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Moonfish
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posted April 11, 2017 11:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Fate can be so cruel.
I am a 25 year old late bloomer. This year I have fallen in love for the first time to the man I lost my virginity too, as well as had a serious relationship with. Of course, our relationship didn't last long but we are still friends, and my love for him has not faded.
Unfortunately, we have Venus square Uranus double whammy, both 1d. The connection is definitely there, but timing is never on our side.
He's still depressed over his ex, and I'm depressed over him (My Sun in his 1H - Mirror, His Sun in my 7H - Completion).
I feel like I am at home with him (My Moon in his 4H), but at the same time he has made me feel extreme agony due to his coldness (His Moon opposes my Saturn). The pull is so strong, and yet he's always too far to reach.
I know that we're not "compatible" by the laws of Astrology, but I genuinely love and care for him despite if we never get back together.

This might help?...
We both have Libra Venus & Capricorn Uranus
His Natal:
His Venus (at the very end of the 11H), ruler of 7H
He's a Taurus Desc, Uranus in 2H
His Moon/Uranus midpoint conjuncts his Sun exact
My Natal:
My Venus in 7H, ruler of 7H, squares my Uranus 4d
My Venus/Uranus midpoint conjuncts my Sun exact


Houses:
His Sun/Mercury/Venus stellium in my 7H
My Sun/Mars/Pluto stellium in his 1H

Midpoints/points:
My Sun squares his Vertex (1)
My Sun squares his POF (1)
My Moon opposes his Sun/Moon mp (1)
His Venus squares my Sun/Moon mp (2)

Saturn Aspects:
His Moon opposes my Saturn 2.38
My Mars sextiles his Saturn 1.43
My Pluto sextiles his Saturn 1.23
His Saturn conjuncts my NN 2.44

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margym0o
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Registered: Jul 2014

posted April 12, 2017 09:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus sq. Uranus in itself does not spell doom.

I have married friends, who have been together forrrrr 7+ years I think? Maybe longer. Happily, with a toddler now. They have Venus sq. Uranus DW in their synastry AND in their composite. So...there is an example of a couple who is defying the textbook interpretations of such aspects.

Astrology is complex - there is no "one thing" that can be blamed for the demise of the relationship. Real life plays a HUGE part too. Moreso than the stars IMO.

To be honest you kind of said it right there...he's depressed over his ex. How can he be fully and completely committed to you when he's hung up on someone else. He would need to fully get over this person in order to give your relationship a real honest shot.

ETA: In a Moon/Saturn aspect, typically Saturn (you in this case) would be the "cold" one in response to the Moon (him in this case), as Saturn by nature is not a warm, receptive planet like the Moon.

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EmGem
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posted April 12, 2017 10:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by margym0o:

I have married friends, who have been together forrrrr 7+ years I think? Maybe longer. Happily, with a toddler now. They have Venus sq. Uranus DW in their synastry AND in their composite. So...there is an example of a couple who is defying the textbook interpretations of such aspects.

Wow!!! So good to see this!

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ariesdragon
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posted April 13, 2017 05:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Moonfish, sorry to hear about your heartbreak I hope you are working towards healing and that it has probably taught you some lessons and you experienced wonderful things at the same time. Sending you Love

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ariesdragon
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posted April 13, 2017 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Before you get with anybody next time around, please make sure to ask them if they are hung up over an ex or if they have an ex at all. Do not date anybody who is emotionally unavailable my sweetheart. <3

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