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GrlyGirl200
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posted June 02, 2017 09:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So here is the scenario...you're an uber confident woman (who knows what she wants) who gave a man you know you'll see again your number unprompted...added you like his personality and want to be friends...because you're awkward and hopes he picks up on things unsaid lol (and yes I have done this as a 1st house Mars).

Men rarely get a woman to give out their number unprompted so what does he do next? Wait a few days (is it 2 or 3 days man time lol) to text and/or call (text if millennial or younger, call if a Gen X'er or older lol)? Or nothing? Be turned off or turned on? Passively reject or avoid? by the Mars signs...

I say by the Mars signs as that is how we pursue so with a woman doing this she is making what she wants known but is still being somewhat passive as the man will have to make effort (i.e. Mars) and do something.

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comdoc
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posted June 02, 2017 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for comdoc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting scenario, GirlyGirl. Do you use your Mars Sign or his? For example, my Leo Mars is rising. How would you approach? Different approach for each male's Mars Sign?

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GrlyGirl200
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posted June 03, 2017 01:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by comdoc:
Interesting scenario, GirlyGirl. Do you use your Mars Sign or his? For example, my Leo Mars is rising. How would you approach? Different approach for each male's Mars Sign?

I don't really have any standards on which to discuss, I think it's fun to muse about who would do what in both genders. Overall, I think a woman with a strong Mars would do something like that. I am wondering how will a mans Mars respond to a such a woman. For instance I have a feeling a Water Mars man not like an aggressive woman (except for maybe Scorpio Mars).

I'm similar to you in that I have my Cancer Mars Rising but also Conjunct my Sun in the 1st (have Sun rising as well). And honestly I have zero problem approaching a man. I'm only super nervous if I really like him as in more than just think he's physically attractive, otherwise it's not hard for me to approach a man or ask if they are married etc. I typically am not one to be passive despite being a Taurus Venus. What about you?

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posted June 03, 2017 02:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for comdoc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
GG, my Mars is so strong that it is very easy to come on too quickly, and blow a prospective lover away. A certain triple Scorpio comes to mind. Her Scorpio planets are square my Leo stellium, including Mars. I personally prefer bold women; fire Mars are my faves.

They say Venus and Moon are more important to a man. Leo Venus conj my Leo Mars/ASC is ideal. 8/17/87 with Aries 24 or Aqua 12 ASC fits.

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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
I don't really have any standards on which to discuss, I think it's fun to muse about who would do what in both genders. Overall, I think a woman with a strong Mars would do something like that. I am wondering how will a mans Mars respond to a such a woman. For instance I have a feeling a Water Mars man not like an aggressive woman (except for maybe Scorpio Mars).

I'm similar to you in that I have my Cancer Mars Rising but also Conjunct my Sun in the 1st (have Sun rising as well). And honestly I have zero problem approaching a man. I'm only super nervous if I really like him as in more than just think he's physically attractive, otherwise it's not hard for me to approach a man or ask if they are married etc. I typically am not one to be passive despite being a Taurus Venus. What about you?


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GrlyGirl200
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posted June 03, 2017 03:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by comdoc:
GG, my Mars is so strong that it is very easy to come on too quickly, and blow a prospective lover away. A certain triple Scorpio comes to mind. Her Scorpio planets are square my Leo stellium, including Mars. I personally prefer bold women; fire Mars are my faves.

They say Venus and Moon are more important to a man. Leo Venus conj my Leo Mars/ASC is ideal. 8/17/87 with Aries 24 or Aqua 12 ASC fits.


I so thought you were a woman! I'm so sorry lol. Now I fully understand what you were asking...I actually approach a man in a straightforward but shy way...I don't change how I approach based off of the guys Mars (unless it's an Aries Mars...I find they are the most straightforward so I don't need to be). For instance I recently gave my number to a man with Scorpio Mars and told him I wanted to be friends and needed to call me. My Venus is in the 11th so that's why i used the excuse as friends...I will say hopefully his Scorpio Mars will bite and see through me lol. Plus he has a Leo Venus and maybe appreciates the fact that I bit the bullet and gave him my number (unprompted and yeah awkwardly...I'll admit I'm quirky lol). I will admit a HUGE part of my seduction with a man is playing to his Moon.

Can I ask what your Venus and Moon are in?

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posted June 03, 2017 11:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for comdoc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Inner female LOL. My 10H Venus and 11H OOB very quirky Moon in Gemini (Moon on Cancer cusp). Uranus-Moon at head of Kite, with 5H Sag Jupiter at tail. Uranus co-rules 7H. I LOVE strange girls.

Good on you for being proactive. I'm so tired of initiating just to be sh*t tested and summarily rejected. :/ I really enjoy being beloved and desired. If you boldly reach out to me, I promise a genuine heartfelt response.

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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
I so thought you were a woman! I'm so sorry lol. Now I fully understand what you were asking...I actually approach a man in a straightforward but shy way...I don't change how I approach based off of the guys Mars (unless it's an Aries Mars...I find they are the most straightforward so I don't need to be). For instance I recently gave my number to a man with Scorpio Mars and told him I wanted to be friends and needed to call me. My Venus is in the 11th so that's why i used the excuse as friends...I will say hopefully his Scorpio Mars will bite and see through me lol. Plus he has a Leo Venus and maybe appreciates the fact that I bit the bullet and gave him my number (unprompted and yeah awkwardly...I'll admit I'm quirky lol). I will admit a HUGE part of my seduction with a man is playing to his Moon.

Can I ask what your Venus and Moon are in?


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polkadotstars
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posted June 04, 2017 07:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If he likes you, he'll call.

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