posted April 12, 2017 12:24 AM            

I am curious to see what you can tell me about a synastry between me and this guy. I was born July 2 1979 in Greensboro NC at 12:35 and he was born July 28 1971 in Fort Ord California at 2:58 am.

It just seems to be an off and on again relation so it is hard for me to take him seriously. Also seems like he cares for me, protective of me etc . I get a sense of how he feels for me but unsure because I am not in his head. I just am not sure what to make of things because I think actions speak for themselves and his actions don't seem like he is all that interested.

posted April 13, 2017 07:59 PM            

- Your Moon conjunct his Moon-Uranus, can be a best friends type dynamic.

- Your Mercury conjunct/parallel his Sun.

- Your Venus trine his Mars and quincunx his Jupiter (yes, aspects between benefics are always good) (and quite possibly conjunct and/or parallel his Asc, which would add another positive aspect).

- Your Jupiter parallel his Sun.

These may be enough to overcome the challenging aspects:

- Your Venus square his Pluto.

- Your Mars square his Mercury, and conjunct his Saturn.

- Your Saturn contra-parallel his Moon.

- Your Pluto contra-parallel his Moon.

- Your Asc conjunct his Pluto.

- Your MC square his Pluto.

There are some positive potentials suggested for benefits from sincere communication [your Mercury parallel his Sun/Saturn, your Pluto parallel his Mercury] that could lead to stages of mutual understanding and actions that proceed from this [your Mars tightly sextile his Sun]. However, the suggestion from the aspects with this Nodes is that while there is potential, it is most likely to be characterized by an easy-come-easy go relationship that could begin/end quickly. That is due to your Jupiter conjunct his S.Node, and your Uranus parallel and square his N.Node.

Flowing Neptune and Pluto aspects to his N.Node suggest, however, that the relationship could be worth pursuing one step at a time. He has just come out of a turbulent time, probably more so than you. So be considerate of that.

posted April 13, 2017 11:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Can you post a link to the synastry chart?

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posted April 13, 2017 11:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
The planet and node inter-aspects of this synastry form a mixed bag picture of 19 positive/supporting and 18 negative/challenging (if we leave out the wider square of your Saturn to his). However, there are definitely some quite good aspects involving Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Jupiter supporting harmony, communication, affection, and growth respectively. Some of those are:

- Your Moon conjunct his Moon-Uranus, can be a best friends type dynamic.

- Your Mercury conjunct/parallel his Sun.

- Your Venus trine his Mars and quincunx his Jupiter (yes, aspects between benefics are always good) (and quite possibly conjunct and/or parallel his Asc, which would add another positive aspect).

- Your Jupiter parallel his Sun.

These may be enough to overcome the challenging aspects:

- Your Venus square his Pluto.

- Your Mars square his Mercury, and conjunct his Saturn.

- Your Saturn contra-parallel his Moon.

- Your Pluto contra-parallel his Moon.

- Your Asc conjunct his Pluto.

- Your MC square his Pluto.

There are some positive potentials suggested for benefits from sincere communication [your Mercury parallel his Sun/Saturn, your Pluto parallel his Mercury] that could lead to stages of mutual understanding and actions that proceed from this [your Mars tightly sextile his Sun]. However, the suggestion from the aspects with this Nodes is that while there is potential, it is most likely to be characterized by an easy-come-easy go relationship that could begin/end quickly. That is due to your Jupiter conjunct his S.Node, and your Uranus parallel and square his N.Node.

Flowing Neptune and Pluto aspects to his N.Node suggest, however, that the relationship could be worth pursuing one step at a time. He has just come out of a turbulent time, probably more so than you. So be considerate of that.

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Thank you Kannon!!!!

I wish he would just have talked to me about things vs some of the games I see him trying to play. I am not a big fan of games and prefer realism, even if it hurts but done in a respectful manner. ( I'm guessing this is the venus square pluto) :|