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posted June 23, 2017 04:52 AM            

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I've recently met someone, who I can't stop thinking about.. My feelings aren't necessarily sexual (..yet) .. It feels like a deep yearning to be around him.. I think about him constantly, he's in my head, my heart, my gut... My stomach actually hurts! The problem is, I'm actually in a happy relationship, with someone I feel hugely attracted to! Never thought I'd meet someone who'd stir me up like that. I feel so phony, like I'm cheating already..
I checked our dates and the transits.. When we met, transiting sun was conj by 0-1 degree to my vertex and my moon. Unfortunately I don't have the exact time of his birthday. .. Btw transit Pluto is squaring my Venus for the next 2 years. Not the best time, for finding/staying in love.

Here's our synastry chart:

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posted June 23, 2017 05:03 AM            

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posted June 23, 2017 05:06 AM            

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I'm inside, he's outside

I already noticed the Juno conjunctions! My Asc conj his Juno and Lilith (which you can't see here), but I saw it in another chart drawing. Also my Juno conj his Jupiter and Saturn.

There's also a Jupiter / SN conjunction. He is the SN. and his Venus squares my Nodes.

His personal planets Venus and Mercury conj my IC and his Moon falls in my 12th house! I could imagine that this explains the intense feelings I'm having.. I don't know how he feels towards me though.

I really wish that this actually stops, and that it's just some phase I'm going through.. I'm so disappointed with myself! I always though that I'm interested in a long lasting and serious relationship.. Meeting my soul mate, being just with this one person, come what may. I always feel very intensely at the beginning of a relationship. I'm always the one who gets jealous over nothing, who wants love to be proven, who holds on so very tightly and gives everything.. Then one day I wake up, and the intensity is gone, and I get bored. I know this sounds horrible. Like I said I feel phony and superficial. This isn't the first time that I'm feeling this way. I already broke off a relationship with someone, I felt extremely close with.. I don't want to be this kind of person anymore..

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posted June 23, 2017 07:28 AM            

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Originally posted by ana_bee:
I've recently met someone, who I can't stop thinking about.. My feelings aren't necessarily sexual (..yet) .. It feels like a deep yearning to be around him.. I think about him constantly, he's in my head, my heart, my gut... My stomach actually hurts! The problem is, I'm actually in a happy relationship, with someone I feel hugely attracted to! Never thought I'd meet someone who'd stir me up like that. I feel so phony, like I'm cheating already..

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Happens all the time. No sense in laying a guilt trip on yourself.

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posted June 23, 2017 08:42 AM            

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He does have a lot of attraction aspects with you.
His Pluto and possibly his Moon opposes your fiery Venus and Mars conjunction, this is pretty hot and if there were actual interactions between you two it may lead to extremely obsessive relationship! On top of that, another attraction point is his Mars conjuncting your Sun. And his Juno right on your ASC, giving the feeling of an ideal mate. His Venus in square to your Nodes makes it feel like he stopped your life direction( Nodes) and entered into the picture all of a sudden.
His Pluto trines your Moon and this stirs up deep feelings of belonging within the Moon soul.
Your Saturn squares his Venus, and in combination with other attraction aspects, this aspect produces a desire in Saturn to posses and own the Venus and claim them as their own.
Your Uranus squares his mars which produces sudden rush of carnal desires.

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posted June 23, 2017 08:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
His Venus in square to your Nodes makes it feel like he stopped your life direction( Nodes) and entered into the picture all of a sudden.

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@Orange This is exactly what it feels like!!!! Thank you, for putting this into words! But "stopping someone in their life direction" is probably not the best thing, is it? Is this aspect felt both ways, by any chance? Although I'm pretty sure, I'm more affected by our encounter than he is.. He has the chance to contact me, but he didn't so far.

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