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Amonuet
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posted April 10, 2017 03:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amonuet     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could this actually be him, or is he just another karmic bond? At the moment I am feeling my myself confused between him and another. This probably lies within the fact that I have met so many of my soulmates already within such a short lifetime...and it is hard to believe there could be a real one singular soul 'twin' out there.

I don't know where to begin. With the synchronicity? The weird birth dates? How intensely attracted I am to him? How he shares the same rare Maori ancestry as my son? How I just noticed that "My Twin," by my favorite band, Katatonia, is playing while I write this?

Some aspects that reinforced my suspicions?

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My Pluto trines his Venus. (3°18)
My Venus conjucts his Pluto. (3°15')
My Sun conjucts his Uranus. (5°48')
My Venus trines his Mars. (0°55')
My Sun is opposite his Venus. (1°37')
My Venus is opposite his Sun. ( 1°07')
My Ascendant trines his Pluto. (5°41')
My Neptune is opposite his Venus.(0°29')
My Midheaven trines his Mercury. (3°28')
My Venus is opposite his moon. (5°59)
My Sun conjucts his Neptune. (8°51')

Aspects I couldn't find much info on, or I found perplexing:

My N.node squares his Uranus. (3°43')
My N.node squares his Neptune. (0°40')
My N.node squares his Mars. (5°47')
My Lilith conjucts his Venus. (2°53)
My Pluto conjucts his Pluto. (9°27')
My Mars trines his Mars (0°07)
Mercury Trine Mercury (2°21')
My AC is opposite his Moon (1°22)



EDIT: I answered my own question haha.

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soren
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posted April 10, 2017 03:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for soren     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
if his asc/dsc is in aries/libra there might be a pretty good connection.

(secret for as to why)

of course with out that, you have some pretty decent horizon placement, directly on his stellium, exactly squaring his significant jupiter/mars "outlet" planets (away from his main section).

i don't see a deep soul connection, but maybe those arent always needed. or it might be something i cant see.

(but if his asc/dsc is in aries/libra, it would be a fairly decent thing, maybe deep enough? not everyone gets a 1/million fairy tale, some do) some simply dont need it cause their life is pleasently ok

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soren
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posted April 10, 2017 03:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for soren     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
anyway i think you both fancy each other definitely from your chart behaviour, at bare minimum you have that

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TheTruthIsTheWay11
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posted April 10, 2017 03:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheTruthIsTheWay11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It depends on how you are defining "Soulmates" and "Twin Flames." A Twin Flame is supposed to be your other half (literally). While some people are fortunate enough to meet their Twin Flames, and have a working relationship, usually you're too close in vibration for the relationship to work longterm. Soulmates, on the other hand, are people whom you've had multiple positive Past Life connections with.

I'm not sure how you're defining Soulmates, because usually when you connect with a Soulmate (regardless of whether it is meant to be a friendship or a romantic relationship), the connection lasts for the rest of your lives. Sometimes they don't, because the people involved feel like it's too intense to handle, but it usually lasts.

As someone who recently met my Soulmate, I would personally consider them to be "the one" over my Twin Flame. Twin Flames (allegedly) meet about every 7-8 lifetimes, and when they get together, it's usually chaotic (because of the similar vibration) and not always a romantic connection. My Soulmate & I, on the other hand, have been together numerous times, and have had both romantic relationships and friendships. To me, a Soulmate is more capable of being "the one" than a Twin Flame.

Anyways, I'm saying all of this because the definitions of these terms get distorted, and lose their meaning, depending on who you talk to. Also, to make the point that you don't need to find your "Twin Flame" to have true love (especially because it doesn't often end that way). Like I said, I'm of the belief that a Soulmate relationship is actually better for love.

There's usually lots of stuff you can find in both Soulmate and Twin Flame relationships. Feel free to check out my forum post here, about my experience: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/006761.html

Anyways, I see attraction there. The fact that you have those double-whammies (Pluto-Venus, Venus-Sun) is interesting. You have nodal squares, which is also of interest. Although, nodal squares can also indicate people who are important in our lives, but not necessarily Soulmates or Twin Flames. It looks like it could work if you got together, but it might not be a Soulmate relationship.

Which is another important thing to mention, just because a relationship isn't a Soulmate relationship, doesn't mean it can't work. Keep in mind, every Soulmate relationship was once a regular one (Twin Flames are different, because they literally are your other half).

I'm tired now, but I might look into this more when I wake up.


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Amonuet
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posted April 10, 2017 04:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amonuet     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
True love is not what I am looking for, I am not even searching for a partner right now. At the moment, there are two weirdly significant individuals in my life that I need help in understanding on a more 'cosmic' level. To do that, we will need to dive down a few levels deeper...

I met him on a hugely significant day, during the midst of incredible hardship. At the time, he was with a Scorpio woman, and I had just left an abusive relationship and had gone back (happily) to seeing my Aquarius ex-boyfriend. Everything was going pretty smooth - until I just HAD to start becoming attracted to this Capricorn.

So enter Jed, born December 29th and his girlfriend, born November 13th. Out of all of the birthdays, they share the identical birth dates to my son's father and his wife, except the roles are reversed: my ex is the Scorpio, and his wife is the Capricorn.

Then things get more strange. His girlfriend moved suddenly back to Vancouver and he and I have been hanging out a little bit more.

I recently had moved into a very old house during all of this and the neighborhood I am in predates the city itself. My place was built in 1891 and you can -feel- a strange lifeforce within the home. Since I moved here, I keep having vivid dreams (some prophetic), and everyone I meet is connected to each other in some weird, coincidental fashion.

The strange occurrences will not stop...My uncle just died on April Fool's, the same day as my grandmother (his own mother). However, the last bizarre circumstance was to I find out that Jed lived in this EXACT same house I am living in now, back in 2011, in the suite directly below me. How is all this even possible?

EDIT: I think I found the culprit to all the weirdness and confusion. Mercury retrograde in Taurus (my sun & moon) which won't end until my Taurean grandfather's birthday (May 3rd). Ha! I think the universe is playing some tricks on me here.http://astrostyle.com/mercury-retrograde-taurus-poem-2017/

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soren
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posted April 10, 2017 05:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for soren     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Definitely sounds fated between you

(and we all have our own view of what a twin flame/soul mate is, i heard the twin flame is supposed to be THE soul mate of soul mates, the one for eternity)

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Amonuet
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posted April 10, 2017 05:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amonuet     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It is incredibly late, and I often get overly excited when I start reflecting on all the events that have taken place over the last few months. I can hardly comprehend it all, and it would honestly take me 300 pages or more to write it all out haha. I wish I could detail things a bit better with more clarity, though.

I have read and studied the subject of Twin Flames and Soul Mates for a long time. I agree with you entirely - often the two are lost in these esoteric depths.

When I say I have met many of my soulmates, I mean to express that I have been fortunate enough to connect with many individuals from the same soul family/group as I. The one in which I have always known. These are accelerated, yet undoubtedly unbreakable bonds, which will persist always - regardless of age or era.

I know Jed is a part of that group in some way. I just don't understand what role he has yet to play, if all of these sychronicities keep happening and tie-in with him specifically,(and there still so many more I have not yet mentioned.)

I am tad frustrated, because I do love and have feelings for my Aquairus, but that relationship is swimming in unknown territory right now. For Jed to pop up at this emotionally volatile time is quite the trip lol!

Thank you for taking the time though to try and help me unravel all this though, I am definitely going to give your post a look tomorrow. I must go to bed for now.

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Orange
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posted April 10, 2017 10:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If it was a true twinflame or soulmate, you would have known it and won't question it.
Also , you wouldn't be torn between two people if he was a twinflame or a soulmate.
Neither of the two guys you are torn between is a twin nor a soulmate

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Amonuet
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posted April 10, 2017 12:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amonuet     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We are not in agreememt - soulmates and twinflames have long since been locked in love triangles. In vast accounts of mythology, history, and "fiction," this is a dance that is an old one. I posted this same question & story on a different forum and received -vastly- different responses.

Please do not be so quick to judge in your opinion, especially when you know nothing about me or the people in my life. If however, what you say is true - how would you like to explain the bizarre oddities that surround these people? Did you even look at the charts or research any of those aspects above? The Pluto Trine Venus and Venus Trine Mars, etc, I was told were hallmarks of a seriously intense connection with someone.

As for the other individual, that is who I truly feel I am meant to be with (but I am not even going to put a label on it.) Our Ascendants are opposite one within less than a degree and we have a Venus trines Venus aspects. Etc.

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posted April 15, 2017 04:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 21, 2017 04:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted April 27, 2017 06:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We can't always agree.

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