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Topic: I hate that my boyfriend had a tight mars trine with his ex!!!
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sunpixie007
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Registered: Jun 2017
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posted June 07, 2017 08:11 PM
  
His previous relationship was purely physical. He is a mars in taurus, she is a mars in capricorn. They had a tight 2 degress trine. From what I can tell, she was great in the sac. He's only ever been with her sexually. He only broke up with her cause she cheated. From what I know, cappie mars people are reserved in public and freaks in the sheets in private. As for me, I'm a cancer mars who is naturally very insecure and eager to please. We have a tight 1 degree sextile to his mars. I know it depends on other aspects yadayadayada. I'm a leo he's a taurus. We have a strong emotional connection (moon sextile moon, his venus conjunct my moon), if that helps anything.
HELP!!! lol Has anyone ever experienced this?? I need some insight asap!!
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CapriciousCapricorn
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posted June 07, 2017 09:15 PM
Hey! Tell me about Venus conjunct Moon please. What does it feel like? How is it for Venus you think? As for your Mars situation, what are you so worried about??? A tight Mars sextile is really good! Anyways, Mars to Mars is more marriage (living together) aspect than sexual to me. And ex is exactly that - an ex. Forget about her, she's in the past. He is with you and there's a reason for that I'm sure. Do you have sexual aspects? Your Sun/Mars to his Moon/Venus? IP: Logged |
HelixID
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posted June 08, 2017 05:02 AM
Post all three natals, let's see then.
One aspect doesn't tell anything and especially not a trine.IP: Logged |
sunpixie007
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From: California
Registered: Jun 2017
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posted June 08, 2017 12:32 PM
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Originally posted by HelixID:
Post all three natals, let's see then.
One aspect doesn't tell anything and especially not a trine.
My natal: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?gm=a1&nhor=1&nho2=1&btyp=2&mth=gw&sday=8&sm on=6&syr=2017&rs=0 His natal (disregard house placements, i know he was born at night, and i think he's most likely a sag rising): http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?gm=a1&nhor=2&nho2=1&btyp=2&mth=gw&sday=8&sm on=6&syr=2017&rs=0 Her natal (disregard house, idk what time she was born): http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?gm=a1&nhor=3&nho2=1&btyp=2&mth=gw&sday=8&sm on=6&syr=2017&rs=0
IMPORTANT: Many of his Taurus placements (Sun, Mercury) fall into my 8th house, so there's also that in terms of sexual.
I doubt he has any 8th house synastry with her, it was a very superficial relationship, from what I can tell.
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polkadotstars
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posted June 08, 2017 08:58 PM
Sorry to be blunt, but you need to stop being insecure about him and his ex. It's in the past. Who cares what their relationship and/or synastry was like. He's with YOU now. Insecurities only cause problems and prevent a healthy relationship from forming. Best of luck, xo IP: Logged |
sunpixie007
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From: California
Registered: Jun 2017
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posted June 08, 2017 09:16 PM
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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
Sorry to be blunt, but you need to stop being insecure about him and his ex. It's in the past. Who cares what their relationship and/or synastry was like. He's with YOU now. Insecurities only cause problems and prevent a healthy relationship from forming. Best of luck, xo
I get that and have been to therapy but I came here for insight. I don't care that its petty or whatever
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hypatia238
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posted June 09, 2017 01:07 AM
I have venus conjunct mars in Leo and the best sex I have had involves two guys whose mars trine my venus conjunct mars and whose venus trine as well my venus conjunct mars or sextile my venus conjunct mars so.........if they had mars trine mars but his mars did not trine or sextile her venus I think that the sex was good but not as good as you think either!... If you told me that they have a venus to mars double whammy involving soft aspects I will say that yes that spark will always be there between them but if he is committed to you won't go to her and act on it, he will avoid that... IP: Logged |
sunpixie007
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From: California
Registered: Jun 2017
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posted June 09, 2017 01:21 AM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I have venus conjunct mars in Leo and the best sex I have had involves two guys whose mars trine my venus conjunct mars and whose venus trine as well my venus conjunct mars or sextile my venus conjunct mars so.........if they had mars trine mars but his mars did not trine or sextile her venus I think that the sex was good but not as good as you think either!... If you told me that they have a venus to mars double whammy involving soft aspects I will say that yes that spark will always be there between them but if he is committed to you won't go to her and act on it, he will avoid that...
Indeed they did have mars trine her venus (but very wide 7 degrees) meanwhile his mars sextiles my venus at the same 7 degrees IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 09, 2017 01:34 AM
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Originally posted by sunpixie007:
Indeed they did have mars trine her venus (but very wide 7 degrees) meanwhile his mars sextiles my venus at the same 7 degrees
That is too wide. Orbs according to astrotheme: Orbs used for compatibility charts Conjunction: 10
Opposition: 8
Trine: 6
Square: 6
Sextile: 4.5
Quincunx: 2
Semi-sextile: 1
Semi-square: 1
Sesqui-square: 1.5
Quintile: 1
Bi-quintile: 1 Check for parallels by clicking additional charts on the synastry. Any venus mars parallels? IP: Logged |
sunpixie007
Newflake Posts: 24
From: California
Registered: Jun 2017
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posted June 09, 2017 01:59 AM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
That is too wide. Orbs according to astrotheme:Orbs used for compatibility charts Conjunction: 10
Opposition: 8
Trine: 6
Square: 6
Sextile: 4.5
Quincunx: 2
Semi-sextile: 1
Semi-square: 1
Sesqui-square: 1.5
Quintile: 1
Bi-quintile: 1 Check for parallels by clicking additional charts on the synastry. Any venus mars parallels?
You know what? They had mars square moon at 4 degrees and mars square saturn (at 2 degrees) and I have the same with him but much wider orbs (6-7 degrees). Me and her are the mars obviously. I also have mars trine jupiter with him and his mars is in my 7th IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted June 09, 2017 03:05 AM
i have had my mars-venus-sun conjunct his mars in synastry and i felt nothing...do not focus on one isolated aspect. what is important is what are the person triggers. maybe is not that trine of mars, but something else. look at his chart entirely with the rulers of the 8-7-5 house, look at pluto venus, pluto moon, planets in 8th house, etc.. at least for me aspects to my mars do little, but aspects to my pluto from moon or venus do more. pluto is the rulers of my 7th and it is in 5th house. also in composite pluto venus, pluto moon. moon in 8th house works miracles on me. IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted June 09, 2017 03:10 AM
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Originally posted by sunpixie007:
My natal: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?gm=a1&nhor=1&nho2=1&btyp=2&mth=gw&sday=8&sm on=6&syr=2017&rs=0 His natal (disregard house placements, i know he was born at night, and i think he's most likely a sag rising): http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?gm=a1&nhor=2&nho2=1&btyp=2&mth=gw&sday=8&sm on=6&syr=2017&rs=0 Her natal (disregard house, idk what time she was born): http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?gm=a1&nhor=3&nho2=1&btyp=2&mth=gw&sday=8&sm on=6&syr=2017&rs=0
IMPORTANT: Many of his Taurus placements (Sun, Mercury) fall into my 8th house, so there's also that in terms of sexual.
I doubt he has any 8th house synastry with her, it was a very superficial relationship, from what I can tell.
could you post the synastry and composite? and also the PDF page with the aspect grid.. IP: Logged |
sunpixie007
Newflake Posts: 24
From: California
Registered: Jun 2017
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posted June 09, 2017 02:03 PM
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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
could you post the synastry and composite? and also the PDF page with the aspect grid..
synastry of him + ex (scroll down for interaspects): https://www.astrotheme.com/astrological_synastry_chart.php
composite of him + ex: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?gm=a1&nhor=2&nho2=3&btyp=621&mth=gw&sday=9&smon=6&syr=2017&rs=0
synastry of me + him: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?gm=a1&nhor=2&nho2=1&btyp=66&mth=gw&sday=9&smon=6&syr=2017&rs=0
composite of me + him: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?gm=a1&nhor=2&nho2=1&btyp=621&mth=gw&sday=9&smon=6&syr=2017&rs=0
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hypatia238
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From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
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posted June 09, 2017 03:35 PM
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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
i have had my mars-venus-sun conjunct his mars in synastry and i felt nothing...do not focus on one isolated aspect. what is important is what are the person triggers. maybe is not that trine of mars, but something else. look at his chart entirely with the rulers of the 8-7-5 house, look at pluto venus, pluto moon, planets in 8th house, etc.. at least for me aspects to my mars do little, but aspects to my pluto from moon or venus do more. pluto is the rulers of my 7th and it is in 5th house. also in composite pluto venus, pluto moon. moon in 8th house works miracles on me.
I feel conjunctions feel so similar, more of the same, that you sometimes dont notice them or feel them. Like is too close type of thing... Like with squares its obvious there is a difference but it can both attract you and irritate you similar to oppositions but whith trines you feel there is a difference but in a way that is also compatible, flows and works for you. IP: Logged |
mir
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posted June 10, 2017 10:52 AM
What a pity, the links aren't working here... I land on my own astro.com page each time and that's it  IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted June 10, 2017 04:37 PM
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Originally posted by sunpixie007:
synastry of him + ex (scroll down for interaspects): https://www.astrotheme.com/astrological_synastry_chart.php
composite of him + ex: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?gm=a1&nhor=2&nho2=3&btyp=621&mth=gw&sday= 9&smon=6&syr=2017&rs=0
synastry of me + him: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?gm=a1&nhor=2&nho2=1&btyp=66&mth=gw&sday=9& smon=6&syr=2017&rs=0
composite of me + him: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?gm=a1&nhor=2&nho2=1&btyp=621&mth=gw&sday= 9&smon=6&syr=2017&rs=0
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CapriciousCapricorn
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posted June 10, 2017 05:27 PM
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