this synastry/composite?
So the energy between us as always been "Thick" . It's a family friend and we are both currently single and have met up again....it feels good, just wondering what tis synastry and composite say to you? Thanks so much! I'm on the inside, he's on the outside...both exact times

Synastry:

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posted April 07, 2017 11:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The synastry looks great..I mean, highly obsessive

but seriously, he has his hook on you with this Saturn of his conjucting your Venus, and then he has his claws on you with his Pluto squaring your Venus. Your Pluto also opposes his Mars but not sure of the orb. ...and theen you have his Venus conjuncting your Mars which is the hottest ever aspect, especially in combination with the aforementioned aspects, only that YOU will have to be the one that does all the work of seduction and convincing, while he sits there tapping his foot under the table.
His Venus also conjuncts your Juppy, and that's such a great benevolent, forgiving aspect to share between two people.
Your Moons are also in perfect trine. Adorable.

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posted April 07, 2017 11:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Orange:
The synastry looks great..I mean, highly obsessive

but seriously, he has his hook on you with this Saturn of his conjucting your Venus, and then he has his claws on you with his Pluto squaring your Venus. Your Pluto also opposes his Mars but not sure of the orb. ...and theen you have his Venus conjuncting your Mars which is the hottest ever aspect, especially in combination with the aforementioned aspects, only that YOU will have to be the one that does all the work of seduction and convincing, while he sits there tapping his foot under the table.
His Venus also conjuncts your Juppy, and that's such a great benevolent, forgiving aspect to share between two people.
Your Moons are also in perfect trine. Adorable.


HI Orange! Thanks so much- you've described the feelings perfectly. With the Venus conjunct my mars- am I more attracted to him? Because I can literally FEEL that he wants to jump my bones HHAAA. OR maybe I an projecting? When you say he's tapping his foot under the table, you mean he's waiting or he;s unsure?

And wondering since my Mars falls in his 8th....is that more felt by me as the planet person? Sorry for all the questions!!!

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posted April 08, 2017 12:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
for Mars Venus aspect, Mars is the one who chases, Venus is the one who receives it ( and wants it too) ..tapping his foot under the table means he is impatiently waiting for you to come after him. lol.
very strong sexual attraction here in this synastry
with planets disposing into someone's house, the house person is the one who gets stirred by the planet person, so the house person is the one who feels it.
Your Neptune also conjuncts his ASC, so he is totally oblivious to any of your shortcomings, he sees you in the way you want him to see you

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posted April 08, 2017 07:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Orange. We shall see- I don't like to be the initiator, but I don't how long I can control it this time! HA! The mars/venus is really being felt here by me

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posted April 08, 2017 09:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey, Dream

what is your email addy? if you don't mind. I have a tarot question, if you will

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posted April 08, 2017 11:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Orange:
hey, Dream

what is your email addy? if you don't mind. I have a tarot question, if you will


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posted April 08, 2017 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
got it, thank you

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posted April 09, 2017 02:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just a friendly bump if Todd or comdoc or anyone else come around

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posted April 10, 2017 06:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also- wondering about Saturn/Venus- Some say its good/some say it's not...I guess I will need to experience it...

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posted April 11, 2017 05:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Just a friendly bump if Todd or comdoc or anyone else come around

bumptidy bump
if you have time you might add a composite with the whole shehang ...vertex,juno,ceres ,pallas,eris,ixion,,orcus,eros (16) psyche(433) ture Lilith(hi3), sedna,nessus,pholous

if not I will make do with the given composite tomorrow.
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posted April 11, 2017 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks so much Todd! I've added the asteroids...

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posted April 12, 2017 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

vertex on the descendant/ascendant axis gives the chart a otherworldly connection. similar unusual experiences etc.

venus square the node gives a very strong affection between you.
amore on the ascendant can give a romantic sparkle.
eris is square the sun/Venus and mars/venus midpoint which really puts a strong physical attraction into the mix.
with pluto opposed to eris and square the midpoints, the sexual attraction is extremely overwhelming though pluto usually detracts from the emotional sensitivity.
this may be the "thickness" you speak of.

mercury is opposed to Neptune and square the ascendant which usually is a deceptive aspect. it shows complications and it not very transparent about the aims of the relationship.it may be that any liaison would have to be kept secret .

most troubling for a serious relationship is that the moon is square to Saturn and opposed to Uranus. this is a strong indication that this would be unstable and not last.
with chiron conjunct the south node and square to venus, there is a very critical feeling to the relationship.
on the positve side it gives a need to totally understand each others every thought and action and feeling.
but on the negative side ,if tensions or arguments arise, this aspect can be devastating because you would both know each others weakness.

I impression is that the driving force here is essential sexual and carnal, and with the inherent instability of Uranus/moon/Saturn, ad the veiled understanding of the Neptune/mercury opposition, that this would lead to a very intense sexual hookup but would be off and on and secretive.

that not to say this could become serious but with the venus/Jupiter midpoint conjunct to lust and the Venus/pluto midpoint conjunct to union, the underlying attraction will always be sexual and not emotional intimacy.
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posted April 12, 2017 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow todd. Sounds about right. It is quite overwhelming. It's like when we see each other we have to gear up to say hello , if that makes sense? Like I've watched his demeanor totally change when I first come around , to totally trying to be controlled. It's like it's so palpable that I often feel others feel the pings of sexual attraction. I was hoping for some potential longevity given the compatible moons, but I do realize that the composite trumps all. Oh - and I could also see why this relationship would maybe be a secret, as we are part of a circle that is similar and it could be complicated , although not impossible. Thanks so much Todd. I have to ask : does if show the severity of the attraction , like is it equal attraction , or am I feeling it more or him ? I often wonder that.

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posted April 13, 2017 02:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This synastry is a mixed bag of 13 positive/supportive aspects to 12 negative/challenging ones (planets, nodes only). There are some definite good aspects such as your Moon trine his and opposite his Venus (a bit wide at 6° orb), your Mars conjunct his Venus, your Uranus trine his Mercury, as well as your Jupiter & Mars parallel his Venus, your Uranus parallel his Jupiter, among others.

The Jupiter-Mars parallel to his Venus probably makes the potentials of this relationship with its pronounced affections and chemistry to be too enticing to resist.

Of concern are your Saturn parallel his Mars; your Pluto square his Mars, and your Venus square his Pluto, which are factors contributing to the "thick" energy between you, enhanced by the other positive aspects. However, added to your Pluto conjunct his Uranus, and your N.Node parallel his Pluto, it looks like this relational dynamic could mean profound/intense interaction flirting with upheaval.

Certainly such a dynamic could awaken things in both of you, but how long is such a dynamic sustainable, and will you like the relationship past its initial stages?

Your Venus conjunct his Saturn, though considered a challenging aspect, gives some potential for something lasting, as well as the Moon/Saturn/Mars to Node aspects. The needs for Mercury, Venus, Moon aspects for a well-rounded relationship are fulfilled by this synastry with enough Jupiter factors to elicit some definite optimism.

How will you handle the hard Pluto aspects? Those energies are only best domesticated slowly over time and with a willingness to engage the full depth of their implications of each of you acting as transformative influence upon the other. Otherwise what you have is an exploratory relationship of warmth, heat, awakening, and personal transformation that may serve as a catalyst for later growth apart as suggested by the mutability in your chart and in the composite.

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posted April 13, 2017 09:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
This synastry is a mixed bag of 13 positive/supportive aspects to 12 negative/challenging ones (planets, nodes only). There are some definite good aspects such as your Moon trine his and opposite his Venus (a bit wide at 6° orb), your Mars conjunct his Venus, your Uranus trine his Mercury, as well as your Jupiter & Mars parallel his Venus, your Uranus parallel his Jupiter, among others.

The Jupiter-Mars parallel to his Venus probably makes the potentials of this relationship with its pronounced affections and chemistry to be too enticing to resist.

Of concern are your Saturn parallel his Mars; your Pluto square his Mars, and your Venus square his Pluto, which are factors contributing to the "thick" energy between you, enhanced by the other positive aspects. However, added to your Pluto conjunct his Uranus, and your N.Node parallel his Pluto, it looks like this relational dynamic could mean profound/intense interaction flirting with upheaval.

Certainly such a dynamic could awaken things in both of you, but how long is such a dynamic sustainable, and will you like the relationship past its initial stages?

Your Venus conjunct his Saturn, though considered a challenging aspect, gives some potential for something lasting, as well as the Moon/Saturn/Mars to Node aspects. The needs for Mercury, Venus, Moon aspects for a well-rounded relationship are fulfilled by this synastry with enough Jupiter factors to elicit some definite optimism.

How will you handle the hard Pluto aspects? Those energies are only best domesticated slowly over time and with a willingness to engage the full depth of their implications of each of you acting as transformative influence upon the other. Otherwise what you have is an exploratory relationship of warmth, heat, awakening, and personal transformation that may serve as a catalyst for later growth apart as suggested by the mutability in your chart and in the composite.


Thank you for this! I can definitely feel the Pluto aspects, this makes a ton of sense. I'm not very plutonian, more Venusian if you will- the intensity of Pluto is something that I crave, yet scares the pants off of me! Upheaval- yes that sounds about right. One move by me instigating- and upheaval will likely happen......lets see where this goes..

I guess I wonder if you can tell who feels the intensity more ? Or sincce this synastry, I imagine we both do?

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posted April 13, 2017 05:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Wow todd. Sounds about right. It is quite overwhelming. It's like when we see each other we have to gear up to say hello , if that makes sense? Like I've watched his demeanor totally change when I first come around , to totally trying to be controlled. It's like it's so palpable that I often feel others feel the pings of sexual attraction. I was hoping for some potential longevity given the compatible moons, but I do realize that the composite trumps all. Oh - and I could also see why this relationship would maybe be a secret, as we are part of a circle that is similar and it could be complicated , although not impossible. Thanks so much Todd. I have to ask : does if show the severity of the attraction , like is it equal attraction , or am I feeling it more or him ? I often wonder that.

iwould say you both feel the intensity but not in the same way. his feelings would focus on the physical and his own satisfaction where as you focus on the sexuality and the hope the emotional intimacy becomes stronger because of the physical intensity
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posted April 13, 2017 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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iwould say you both feel the intensity but not in the same way. his feelings would focus on the physical and his own satisfaction where as you focus on the sexuality and the hope the emotional intimacy becomes stronger because of the physical intensity
todd

It's always something ! Lol. I
I'm Starting to feel that maybe the sparks are overrated
But then , without the physical, I feel like my soul is suffering. I dunno anymore .... I will just ride the wave and see what happens ...

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His NN is in your 8th house and close to his Pluto and Venus midpoint. What asteroids of yours are close to his NN and Regulus?

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posted April 14, 2017 08:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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His NN is in your 8th house and close to his Pluto and Venus midpoint. What asteroids of yours are close to his NN and Regulus?

I'm not sure

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posted April 22, 2017 09:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just wanted to mention, I saw "him" last night at a party....when other people are around us, it's so difficult for me to maintain a functioning conversation with him! I feel as if all eyes are on us! I'm thinking this is the Venus/Mars at work...as usual, once the initial "heaviness" wears off. and a drink is involved, he makes his way over to me and we can actually talk...but the sexual tension is INSANE! Once we start talking, we don't stop and need to be pried away from each other. Is it odd that I enjoy the tension more than I have the desire for him at this moment in time? LOL

He is playing out the Venus role right now for SURE- it's quite obvious he wants me , but I'm likely going to have to initiate. I've been told "he's crazy about you but has zero confidence" . Not too sure I like the sounds of that...Just wanted to share

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posted April 27, 2017 06:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you seen him since the party?

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posted April 27, 2017 07:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Have you seen him since the party?

No Randall , I haven't

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posted May 08, 2017 07:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Still, no?

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posted May 11, 2017 08:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Still, no?

No Randall.

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