posted July 09, 2017 10:59 AM            

She's the red, I'm the blue.

posted July 10, 2017 07:08 AM            

Have you observed what Mercury square your own Ascendant feels like? Is it that people often don't understand you or approach you with mistrust as what you say is in discord with how you express yourself?

posted July 10, 2017 09:39 AM            

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Originally posted by outofideas:
As soon as you mentioned that you do not trust her I looked up to your Mercury - and there it is - squaring both of your Ascendants. This may be the reason why.
I find this position to be unfortunate as you always question what the Ascendant person really means when they speak and your ideas are often very different.

Have you observed what Mercury square your own Ascendant feels like? Is it that people often don't understand you or approach you with mistrust as what you say is in discord with how you express yourself?

She may be drawn to you due to her personal planets conjunct your north node and with your Mars on her south node you may have some latent anger towards her coming from past lives if you believe in these. It may also be adding to the feeling of mistrust.
In general, Ascendants/angles conjunct in synastry are not that uncommon.

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No, I've never really paid any attention to my Mercury squaring my ascendant. I just assumed the reason why I don't trust her is because her Sun and Mars are in my 12th. And you're saying that charts where every single angle conjuncts in synastry is pretty common place? I don't think I've ever met anyone where one of theirs is conjuncting one of mine..let alone all of them. I do believe in past lives. The only anger I may have towards her right now is that I feel nepotism got her to where she is and I find that annoying.

posted July 10, 2017 10:58 PM            

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Originally posted by outofideas:
It is just that it is not as uncommon as you may think. I know a few people who conjunct my Ascendant with theirs by a few degrees.

Since she is so inclined to talk about her sexual exploits, whatever this may mean, the other thing that may be worth mentioning is her Nessus on both of your Ascendants.

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YES!! That's the 1st thing that caught my attention. Also my Nessus is conjunct her Venus. She's into kink & things like that so I guess that goes along with the Nessus on the ascendant theme? I really don't know much about it. How we came about talking is kind of interesting. I have a profile on OkCupid & I set it up to meet anybody cuz I'm just looking for friends. Well I came across her profile & liked it because I knew her. It doesn't tell you someone likes your profile until it's mutual & sure enough she liked mine too. So we started chatting from there. Then we took it to Facebook messenger. I don't think she's sexually attracted to me but then again I'm not sure. She considers herself heteroflexible so she's open to at least messing around with women.

posted July 11, 2017 01:39 PM            

Well, I'm not sure about Nessus conjunct Venus, I have this with my ex (I'm Nessus), apparently it can account for mutual obsession.
With her Nessus on the Ascendant and Pluto square Mars (and the Sun if you want to consider it) she must be an intense persona. The Nessus energy, as described by you, is quite in the open and is part of her self-expression so it's not surprising if sex is a favourite topic of hers.
I would think it's best to be cautious around this person as you just don't really know her yet and I think she may be good at forcing herself in a subtle manner with her Mars/Pluto and add to that her Nessus on your Ascendant.
Her Nessus+Ascendant conjunction is sextile to Pluto so I am thinking she always finds herself in a charged but positive environment, no threats to her, quite the opposite in fact, and dealing with authorities and with people in power is something that comes easy to her, and she may also be bossy without appearing forceful.
With the Mars square she may often resort to roundabout ways to resolve any issues, should they come up.

She's recently had her Saturn return but maybe she's handled it well.
As for her interest in women I think she does extremely well in female company, judging by her Venus-Moon-Mercury stellium in Cancer she must be very loveable, feminine and popular among fellow women. This may also tip the scale towards females for her sexual preference. Mercury trine Pluto and opposing Neptune somewhat she is very smart but suggestive speech or behaviour in others may be appealing to her and confuse her at the same time. She may also be a skilled liar or someone who uncovers only what they deem necessary about themselves. She probably has her fair share of misleading interactions and may be lied to a lot. But I think she may be a good secret keeper if she cares for the person and isn't overly extroverted and careless.

Your Mars on her SN can mean that in previous lives you were lovers etc, so in general it generates attraction and sexual appeal, along with everything else that Mars represents.

I think it's very possible for her to be attracted to you.

posted July 12, 2017 12:17 AM            

She may be a nice person and all, but I just can't get passed the nepotism thing. I found out something that confirms my suspicions as to how she got her position and things like that **** me off so I'm not sure I want to continue talking to her because eventually I'll tell her how I feel about it and I don't want to risk my job in case she tells her mom I said something rude or whatever. You just never know oh and yes she does know fully well what kind of power she has in telling people her mom works there because usually the 1st thing out of her mouth is about who her mom is. I know in a sense it's not her fault, but I still find it unfair and total ******** .