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Topic: Ten Aspects For INSTANT Attraction
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 74271 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 28, 2017 12:52 PM
Ten Aspects For INSTANT AttractionFast attraction is what it means. We see the boy across the room and our knees go weak. The same goes for him. This is mutual.Will it last? These aspects will not tell us that. To answer that,we would need aspects for soul, emotional bonding and simpatico, which are primarily Moon, Mercury and Moon like asteroids, such as Ceres, Valentine, Vesta, the Child Asteroid and many others. 1.Uranus Conjunct the Moon This is instant ZING, felt by both 2. Uranus Conjunct Venus This is an instant attraction, as well. The Moon/Uranus, above, may be a bit more intense, but both are very intense. 3. Pluto Conjunct the Ascendant This is what I call the “weak in the knees” aspect. The Ascendant person feels this more intensely than the Pluto person. 4. Pluto trine Venus The Pluto person feels more of a desire to control. The Venus person wants to be controlled. This works best when the male is the Pluto and the female the Venus. If not, the female can be the dominant person in the relationship. This does not seem to work as well. 5. Pluto trine the Moon In this aspect, the Brutus Pluto overwhelms the tender sensibilities of the gentle Moon. He sweeps her away and she loves it. 6. Pluto trine Mars With this aspect, there is an kind of edgy, raw, sexual tension. Both feel it. 7. Mars Conjunct Venus I picture Cupid shooting his arrow. Hearts flies. Eyelashes bat. Mars crosses the room to meet beautiful Venus. Both are instantly attracted and encircled with floating hearts. 8.Apollo Conjunct the Ascendant The Ascendant person would feel a kind of awe for the Apollo person. So, this would be attraction, plus awe. 9. Nessus Conjunct the Sun I have been the victim of this *Cough*. Yowser, this aspect, probably, unglued me more than any aspect I have ever experienced. I was the Sun. He was the Nessus. Nessus is abuse. However, it does not SEEM like abuse, at first glance. If it did, one would run. Nessus feels like an incredible magnetic pull. It feels as if one’s life depends on acceding to that pull. However, Nessus seems to end badly. That which is too hot to handle seems to blow up to an explosive level and then, literally, explode, often into cold rage and revenge. 10. Nessus Conjunct Venus This aspect makes for a”Kaboom”–a nuclear blast. The attraction is off the walls, but it seems to end badly, in the same manner as the above aspect. Share this: ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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MilaBirkin Knowflake Posts: 1645 From: Cordoba, Argentina Registered: Jul 2015
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posted June 29, 2017 12:22 PM
I'm so agree with Uranus conjunct Venus because I have experience with that aspect and I like it! So hot and never boring, haha. My Venus in Aquarius kinda loves it.edit: Omg! I have Nessus in Scorpio 27°52' and last year I dated a guy, Sun in Scorpio 27°44'. I was sooo attracted to him. Still am. IP: Logged |
MilaBirkin Knowflake Posts: 1645 From: Cordoba, Argentina Registered: Jul 2015
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posted June 29, 2017 12:25 PM
Thank you for your post. I already 'told' you that you inspire me .IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 74271 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 29, 2017 02:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by MilaBirkin: Thank you for your post. I already 'told' you that you inspire me .
You inspire me, too, Mila ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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waxlobster Knowflake Posts: 893 From: Birmingham Registered: Mar 2011
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posted June 29, 2017 05:33 PM
Good list of aspects, although Uranus ones tend to be short lived attractions. Like an on/off switch the Pluto ones tend to last.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 74271 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 29, 2017 06:00 PM
Great post, Wax ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Zhooey Knowflake Posts: 39 From: Registered: Jun 2017
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posted June 29, 2017 07:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne:
3. Pluto Conjunct the Ascendant This is what I call the “weak in the knees” aspect. The Ascendant person feels this more intensely than the Pluto person.
Yep.. "weak in the knees" is very appropriate.. I have zero control about how i feel. For exemple i can be an excellent actor, an excellent liar i if want to but i couldnt lie to him. Its amazing to feel that vulnerable but so frightening as well .. I'm not so sure Pluto feels it too, or it hides it very very well IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 160195 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 06, 2017 10:30 PM
Second what Ami said. IP: Logged |
manderin Knowflake Posts: 852 From: New York, NY USA Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 06, 2017 10:44 PM
I think there's definitely something to these but most of those aspects have very slow moving planets so most people who have them would have them with just about everyone they meet.I have a virgo ascendant so literally every human born within a few years of me has their Pluto conjunct my ascendant. I most certainly do not fall into an obsessive frenzy over everyone in my age range. I dunno... maybe the slow planet person is the one that actually feels the aspect? Because the fast planet person will have that aspect with just about everyone, so how can they fall too? If your mars trines someone's Pluto, your mars trines everyone's Pluto in your age range. BUT NOT EVERYONE'S MARS would trine the Pluto person... Your mars trining their pluto would be a new energy for them that they don't experience with most people. So perhaps these aspects are only activated within the fast planet person if there are other aspects in the chart that indicate attraction. Or maybe these aspects only work after the slow person initiates interest. Like- what if Mars doesn't notice pluto because that energy is so familiar to the person... but Pluto definitely notices Mars- and THAT's the trigger that makes Mars excited about the Pluto person. I dunno. Just brainstorming here. IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 2619 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted July 07, 2017 03:27 AM
Yeah good point ^^I was wondering the same thing. I guess there def needs to be other factors that explain it so it's not something that would happen with everyone in that age range. The guy I'm being pulled towards has a very strong attraction to me and has for over 10 years, admitting he's never wanted anyone so much in his life. Now he's my age so we both have uranus conjunct on his stellium BUT my ascendant is also bang smack in the middle of it all. I'm wondering if this is the missing link or yes he would have this attraction with all people our age. Hmmmmmm.... But we do have other things going on too so.... IP: Logged |
kani Knowflake Posts: 1124 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted December 28, 2018 05:49 PM
Venus conjunct Pluto (we are not the same Pluto generation)Venus opp Mars Eros conj BML Lust sq Mars and Lust sq Venus Sun opp. Venus Sun opp. Mars Mars opp. Venus IP: Logged |
Capguy75 Knowflake Posts: 132 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted December 28, 2018 05:59 PM
If my recent run crushes have been anything to go by, the common factor seems to be an Unaspected Mars!!I have no idea why as I'd have thought it would be a passion killer. I can see how, maybe, if it's the crush's Mars that's unaspected then their feelings might be cooler, however I got a mutual crush on someone once (we were both taken at the time so didn't pursue it) where *my* Mars was unaspected. Let me tell you, there was no shortage of passion on my part and if our relationship statuses had been different... IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 160195 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 03, 2019 09:34 PM
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Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3739 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted January 04, 2019 02:20 AM
Specifically only the trine for Pluto to Venus/Moon/Mars? Why? I thought the conjunction or even the square/opp are more potent in terms of instant attraction?IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2 Knowflake Posts: 1181 From: Registered: Apr 2014
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posted January 04, 2019 05:46 PM
Ami I love your posts Uranus conjuct Venus is real I think though that Pluto in hard aspect to Venus or Moon is intense and instant? Also what's your opinion about Venus conjuct NN? IP: Logged |
ScorpioASC Newflake Posts: 19 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted July 11, 2022 11:46 AM
I've been researching celebrity couples who mentioned they felt "love at first sight" with their partners and I noticed some aspects they all had in common in their synastries.They either had: Venus conjunct/opposite/trine Lilith OR they had: Venus conjunct/trine North Node I personally haven't experienced these aspects for myself in my own relationships, but it sounds like the kind of attraction that can last for a very long time between two people! IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 7170 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 12, 2022 11:51 PM
Like Ami mentioned Mars trine Pluto!I've known this guy and would see him a few times a year at parties, friends on FB and stuff. Very hot and attractive guy, and just cool. But does that mean I have to have a crush on them?! Other people would see it when I didn't see or acknowledge it. Plus I usually see this person at parties where there are lots of good looking cool people and vise versa. So what's the big deal? While I enjoy their company I could usually feel my self shying away from them, but also being all like "yes sir" Another guy wanted to tease me and blurt out that I have a crush on him. But I mocked him and sarcastically embarrassed ran away and came back from this other guy calling me out. But the last few years the attraction has been surfacing more. I read an interpretation that this attraction can be so strong that the people involved can be so attracted to each other that they will avoid each other at first. I've even asked myself, can't I be friends with a good looking guy? It's getting harder to keep our hands/body off each other and our clothes on. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 160195 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 24, 2022 04:53 PM
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