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barbriallen
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posted April 26, 2017 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for barbriallen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Randall
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posted April 27, 2017 08:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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waxlobster
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posted April 27, 2017 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe just believe him?

Acting on an attraction isn't the same as starting a relationship. Sure he kissed you, and he wanted to, but he didn't tell you he was ready to date, or commit did he? So he's not been dishonest or lead you on.

Maybe he really is focussing on exams. You're not dealing with a straight-forward guy here. Mercury-Jupiter-Uranus-Venus does not 'need' others, it looks for variety, stimulation, creativity, adventure. Being in Aquarius just adds to the freedom seeking, and desire to explore everything and....everyone!! Add in an Aquarius Sun and you've got somebody who doesn't attach naturally at all.

This is further complicated by the close Moon-Saturn conjunction which immediately brings a heaviness and depth to the emotional capacity of this man. Moon-Saturn are old when they're young, and actually terrified of loss. He's always going to push people away until he knows he can trust them and then when he can, he'll probably push them away because he feels trapped....as with that Aquarius stellium he needs a LOT of freedom.

Interstingly you have Saturn-Sun conjunction, also in Aries, a sympathetic Moon in Capricorn and completely relate to his need for safety and stability. It's his desire to break free and disappear that you don't resonate with.

If you're looking for something serious then I say keep this guy as a friend. He'll turn out to be steady and loyal in that capacity, Aquarius is nothing if not honest. In terms of a relationship, he'll blow hot and cold for a while yet....on anyone. He'll probably get deeply involved with another stellium person, interestingly Aquarius stelliums often link up with Scorpio stelliums. Not because they're compatible but because they have that 'pull' that ties Aquarius down, until the run away.

This man will inevitably choose to be with his best friend. Give him another 15 years and it could be you.... Never put pressure on Aquarius and expect them to stick around, they'll always forgive you but it's when you never ask for a thing but love their minds and their ideas, that's what hooks them in...

I hope this isn't too disappointing but you're not ready to settle down anyway, and friendship with Aquarius is SO MUCH FUN!!!!! :-)

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posted April 27, 2017 02:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With a chart like his I would never expect commitment, especially considering how young he is and the environment he's in right now (undergraduate university). Maybe he'll be interested in commitment by his Saturn Return. I wouldn't project anything onto him, it'll just lead to disappointment (if you want a monogamous relationship).

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barbriallen
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posted April 27, 2017 03:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for barbriallen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the responses What you both said makes a lot of sense.

The surprising thing is he was in a two year relationship with someone whose father died just after they started going out and he postponed university for a year to be with her through the grief. (I guess that's saturn influence?).

It's not that I'm expecting 'commitment' now but we haven't really talked since it happened. Venus is my chart ruler and it's in the 11th so I do understand his desire for freedom and friendship. I'd like to be friends but I want to give him space so I guess the ball is in his court :/

Gosh Aquarians are still such a puzzle to me!

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waxlobster
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posted April 28, 2017 08:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah Saturn is incredibly loyal, I'm a Moon-Saturn conjunction too (and Aquarius Sun) so I can tell you from experience that we love to be 'a rock' to people. We feel emotions so profoundly, so deeply and tumultuously that from an early age we want to be that support to those who are struggling.

The thing with Aquarians is we do hit and run, but if we like somebody we come back. Sometimes we just need time to process, and Moon-Saturn does too. I think he will choose to be your friend, but I agree with athenaia, his Saturn return will be where he integrates his character and is more likely to settle down.

He sounds like a very good friend to have though, at least you know that he's in touch with his compassionate side re: his ex. :-)

I know a lot of Aquarius men and you just have to let them call the shots, timimg-wise. It's the only way to be close to them ;-) Just make your circle of friends as vibrant as theirs and you won't even notice!

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