posted April 05, 2006 06:32 AM              

I also wish to know when there are so many positive and negative aspects. Which synastry would consider to be ideal.

There are aspects which would say " You would communicate great " and there are other aspects which would say " You would have communication problems".

posted April 05, 2006 11:07 AM              

I think that ALL relationships have strengths and challenges. Adjusting to the challenges is what relating is all about! Looking for the "ideal" relationship only ends up in disappointment because NO relationship is "ideal". Working TOGETHER to CREATE a more ideal relationship, however, will result in a lasting relationship. Unfortunately, in our "instant" society, not everyone is willing to do the long-term work it takes to make a relationship work out. But, then again, there are always more "fish in the sea"!

Relating non-astrologically,

posted April 05, 2006 02:55 PM            

I personally love this site:
http://astrologysoftware.com/new_oracles/f&l/index.asp?orig=OldOracle

Unlike other synastry sites I've tried, they never say things like "This is a relationship to be avoided at all costs" based on some singular aspect. They tend to take a more thoughtful approach to all aspects, either “good” or “bad.” Their free reports cover everything their paid reports do with the exception of house placements. For even more detail, I’d also like to point out a feature of astro.com that it took me months to find. If you go to www.astro.com and select More Free Horoscopes - > Extended Chart Selection. Choose the “Synastry Chart (2)” from the drop down then select the “Click Here to Show the Chart” button. Once your chart is displayed you’ll notice a hyperlink near the top labeled “Click hear to get additional tables.” This will generate a detailed table of synastry associations, for anything you’d like including asteroids. You can then take that data and use Tim’s sentences to understand them and/or look up the connections on one of a dozen synastry interpretation sites. It takes a lot more work but in the end you’ll probably get a lot more out of it.

Good luck!

posted April 05, 2006 03:29 PM              

I'd consider what Tim said - if you have feelings for the person and want to make the relationship work, that's just as important as (or maybe even more important than) the aspects in the synastry.

That said, I've used world of wisdom for lovers and it's pretty good (although it's software you have to download instead of a site). You'll get a lengthy interpretation covering each aspect and it sees double whammys and lets you adjust the orbs used to calculate aspects. The site is worldofwisdom.com, there's a demo version of the software you can download.

posted April 05, 2006 10:01 PM              

Wilsontc and jkxx:

Actually I never expected things would even work out to the stage where it has now. I met someone as stranger and thought that we would have nothing to do in future but we have still able to wonderfully communicate.

We are willing to work on differences and I guess till now surprisingly it has been getting better than we met.

The only thing is I wanted to know what astrology has to say and it was pretty confusing. I wouldn't get bothered by every aspect of our synastry or astrology alone.

posted September 01, 2011 07:52 AM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
Good site for synsstry readings: http://abacusastrology.co.uk/amatch.html

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posted January 13, 2012 03:43 PM              

But you do need both times of birth to be accurate though.. enjoy.

Composites describe the relationship, not either one of you, but what you came together to learn or to do and how the 'pair of you' function when together....

you 'should' reduce the orbs ratio on astro.com down to 40% as max orb in synastry and comp is 3'. Also please add transits which is easily seen once you have the chart just above to right is option 'with transits'
http://books.google.com/books?id=dUulSwQoEC4C&pg=PR16&dq=robert+hand+composites&ei=r8HRSsXNEJvmygSIsP3eCQ#v=onepage&q=&f=false

The Book ---Planets in Composite: Analyzing Human Relationships By Robert Hand-- is greatly recommended