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ScorpieScorp
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posted July 02, 2017 06:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,

I work with this person. There is some really uneasy energy between us, and he is really the only person on my team who I have never had a real conversation with, it's as if he avoids me or has no care for me, and I've not done anything to him.

Do you see some sort of repulsive energy between us?

Please note, I do not know his exact birth time or birthplace. He's on the outside...

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posted July 03, 2017 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone?

I do see we have an exact Pluto sextile Mars and Pluto conjunct Moon...not sure if it's that?

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posted July 03, 2017 05:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meyray     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The aspects I see which could fit with what you're describing are imo:

- Moon square Moon - people either compliment each other with their differences or they don't get along at all and with the Moon being emotional and reactive, compromising is difficult

- Moon/Pluto conjunction - very intense and potentially uncomfortable, sometimes even for lovers so imagine the strain for a non-intimate relationship

- Venus/Uranus conjunction - an erratic connection, a very on-off dynamic, in a professional relationship it might come of as if you two have mismatched values, speaking of which...

- Your Jupiter making several tense aspects to his personals - you are activating his Moon/Mercury/Pluto T-square if I see correctly. You two might not see eye to eye about life in general and your Jupiter may be pocking at some of his internal struggles because of the aspects and he just may want to avoid that

- Saturn opposite Venus - you may intimidate him (especially if you hold a higher position than him)

- Sun opposite Venus - usually benign but might cause strain due to different styles

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posted July 03, 2017 11:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by meyray:
The aspects I see which could fit with what you're describing are imo:

- Moon square Moon - people either compliment each other with their differences or they don't get along at all and with the Moon being emotional and reactive, compromising is difficult

- Moon/Pluto conjunction - very intense and potentially uncomfortable, sometimes even for lovers so imagine the strain for a non-intimate relationship

- Venus/Uranus conjunction - an erratic connection, a very on-off dynamic, in a professional relationship it might come of as if you two have mismatched values, speaking of which...

- Your Jupiter making several tense aspects to his personals - you are activating his Moon/Mercury/Pluto T-square if I see correctly. You two might not see eye to eye about life in general and your Jupiter may be pocking at some of his internal struggles because of the aspects and he just may want to avoid that

- Saturn opposite Venus - you may intimidate him (especially if you hold a higher position than him)

- Sun opposite Venus - usually benign but might cause strain due to different styles



Thanks MeyRay!

As for the Moon Sq Moon, not sure if we actually have this aspect given I don't know his birthtime (or birthplace).

As for that Pluto/Moon, how does that layout/feel in a professional relationship? I've had it in a relationship before.

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posted July 06, 2017 01:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Beautiful_Light     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:

Thanks MeyRay!

As for the Moon Sq Moon, not sure if we actually have this aspect given I don't know his birthtime (or birthplace).

As for that Pluto/Moon, how does that layout/feel in a professional relationship? I've had it in a relationship before.


Moon/Pluto has the potential to bring about feelings of obsession and telepathy. He probably is thinking of you but doesn't want you to know, which causes him to behave strangely or awkwardly around you!

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posted July 08, 2017 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
Moon/Pluto has the potential to bring about feelings of obsession and telepathy. He probably is thinking of you but doesn't want you to know, which causes him to behave strangely or awkwardly around you!

Really, you think he likes me? Do you see something in the chart besides Pluto/Moon to suggest attraction?

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posted July 08, 2017 10:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
Moon/Pluto has the potential to bring about feelings of obsession and telepathy. He probably is thinking of you but doesn't want you to know, which causes him to behave strangely or awkwardly around you!


If not, him as the Pluto, what would he be thinking? We are just co-workers.

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posted July 08, 2017 10:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this with a co worker and I am the pluto, I have a hard time trusting her, I dont instinctively like her, I dont obsess over her or think about her a lot. We get along well but from the start I put up a barrier and she seemed to really like me a lot but I feel cautious around her, I dont trust her.

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posted July 11, 2017 08:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I have this with a co worker and I am the pluto, I have a hard time trusting her, I dont instinctively like her, I dont obsess over her or think about her a lot. We get along well but from the start I put up a barrier and she seemed to really like me a lot but I feel cautious around her, I dont trust her.

Interesting...maybe there's an intensity he feels and he distrusts in whatever shape he interprets it. It's too bad, because, I'm not a monster or anything.

I probably react stand offish with him too, but that's just a reaction to how he's acting.

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posted July 11, 2017 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
Interesting...maybe there's an intensity he feels and he distrusts in whatever shape he interprets it. It's too bad, because, I'm not a monster or anything.

I probably react stand offish with him too, but that's just a reaction to how he's acting.


But we do get along well and I do like her too...we go on walks together ect. We hiked together once.

There was a coworker I struggled with more and my saturn conjuncted his venus and pluto...

We were professional but our connection did not flow, it did not feel natural, it felt awkward. I didn't like his masculinity and something about him turned me off...

Actually venus rules his mars and my saturn conjuncts both his venus and pluto, I think that is what is up.

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posted July 11, 2017 11:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You have a nice synastry, some very nice jupiter aspects.

I have a theory. Maybe moon in capricorn feels uncomfortable with intensity (moon conjunct pluto), they dont feel safe, its out of their comfort zone.

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posted July 11, 2017 11:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
You have a nice synastry, some very nice jupiter aspects.

I have a theory. Maybe moon in capricorn feels uncomfortable with intensity (moon conjunct pluto), they dont feel safe, its out of their comfort zone.


Interesting theory. Makes a lot of sense...however, I don't know his birth time nor do I know if the birthplace is accurate. Also, my Pluto/Moon natal is at a wide orb, I think 9. But I am intense given I'm a Scorpio and other aspects...

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posted July 11, 2017 11:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
Interesting theory. Makes a lot of sense...however, I don't know his birth time nor do I know if the birthplace is accurate. Also, my Pluto/Moon natal is at a wide orb, I think 9. But I am intense given I'm a Scorpio and other aspects...

I was referring to moon conjunct pluto in your synastry, you dont know his time of birth but you do have this aspect if your time of birth is correct.

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posted July 12, 2017 12:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok I am in a computer now...

Your moon in Libra conjuncts his Pluto, that is a fact even if you don't have his time of birth unless you dont know your time of birth either.

Now the odds he has moon in Capricorn are extremely high, there is a small chance I suppose from what I can see that mayyyybe he has Moon in Sag at late degrees, if you change his time of birth his moon can go up to about 7 degrees forward or backwards.

I will assume he has moon in Capricorn which may result in him feeling uncomfortable with intensity period, especially in the context of a professional relationship.

Moon in Capricorn likes to feel in control emotionally and is naturally skeptical, they open up slowly too and naturally don't trust things that feel high risk.

Moon conjunct Pluto feels like life and death and pushes the other to open up faster than they normally would feel comfortable doing which doesn't feel safe.

Add that he might have moon square pluto natally, since he has moon in Capricorn he probably struggles with this square to pluto as pluto pushes him to take emotional risks he does not welcome, the square to pluto pushes his emotional comfort zone to other levels he rather avoid do to the nature of the square further reinforced by his moon been at fall in Capricorn, its hard to take such risks and easier to stay away and play it safe.

He probably interprets situation of been around you on a biological level as danger that must be avoided. You are activating his fight or flight mode and he is running. Think of his moon in Capricorn square pluto as someone whose fight or flight mode gets easily triggered and your moon is irritating and activating constantly his fight or flight mode.

Is like you remind him of the things from his childhood that do not make him feel safe bc he natally may have moon square Pluto so he may have grown up in a stressful environment, possibly abusive, or have a stressful relationship with his mom. Your moon on his Pluto is triggering his moon in Capricorn square Pluto. Your presence brings to the surface issues he has probably been avoiding and that he doesn't want to deal with.

You feel me!?

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posted July 12, 2017 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You know what is weird the two people this past year that I have had the most awkward work relationships with both have moon in Capricorn!

My director and this intern that was with us for a while both have moon in Capricorn and there is something really awkward about my connection with them, we just don't flow!!

I don't think is a moon in capricorn thing though, like with her, her Psyche conjuncts my Chiron and with him his Alma conjuncts my Chiron. Psyche and alma are both the soul so maybe we are hypersensitive to each other.

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posted July 12, 2017 08:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
You know what is weird the two people this past year that I have had the most awkward work relationships with both have moon in Capricorn!

My director and this intern that was with us for a while both have moon in Capricorn and there is something really awkward about my connection with them, we just don't flow!!

I don't think is a moon in capricorn thing though, like with her, her Psyche conjuncts my Chiron and with him his Alma conjuncts my Chiron. Psyche and alma are both the soul so maybe we are hypersensitive to each other.


Interesting interesting! Well given we have no interaction I wonder if our energies are just naturally doing what you say. I'm not meaning for it!

Re: Capricorn Moons, how coincidental your 2 people had the same! I'll have to research more on Cap Moons...I had an ex with this moon.

My birth time is correct, and he does seem very Capricorn Moon to me vs Sag...wish birth times were public record..

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