posted June 20, 2017 07:38 PM            

He gives me feelings I've never felt before, but I'm also very confused about who he is. I feel like he is both easy to get to know, and also hard to understand at the same time.

His true intentions are also really hard to pin down. We are really good friends, but we are also fwb. It seems like one moment he wants to be more than just a fwb, but then he also doesn't. There's a personal battle going on inside of him where he doesn't know what he really wants. He doesn't seem to want to fully commit (he says its because of how much time he spends away on business and for research, so he doesn't spend enough time at home for a full romantic relationship), but he also gets jealous and territorial of me (he doesn't want me to be with anyone else, but he knows it's not fair to tell me that).

I am completely fine with our fwb relationship (where I'm currently at in life it works out better this way), but sometimes I wonder what it would be like if our circumstances were different and we were something more.

I've analyzed all off these charts about a million times, and I have my own feelings on these issues, but I was hoping someone with fresh eyes could take a look and offer advice and their perspective on this.

My natal chart

His natal chart

Our synastry, he is on the outside

posted June 25, 2017 12:01 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Ok please don't take this as offensive because I don't mean to be, but it's not easy to be indifferent even if you have an indifferent Aquarius Venus like you. Your Leo moon needs love and affection and admiration for an emotional bond. Since your Aquarian Mercuries are exactly conjunct I suggest using your amazing ability to understand each other to talk to him but be careful because your larger than life, outgoing Leo Moon squares his sensitive, introverted Pisces Sun so he might not understand your needs on an emotional level.

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Don't worry about offending me (; I'm tougher than I look. We both have Leo moons, his is in his 7th house, which makes me think he needs a relationship for emotional satisfaction. Mine is in the 10th, I'm much more, work first, play later when it comes to these things. Our Venuses are conjunct, but mine is in the 4th house, and his is in the 1st. I noticed that right away, while I enjoy being home, cuddling, and being a bit introverted, he would rather travel, assert himself and explore. I don't believe my moon squares his sun, or vice versa, but his moon quintiles my sun.

Our concerning aspects is Venus square Mars (I've never dealt with that type of energy before, but maybe it will be better because he has it natally?) and Pluto square Sun.

He may be a Pisces sun (in a strong early degree) but that's about where the Pisces nature stops. He's an Aries, Capricorn, Aquarius dominant and Saturn,Venus, and Mars dominant, and it's very refreshing to see in a Pisces man.

posted July 02, 2017 01:05 PM            

I don't know how I posted my response on another thread, but I did.
heres my response ,sorry it took so long

you introduction is quite helpful because the composite is a bit difficult to put in perspective of a relationship.

mars is conjunct to psyche and the node is square psyche, so the underlying energy has to do with his charisma and ability to elicit a most sensitive and enchanting affection.

then the eros/psyche midpoint is square to the Uranus/Neptune conjunction. this is another extremely ideastic,spiritual etheric attraction. this aspect is not constant though as both Uranus and Neptune can vacillate between attraction and indifference.

the moon opposition to the sun is square to eros so again there is a spontaneous affection but tenuous.

both these patterns are very attractive but are also very tenuous.

the composite as a whole has several difficult aspects.
pluto is square to chiron and venus. this is not the most loving aspect. it tends toward manipulation and conditional affection if not outright attempts to emotional control.
chiron opposed to venus often has an element of extreme criticism as if you are never meeting his standards and anytime there is a compliment, it is followed by a rebuke.

Jupiter is trine to juno which is a favorable but passive aspect for a relationship, though Saturn square to juno inclines him to be hesitant toward a serious relationship.

I think the pluto/chiron/venus T-square will be to much to over come .when the node transits this T-square between September and novemeber , the affair/relationship likely will end.likely around the 11th of November .

so it seems there is still a bit of time to enjoy

todd