posted June 20, 2017 03:33 AM            

My Ascendant is at the EXACT degree of his Sun/Moon Midpoint AND my Descendant is conjunct at the EXACT degree of his Arabic Part Of Marriage! Obviously my AC conjuncts his DC and vis versa. My Mars conjuncts his Venus/Mars midpoint, my North Node conjuncts his Sun/Venus mipdoint, my Sun/Venus midpoint conjuncts his IC and trines his Vertex while my Sun trines his Sun/Venus midpoint.

**Synastry (my chart is OUTSIDE)**

posted June 20, 2017 10:50 AM            

the composite does have aspects that often make one wonder if high forces are at work.

vertex on the descendant always gives some type of other worldly feeling. often similar coincidences of strange experiences have occurred to both.in additionthere can be a feeling of altered diminesions around the elationship.
this aspect does not always translate into a firmer relationship but it does make one sensitive to higher forces.

the stellium of moon/node/Uranus/Neptune also gives a very string feeling of fate as this shows that both partner are connected through the astral plane. it gives common dreams of each other and simultaneous thoughts and feelings about each other. this can be very visionary with the sending of energy and thoughts to each other.it adds a emotional electricity .

the sun is conjunct to venus giving a spontaneous attraction which certainly gives the feeling of fated love.

the major obstruction might be the tsquare of mercury opposed to Jupiter and square to pluto. this shows a hesitancy to share true thought.thought the emotions are connected with fluidity, the minds are separate and have different ambitions. pluto square to Jupiter usually shows that the relationship will never be the priority between you.this square shows a over riding personal ambition which does not unite but separates.

it seems that you first took notice of him when the south node transited the sun/venus conjunction between may 7 and may 14.
so these feeling are recent. it will take tine to substantiate a "fated" relationship.

posted June 20, 2017 07:24 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
I first met him in April 2012, but haven't really thought of him since around May of this year, so you're totally right! Do you think that we're "fated" to be together or am I delusional lol?

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the thing is the chart does have strong otherworldly vibrations. so it my be a fated friend.
but the leap to fated relationship is wide.
personally I think a committed romantic relationship is unlikely because the juno/lupiter midpoint is conjunct to pluto. this shows the selfishness/separatism is stronger than the impulse for committed union.

sun conjunct Venus gives the romantic edge but I would suggest focusing on a friendship.

todd

posted June 21, 2017 12:47 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
What about the fact that his Sun/Moon midpoint almost exactly (off by 1 degree) conjuncts my DC? His Venus/Mars midpoint exactly conjuncts my Mars andhis Sun/Venus MP exactly conjuncts my North Node.

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my feeling is that synastric aspect show how you interact as separate people.
but how many times have your heard "he/she wasn't like that before we moved in /married etc?

a composite shows the nature of the relationship that describes the relationship.

so I am biased to put more relevance into composite aspects.

but either way there are some really loving connection so I wouldn't blow this idea off, if the final outcome is not what you want.

todd

posted July 05, 2017 09:39 PM            

Your Prog Mars squ his natal Venus (0.27 applying)
Your Prog Sun conj his natal Mars (1.35 applying)
Your Prog Sun conj his Prog Mars (1.40 applying)

posted July 06, 2017 08:11 AM            

Thing is you can have lots of lovely synastry but, in a heterosexual relationship you want the to see the man's Mars aspected. Otherwise how will he feel the masculine drive of attraction?

One of the main things I look for in synastry is aspects to ALL of the personal planets. They all need to be 'activated' by the other person for the relationship to be dynamic enough to suit both parties.

posted July 19, 2017 06:48 AM            

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Originally posted by waxlobster:
Do you have any aspects to his Mars? (quintiles in the grid etc.? I can't see any of the main ones from looking at the list of planets).

Thing is you can have lots of lovely synastry but, in a heterosexual relationship you want the to see the man's Mars aspected. Otherwise how will he feel the masculine drive of attraction?

One of the main things I look for in synastry is aspects to ALL of the personal planets. They all need to be 'activated' by the other person for the relationship to be dynamic enough to suit both parties.

The outer planets are important too of course, but they don't all *need* to play a part for each person to feel they are 'seen' by their partner.

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