posted June 28, 2017 01:35 AM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
When you have a natal aspect such as this and meet someone who kinda gets it...and softens it...yes. it's worth investigating.

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And your point was??

posted June 29, 2017 02:56 AM            

The only thing I can say (and this is from my limited experience, and what I've read on here and online), is that synastry is LITERALLY how two people get along (for better or worse). So let's say you have Mars-Sun Square. Well it is a harsh aspect, but nonetheless it's an aspect. And compatibility is all about the aspects between two people. If there are a lot (even if it is harsh aspects) of aspects between two people it would make you want to stay because of what is between you (gotta have some good though and not just sexually binding stuff as well...or else why stay), verses a small amount of aspects which might be easy but provide less of a binding agent. I hope that makes sense.

Now as far as the composite is concerned, my understanding of it is that it's the relationship itself. Not what is actually felt between two people, as that would be the synastry. Ideally one would love to have fairly good, to great synastry and the same as far as the composite. But I personally think great synastry is needed and can be a major binding agent even if the composite is so so. I will say that I have noticed that so so synastry, and a so so composite can actually last for years...at least until a partner meets a person who awakens a part of themselves that hadn't been touched before. That is when the threat of leaving or infidelity is high (at least in my opinion). I also personally believe a composite alone (or good composite with another can not not persuade a person to cheat or leave if the synastry does not promote the necessary aspect energy).

An example from the celebrity world of this is Joe Scarborough. He is an Cancer Rising Aries Sun/Libra Moon, with Pisces Venus and Leo Mars. He has been married twice before. Chances are he married women strong in his Venus and/or Mars, being that he's an Aries and has a strong desire for romance and sexual desire. I'm almost willing to bet he neglected his Moon (which in general he shouldn't have...but esp with ANY kind of Cancer strong in the chart). Enter Mika Brzezinski in 2007 with her Mars Conjunct his Moon (in Libra...she is also a Taurus Sun and thus represents Venus even more). She also has some Neptune stuff natally, so even though she is not a Pisces per se, Joe view's her that way (the synastry could also do that if her Neptune touches Joe's planets). Joe left his 2nd wife in 2012; for I'm assuming Mika. The point is the synastry with her provided him something he had never had. This isn't even taking into consideration the composite between the two of them.

posted June 29, 2017 07:52 AM            

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Originally posted by MahaKali:
I'm talking about two charts. In synastry Mars of one person square Sun, Mars of other sextile Venus. In Composite they have Sun sextile Mars. And I asked, is it possible to make an balance as Sun square Mars is aspect of two big egos.

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posted July 11, 2017 03:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
I think GrlyGrl explained some of the nuances between the Composite and Synastry very well...ideally you would like to have positive aspects in both but it's very common that you will have a hard aspect in one and an easy aspect in another. The just shows me that those two planets hold a theme in the relationship. I think it's better when the Composite has the easy aspect and the Synastry has the hard aspect, as in your example. Hard aspects in Synastry provide friction and interest whereas easy aspects in the Composite can point to stability and longevity.

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