posted May 03, 2017 08:05 PM            

If anyone else has anything to add please feel free and thank you so much in advance. I am also including the synastry(I'm blue, he's red) chart along with composite.

posted May 04, 2017 09:34 AM            

I look forward to seeing what else you've to say!!

posted May 04, 2017 10:15 AM            

What I like best here is that he has a Juno-Chiron conjunct your Sun (Juno between the two builds a bridge within the 8° orb) and your Chiron conjunct his Sun. For me this is very deep, healing, nurturing and soothing. I’m not somebody who considers whether a relationship will last a lifetime; rather whether it is honest and true. Chiron can hide nothing. You may find yourselves raking up old fears, vulnerabilities, childhood wounds and failings. In fact I’d be disappointed if you didn’t, as it feels that this is the fulcrum of why you two have met.

I do want to ask why, if he is ‘very interested in you’ you don’t describe him as somebody you are seeing? Are you holding back here? If so, why? Or is it that you are geographically far apart and so have been unable to meet up and explore the potential between you?

As always I’m interested in your gut feeling, as that’s what will speak the most volumes. Synastry shows all the potentials, but only when both parties are actually interactive!

Some highlights – his Neptune trine your Sun (he’s an inspiration to you), his Pluto square your Moon (he brings out your passionate side, but beware he will want to possess you entirely at times if you get together! Things will often have to be on his terms…). His Uranus opposite your Sun (he will be unavailable at times, with a job like that his mind will be elsewhere for periods of time, you’ll need to not be clingy). His Jupiter trine your Moon, sextile your Neptune, conjunct your Pluto. This is great, it brings a fun, uplifting ingredient to the relationship which is important to fall back on when things get intense. Also you’ll find his influence is excellent for your financially. Jupiter-Pluto are the dream team for money making!

I’m not entirely convinced that Saturn contacts are quite as relevant as they were in the days before women were independent financially, however I do like to see some for longevity, for a deeper karmic bond. (They are notably absent here - although without the grid I cannot see the quintiles, which may help, if present).

posted May 04, 2017 02:16 PM            

Well of course Todd is the expert on composite charts. I work more with the natals and synastry so, no I'd not look to the composite for Saturn contacts. Not that they're not valid there, just that you have to be in the relationship for the composite to really be part of the picture.

If you don't trust him yourself well....that doesn't bode well. All I can say is meet the guy. What is there to lose? Him joking about marriage is hardly a deal breaker surely? We can philosophise all we want about what would happen if you guys got together but.....it sounds like you don't even want to!! Haha!! Ah well, all good practise ;-)

posted May 04, 2017 03:14 PM            

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So let’s bring that forward a few hours, let’s give him a pedantic, detail-driven Virgo Moon.

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Gracha
Astrology aside, you're wise to be skeptical about his jokes. Even if he does consider you a candidate for his wife already, that would be a little desperate of him (after all you only met recently and did it even happen offline?), especially the hinting. You don't want to be a filler for someone's emotional hole or a trophy, right? It's hard to get an idea of what might be going on inside him without knowing his complete chart but when I see his combination of the Taurus Sun, Venus-Mars conjunction in Gemini and his Moon potentially aspected by Jupiter and Neptune, I see someone who tends to be a sweet talker in his dealings with women. Someone good at verbal charm but it might be like a sport to him or art for the sake of art.

You mentioned a Venus-Saturn conjunction but what's the orb again? If it's above 8 degrees, I'd dismiss it if I were you. Which, unfortunately, would make me extra cautious about his intentions cause otherwise it looks like his Saturn is unaspected. His Mercury looks lonely too.

Another thing that worries me is your Saturn possibly unaspected by his personal planets. Or at all (in my opinion) if his Jupiter is more than 4 degrees away. A square to his Moon wouldn't be cute but I think that would be better than nothing because we're talking about your DSC ruler. I don't know if the trine from his Sun to your DSC would be enough satisfy you, even though his Sun is natally compatible (conjunct Saturn).

Now, I don't want to scare you but maybe I should mention this. His Pluto forms a t-square with your Moon and Sun and there may be another t-square with your Pluto. I hope you're mature enough (he in particular) to keep your Plutos under control because it could get nasty. Also, his Chiron appears to be conjunct your Sun. I'd allow if 4 degrees here. There is some potential for pain on your side but I believe it could play out mythologically instead. What I mean by that: Apollo is the primary Greek-Roman solar deity. So let's say the Sun=Apollo. We have Apollo and Chiron now. Apollo is portrayed as the foster father and teacher of Chiron. In short, you if stick long enough may learn a lot from him or even become some kind of protegee (supported by his Saturn in your 10th and more).

I can see in your synastry how you ended up feeling attracted to him (his Uranus opposite your Sun, your Uranus opposite his Venus-Mars, his Jupiter on your 5th house ruler, your Mars sextile his Venus-Mars etc. his Sun in the sign of your Venus etc.) and liking him more than not (his planets in your 11th house, his Jupiter trine your Moon, Venus-Jupiter DW, his Moon in your Ascendant area etc.) but it's hard for me to have a strong opinion about your serious relationship potential without more data. For now I'm not impressed, to be honest.

posted May 04, 2017 04:08 PM            

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[B] [QUOTE]So let’s bring that forward a few hours, let’s give him a pedantic, detail-driven Virgo Moon.

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posted May 04, 2017 05:11 PM            

the references to marriage are shown by Jupiter trine to juno and opposed to mars conjunct to venus. moon trine to Jupiter and sextile mars/Venus creates a kite pattern with all the emotional symbols. this looks very favorable

the moon/Saturn midpoint is on the ascendant and square the sun, which shows sense of devotion in the relationship.

but Saturn is square to Uranus with Uranus conjunct the south node and Lilith which is not often an aspect of stability of longevity in a relationship or marriage.
this aspect can also show he could abruptly change his mind.

though with lilth conjunct the node there maybe a overriding karmic connection here.

the sun/Neptune midpoint is square to Jupiter which also makes me hesitant as this can show hidden issues or agendas in the relationship.it bodes complications and complexities to this relationship which could weaken the impulse toward marriage.

the node will square the composite Venus in the middle of july and continue to square Jupiter in in middle November, so if he is serious I would think he would act on his words later this years.

todd

posted May 04, 2017 05:16 PM            

Its true he's not the only guy with those qualities/career around, i'm not letting myself get caught up. So my hunch is most likely right, he's a player/smooth talker and thats why i'm taking things slooowwww. You know I even visited his fb page and most of his friends are women, scantily clad on top of that. I searched his background and everything he's said so far is true but imo talk is cheap. I need words and actions to back things up and plus I've tripped him up so far with questions. And he also revealed to me last night that he is ALWAYS the dumper in a relationship.... not good. Now I'm even more apprehensive because that tells me he doesn't want to stick things out in a relationship and quite frankly it's childish.

posted May 04, 2017 06:28 PM            

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I need words and actions to back things up and plus I've tripped him up so far with questions.

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he has been showing signs of possessiveness but that to me is even comical because once again we haven't met in person smh.

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I had my pluto conjunct an ex's moon in libra and I kid you not, this man still won't leave me alone but he's threatened me about other men etc, so I couldn't really deal.

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I'll ask his birth time tonight.

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Could you elaborate more on what could possibly happen with the square?

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i'm applying to law school next year but he doesn't know that yet and probably still won't until I get to know him some more, perhaps months down the line, if we are still taking

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posted May 04, 2017 07:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Gracha:
Beautiful_Light I love your name BTW, thank you so much. I totally agree about Kapiel and his predictions. I didn't know sun chiron double whammy could be fated, wow that's neat and scary. I'll ask his birthtime because that will surely help. Do you see anything else in the chart, I know there are some wide conjunctions but I can feel them, what you think of those? Also my birth time is accurate. Based on my chart could you tell me the type of man I'll get serious with possibly marry? I've been told by another reader that my future husband could be working as a lawyer. I've never been married and im approaching mid 30 next year.Thank you again, I appreciate😃

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Gracha honey you are so welcome, and thank you for the compliment! You have a good head on your shoulders and I think you should trust your gut instinct when it comes to men. You deserve the faithful and loving partner you've saved yourself for. It's true that he does seem like a player; I always get turned off when I see too many sexy women on a guy's social media. And him being possessive towards you in such early stages is definitely odd.

I have had Chiron-Sun DW with a guy before and he was sooo not it! He came onto me very strong in the beginning as well. But trust me, when he's into you, you won't be, and if circumstances change and you like him back, he'll act like a totally different person. Just my experience. Chironic relationships are not meant to last. This man had me fooled and though we had some magical chemistry, ultimately we ended up hurting each other a lot more and there was no way we could make each other happy. I'm glad he's gone now for at least a year overseas.

KRS has predicted "marriages" that were actually karmic partners and such, so I was thinking maybe this guy isn't it and you could meet someone a bit later with the same job possibly, who may be more compatible with you. Sometimes life sends us counterfeits just to test us .

posted May 04, 2017 07:46 PM            

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Gracha honey you are so welcome, and thank you for the compliment! You have a good head on your shoulders and I think you should trust your gut instinct when it comes to men. You deserve the faithful and loving partner you've saved yourself for. It's true that he does seem like a player; I always get turned off when I see too many sexy women on a guy's social media. And him being possessive towards you in such early stages is definitely odd.

I have had Chiron-Sun DW with a guy before and he was sooo not it! He came onto me very strong in the beginning as well. But trust me, when he's into you, you won't be, and if circumstances change and you like him back, he'll act like a totally different person. Just my experience. Chironic relationships are not meant to last. This man had me fooled and though we had some magical chemistry, ultimately we ended up hurting each other a lot more and there was no way we could make each other happy. I'm glad he's gone now for at least a year overseas.

KRS has predicted "marriages" that were actually karmic partners and such, so I was thinking maybe this guy isn't it and you could meet someone a bit later with the same job possibly, who may be more compatible with you. Sometimes life sends us counterfeits just to test us .

As for your "type" I see your descendant in Capricorn and Vertex conjunct Jupiter in your 5th house. Your husband should be a very devoted man with whom you could possibly start a family. I do not see you being with a womanizer at all

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posted May 04, 2017 07:47 PM            

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Lilith conjunct the node is major, nice, what does that mean?

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this conjunction shows that you and he are psychically connected at a very deep emotional/subconscious level. This is why it can give feelings of destiny etc if the other aspects work out favorably.

posted May 04, 2017 07:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Gracha:
Thank you again Beautiful_Light!! I didn't know KRS had some true predictions but I agree with you about life sending counterfeits to test you. Trusting my gut has kept me out many a potential man troubles in the past. Thank you once again for your help and encouraging words.

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posted May 05, 2017 01:09 PM            

Kidding. Kind of. All right, his Moon does exactly trine your Sun and is conjunct your Ascendant, this is good stuff. When I look at your natals separately, I don't see a very good match. Your synastry is still no delight to me. I like his Venus-Mars even less now that I know it's in the 11th house I get the impression he'd rather be married to his career than a woman (his planets in the 10th house, the Sun is the ASC ruler on top of that). And I can already hear the Leo in him whine when it's spanking time for your Saturn. Whatever egomaniac tendencies he may have, you'd probably have little patience for it.

This is just an opinion, of course. You know the guy and you call the shots.

I'm curious, how did he react to your TOB question? Have you told him about your interest in astrology?

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posted May 08, 2017 09:58 PM            

Hi Iridia, his birth time is incorrect, he doesn't know it, only that he was born on a holiday lol

posted May 08, 2017 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
Gracha honey you are so welcome, and thank you for the compliment! You have a good head on your shoulders and I think you should trust your gut instinct when it comes to men. You deserve the faithful and loving partner you've saved yourself for. It's true that he does seem like a player; I always get turned off when I see too many sexy women on a guy's social media. And him being possessive towards you in such early stages is definitely odd.

I have had Chiron-Sun DW with a guy before and he was sooo not it! He came onto me very strong in the beginning as well. But trust me, when he's into you, you won't be, and if circumstances change and you like him back, he'll act like a totally different person. Just my experience. Chironic relationships are not meant to last. This man had me fooled and though we had some magical chemistry, ultimately we ended up hurting each other a lot more and there was no way we could make each other happy. I'm glad he's gone now for at least a year overseas.

KRS has predicted "marriages" that were actually karmic partners and such, so I was thinking maybe this guy isn't it and you could meet someone a bit later with the same job possibly, who may be more compatible with you. Sometimes life sends us counterfeits just to test us .

As for your "type" I see your descendant in Capricorn and Vertex conjunct Jupiter in your 5th house. Your husband should be a very devoted man with whom you could possibly start a family. I do not see you being with a womanizer at all

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