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MilaBirkin
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posted May 30, 2017 02:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MilaBirkin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm so attracted to him. I can see him and say "aww, so cute" and also "I want to kiss you so badly, I can't wait anymore, I'm going to die" lol.
I'm a little bit shy but I need to be direct and ask here because I can't see from where this sexual attraction comes and I'm very curious about it.
I'm not dating him or anything, this is just a crush, this is just part of my 'romantic' fantasies (so Pisces), that's it.
I don't know his time of birth so I don't know if his ascendant is in Sag.
His Eros and Sappho in Sag opp. my Lilith in Gemini.
His Lilith in Leo conj. my Mars and opp. my Venus-MC.

But I don't know... If that is the reason why I'm so attracted to him.



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GrlyGirl200
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posted May 30, 2017 02:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You know I agree with you. What do other people see as the attraction factor and/or reason for your strong attraction to him? Nothing pops out at me, and it's not that you have bad synastry so much as it doesn't seem like there is much going on (minus a few Trines, some other stuff and a very very loose Conjunction of his Sun and your NN) at all between the two of you.

To be honest is this a one sided attraction? As in you say you're attracted to him, but is he feeling it as well? Between the two of you his Neptune is on top of your natal Moon Neptune Opposition. This makes me wonder if you are seeing more between the two of you (or from his behavior) than what is actually there. I could also be missing something, so if anyone has any insight that would be awesome!

Edit to add: Because his birth time is not correct that could change his Asc and be the reason for your attraction to him. I will say though off the bat in terms of a relationship (beyond the superficial...ie the meat of the charts minus the Asc) I don't see that much between you two.

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MilaBirkin
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posted May 30, 2017 02:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MilaBirkin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:

To be honest is this a one sided attraction? As in you say you're attracted to him, but is he feeling it as well? Between the two of you his Neptune is on top of your natal Moon Neptune Opposition. This makes me wonder if you are seeing more between the two of you (or from his behavior) than what is actually there. I could also be missing something, so if anyone has any insight that would be awesome!

I honestly don't know. We are not very close yet. I don't imagine how he could feel about me, I don't think about it, I only feel attraction and sometimes this surprises me because he is not the type of guy I usually like.

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crystal_clear
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posted May 30, 2017 03:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for crystal_clear     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm, I see that his Sun is close to your ASC. Out exact birth time is usually unknown. It's enough that maybe a nurse in the hospital rounded the birth time from for example 11.17 to 11.30 and you can have few degrees of difference in your ASC.

Basically that aspect alone can be very strong attraction point.

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Beautiful_Light
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posted May 30, 2017 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Beautiful_Light     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would say Chiron-Venus in the synastry (this is a romantic linkage) and Pluto/Venus conjunct in the Composite.

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MilaBirkin
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posted May 30, 2017 06:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MilaBirkin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by crystal_clear:
Hmm, I see that his Sun is close to your ASC. Out exact birth time is usually unknown. It's enough that maybe a nurse in the hospital rounded the birth time from for example 11.17 to 11.30 and you can have few degrees of difference in your ASC.

Basically that aspect alone can be very strong attraction point.


Yes. My mum told me I was born at 10:52 but people from the hospital said I was born at 10:51. I know that is not a big difference, haha but... I trust my mother.

It make sense. Sun opposite Ascendant, Sun conjunct Descendant.

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MilaBirkin
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posted May 30, 2017 06:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MilaBirkin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
I would say Chiron-Venus in the synastry (this is a romantic linkage) and Pluto/Venus conjunct in the Composite.

Some people say Chiron is not 'good' in a Synastry but I think like you do.
Last night I was watching a video about Venus conjunct Pluto in composite and wow, that aspect is very intense.

Thanks everyone for the replies.

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Beautiful_Light
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posted May 30, 2017 07:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Beautiful_Light     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MilaBirkin:
Some people say Chiron is not 'good' in a Synastry but I think like you do.
Last night I was watching a video about Venus conjunct Pluto in composite and wow, that aspect is very intense.

Thanks everyone for the replies.


I wouldn't say it's good or bad...just powerful. Same with Pluto

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TheTruthIsTheWay11
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posted May 31, 2017 01:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheTruthIsTheWay11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here's another factor no one has mentioned yet: Your Mars is in Leo. His Mars is in Leo. In a woman's chart, Mars represents what they look for in a man. In a man's chart, it represents how they behave in relationships. Also, for both men and women Mars is a sexual planet. Point being, his energy aligns with what you look for.

As an aside, Magi Astrology views Venus conjunct Chiron as a Cinderella/Soulmate linkage. In my opinion, you'd have to look at far more than just Cinderella linkages to come to that conclusion. However, I'm throwing that out there for your own research purposes. I've recently met my Soulmate and we have the same aspect between us, so I know there's some truth to it. I just think that, as with anything in Astrology, looking at everything as smaller parts of a greater whole is important.

In any case, good luck and have fun!

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MilaBirkin
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posted June 02, 2017 06:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MilaBirkin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
I wouldn't say it's good or bad...just powerful. Same with Pluto

Yesss! I'm agree with you!
I like Venus conjunct Pluto in composite, I have experience with that aspect and I really like it, maybe because of my 7th house.

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MilaBirkin
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posted June 02, 2017 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MilaBirkin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by TheTruthIsTheWay11:
Here's another factor no one has mentioned yet: Your Mars is in Leo. His Mars is in Leo. In a woman's chart, Mars represents what they look for in a man. In a man's chart, it represents how they behave in relationships. Also, for both men and women Mars is a sexual planet. Point being, his energy aligns with what you look for.

As an aside, Magi Astrology views Venus conjunct Chiron as a Cinderella/Soulmate linkage. In my opinion, you'd have to look at far more than just Cinderella linkages to come to that conclusion. However, I'm throwing that out there for your own research purposes. I've recently met my Soulmate and we have the same aspect between us, so I know there's some truth to it. I just think that, as with anything in Astrology, looking at everything as smaller parts of a greater whole is important.

In any case, good luck and have fun!


Oh, thank you . I like everything you wrote!

Good luck to you too. So happy you've met your Soulmate.

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hypatia238
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posted June 02, 2017 10:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, you need to check the declinations. When you generate the synastry chart click were it says additional tables and you can then post that so we can look at it and see if you have parallels or contra parallels.

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MilaBirkin
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posted June 03, 2017 12:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MilaBirkin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Hi, you need to check the declinations. When you generate the synastry chart click were it says additional tables and you can then post that so we can look at it and see if you have parallels or contra parallels.

Hi . This?

Or what? I don't know his time of birth.

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