posted April 27, 2017 02:17 PM
Maybe just believe him?Acting on an attraction isn't the same as starting a relationship. Sure he kissed you, and he wanted to, but he didn't tell you he was ready to date, or commit did he? So he's not been dishonest or lead you on.
Maybe he really is focussing on exams. You're not dealing with a straight-forward guy here. Mercury-Jupiter-Uranus-Venus does not 'need' others, it looks for variety, stimulation, creativity, adventure. Being in Aquarius just adds to the freedom seeking, and desire to explore everything and....everyone!! Add in an Aquarius Sun and you've got somebody who doesn't attach naturally at all.
This is further complicated by the close Moon-Saturn conjunction which immediately brings a heaviness and depth to the emotional capacity of this man. Moon-Saturn are old when they're young, and actually terrified of loss. He's always going to push people away until he knows he can trust them and then when he can, he'll probably push them away because he feels trapped....as with that Aquarius stellium he needs a LOT of freedom.
Interstingly you have Saturn-Sun conjunction, also in Aries, a sympathetic Moon in Capricorn and completely relate to his need for safety and stability. It's his desire to break free and disappear that you don't resonate with.
If you're looking for something serious then I say keep this guy as a friend. He'll turn out to be steady and loyal in that capacity, Aquarius is nothing if not honest. In terms of a relationship, he'll blow hot and cold for a while yet....on anyone. He'll probably get deeply involved with another stellium person, interestingly Aquarius stelliums often link up with Scorpio stelliums. Not because they're compatible but because they have that 'pull' that ties Aquarius down, until the run away.
This man will inevitably choose to be with his best friend. Give him another 15 years and it could be you.... Never put pressure on Aquarius and expect them to stick around, they'll always forgive you but it's when you never ask for a thing but love their minds and their ideas, that's what hooks them in...
I hope this isn't too disappointing but you're not ready to settle down anyway, and friendship with Aquarius is SO MUCH FUN!!!!! :-)