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llewsacm
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posted July 03, 2017 08:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Below is the composite of me and a male childhood friend. We were extremely tight as kids and had a wonderful relationship with one another for several years, but drifted away after he lost his dad and went to another school.

I recently reconnected with him after 30 years of no contact. Since then, we talk every day for hours on end. He wants to come visit me and is already making plans. He lives on the west coast and hasn't been back to the Midwest for 9 years.

I see the friendship aspects in our composite with the grand trine of Jupiter Sun and Moon. My gut tells me there is more to this now that we are adults and that perhaps we are being reconnected now for more than just rekindling a friendship. Do you see anything else in our composite that would point to this notion?

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posted July 03, 2017 01:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
there are a couple of things....
juno is square to juptier which show tension ,positive or negative toward marriage.the node will be square to the Jupiter/juno midpoint in October hmmmmm.....

then the eros/psyche midpoint is square to union which could show a idealistic and romantic hookup. the south node transited these symbols middle may to the first part of june......so I'd say there is an underlying romantic interest here.

the Uranus/Jupiter midpoint is at 26scorp35, so the impulse for sudden marriage was squared by the node on june 10

with the sun conjunct sedna,clearly the friendship is/was based on totally honesty with each other.

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posted July 03, 2017 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Todd. Do you see any problems related to this composite sexually? Last time I saw him was prior to me becoming sexually active.

Yes we are and have been totally honest with one another. It's nice to have and have had that with someone.

We haven't talked marriage. I just reconnected with him the last week of June with the nnode squaring my Venus and the nnode squaring his sun. What's equally amazing is my progressed Venus, Mars and Moon are all conjunct his natal Venus, mars and moon. I didn't find that out until after I got his birth time!

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posted July 03, 2017 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Thanks Todd. Do you see any problems related to this composite sexually? Last time I saw him was prior to me becoming sexually active.

Yes we are and have been totally honest with one another. It's nice to have and have had that with someone.

We haven't talked marriage. I just reconnected with him the last week of June with the nnode squaring my Venus and the nnode squaring his sun. What's equally amazing is my progressed Venus, Mars and Moon are all conjunct his natal Venus, mars and moon. I didn't find that out until after I got his birth time!


well the venus/mars conjunction trine to Uranus and sexile chiron seems favorable.

but I did have one...quandary... the Saturn/Neptune opposition is as MC/IC.

this could show a major "hidden" component to his personality .I stress could....it is within these symbols that he might be gay... again .. I am not stressing this.... it could just be he is very complex and private.
it could indicate a hidden agenda but with the honesty of your youth I don't think there is any thing malicious here.

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posted July 03, 2017 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes I saw that as well and wasn't sure how to interpret. I think he may be bisexual which doesn't bother me at all. I'm very open and accepting. I'm really just more thrilled to have my friend back after all this time! I just wanted to inquire further since we are now both adults. I thank you...and will update if I find out anything further to confirm your suspicion.

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posted July 04, 2017 01:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow. That is amazing .

I wonder what cusp/sign your 11th house cusp is in?

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posted July 04, 2017 08:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Wow. That is amazing .

I wonder what cusp/sign your 11th house cusp is in?


My 11th house is intercepted in Taurus with Venus there. 11th starts in Aries and 12 starts in gemini.

His sun and Mercury fall there, actually...his sun is conjunct my Venus.

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posted July 10, 2017 04:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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posted July 10, 2017 05:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Randall. I took a broader look at the progressed (mine) to his natal and my planets will all line up to his natal on July 25. I usually only look at the faster moving planets in progressions but had my "duh" moment after studying the charts together.

This is because he was born 45 days past me. I'm 45 years old now. And he popped into my head, out of the blue, towards the end of June. It was nuts like I had to find him! Hmmmm.....

He revealed to me the other night that I was his first crush...in 6th grade...lol. how sweet.

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posted July 21, 2017 09:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by todd:
well the venus/mars conjunction trine to Uranus and sexile chiron seems favorable.

but I did have one...quandary... the Saturn/Neptune opposition is as MC/IC.

this could show a major "hidden" component to his personality .I stress could....it is within these symbols that he might be gay... again .. I am not stressing this.... it could just be he is very complex and private.
it could indicate a hidden agenda but with the honesty of your youth I don't think there is any thing malicious here.

todd


Just a quick update. Hes neither gay or bisexual. The complexity shown in the composite aspect may reflect that we would be a biracial couple. Not sure if that would jive with your interpretation of complex...I don't look at it that way but I know some people still would even today.

He has said on a few occasions already that he's going to come back and propose to me. : ) We play with the thought anyway...our talks have moved into a sexual discussion at times and I think I would devour this man if left in the same room alone for a few mins.

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posted July 23, 2017 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Just a quick update. Hes neither gay or bisexual. The complexity shown in the composite aspect may reflect that we would be a biracial couple. Not sure if that would jive with your interpretation of complex...I don't look at it that way but I know some people still would even today.

He has said on a few occasions already that he's going to come back and propose to me. : ) We play with the thought anyway...our talks have moved into a sexual discussion at times and I think I would devour this man if left in the same room alone for a few mins.



that would fit perfectly as Saturn square neptune can show partners of different racial, cultural or religious groups

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posted July 23, 2017 04:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by todd:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by llewsacm:
[b] Just a quick update. Hes neither gay or bisexual. The complexity shown in the composite aspect may reflect that we would be a biracial couple. Not sure if that would jive with your interpretation of complex...I don't look at it that way but I know some people still would even today.

He has said on a few occasions already that he's going to come back and propose to me. : ) We play with the thought anyway...our talks have moved into a sexual discussion at times and I think I would devour this man if left in the same room alone for a few mins.



that would fit perfectly as Saturn square neptune can show partners of different racial, cultural or religious groups

todd[/B][/QUOTE]

Ok thanks Todd. I appreciate it always.

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posted November 22, 2017 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wanted to provide an update. My friend was supposed to visit me on Oct 13, and got cold feet. He claimed to have a severe sinus infection and could not fly, but I didn't buy it. Since then, I've backed away and haven't heard from him at all. Except for last week when I wished him well and thanked him for reconnecting during the time we had. His response was "I am very confused...". I didn't bother asking what that was about. I figured if you want to tell me what's up, you will. Lol.

I have to say I am disappointed as he was really very romantic as well as erotic at times over the phone. He talked about proposing to me when he came back on several occasions. My only thought as to why this faded fast might be that he actually is gay, and didn't feel comfortable enough to share this info with me. So Todd, you may have been correct from the start! As usual...lol.

I also had a dream the other night where he showed up at my doorstep. Guess I'm still unsettled...I feel like I was led on from a person I trusted. Disappointing, but life goes on.

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posted November 24, 2017 11:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Maintain ur distance. U did nothing wrong. If he wants to be a part of ur life, he will show up.

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posted November 24, 2017 01:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

Maintain ur distance. U did nothing wrong. If he wants to be a part of ur life, he will show up.

Yeah, I have no plans reaching out. I know I did nothing wrong...I have been completely honest so I have nothing to feel bad about. Just disappointed ya know? Thanks aries23...

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