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areesquivel
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posted July 18, 2017 03:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I met this guy 3 months ago in an app, yes weird enough, I had to go to a medical check next week in another city close to him, he'll go there too so we can meet, during the 3 moths we've been pretty honest with each other, though we are not exclusive I didn't date anyone though I have the app still open, I notice he didn't say anything but he didn't check the app, we talk everyday, as the date gets closer I start to panic, I'm very insecure and even though I have talked about this with him cause basically I let myself go with him to the point we are developing feelings for each other and obviously that's scary cause we NOW have expectative.

Since I've been so insecure I tend to act childish with him and he's been so good that he doesn't say a thing and is really nice to me, though yesterday I started to feel a change in him, me as a scare girl I am checked the app and notice he re open the app, I panicked obviously, started to think the worst and I DON'T WANT TO tell that to him, because I know I'll over react and say things I don't want to and might ruin everything and we are going to see each other in a week, so yeah I decided to post the Synastry so I can have some insight.

I know also he has some transits going on like Jupiter conjunct his natal Moon, Pluto square natal Moon, and things like that, maybe he's going through some things and I am over reacting but fear is kicking in and I'm so scared.

If anyone can help me with this, anything, any insight in the Synastry or maybe the transits are more important cause that could explain us individually... You can tell me, I'm open to any insight. Thank you.

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GrlyGirl200
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posted July 18, 2017 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can I ask who is who? And are the times (ie Asc's) correct?

**Although I have a feeling you are the Cancer right?

I'm similar to whoever the Cancer Sun is, as I have a Cancer Sun/Asc/Mars with Leo Mercury. I have a feeling whoever it is, they were born around maybe 86-88 or so?

Off the bat, I am not loving the dw Sun-Moon Squares. I also don't like that one of you two are HEAVILY Water (I'm assuming you), while the other lacks it in their personal planets. I have more to say, but I'm wondering if you are the Cancer? The reason I ask is because whoever that person is, I gotta say this is probably a bad relationship to get into. As a super Cancer (which that person is), I would really really caution them to get with someone who feeds and nourishes the water side. They also really do need someone to connect with their Moon and Sun.

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areesquivel
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posted July 18, 2017 04:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
Can I ask who is who? And are the times (ie Asc's) correct?

**Although I have a feeling you are the Cancer right?

I'm similar to whoever the Cancer Sun is, as I have a Cancer Sun/Asc/Mars with Leo Mercury. I have a feeling whoever it is, they were born around maybe 86-88 or so?

Off the bat, I am not loving the dw Sun-Moon Squares. I also don't like that one of you two are HEAVILY Water (I'm assuming you), while the other lacks it in their personal planets. I have more to say, but I'm wondering if you are the Cancer?



Yes you are right I'm the heavily water Cancer and my problem always is that I'm too emotional, the times are correct and yes I'm from 87 actually he's from 81 and the Sun/Moon I feel it everyday when we talk cause he always says I'm too emotional

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areesquivel
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posted July 19, 2017 11:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:

Off the bat, I am not loving the dw Sun-Moon Squares. I also don't like that one of you two are HEAVILY Water (I'm assuming you), while the other lacks it in their personal planets. I have more to say, but I'm wondering if you are the Cancer? The reason I ask is because whoever that person is, I gotta say this is probably a bad relationship to get into. As a super Cancer (which that person is), I would really really caution them to get with someone who feeds and nourishes the water side. They also really do need someone to connect with their Moon and Sun. [/B]

Oh god and you know even though I don't feel we get along, he kinda helps me when I'm being childish, he always says he doesn't want to fight with me so he stops me right there when I'm being childish and that helps a lot, only problem is, he doesn't like when I'm being too emotional, he acts like he doesn't care.

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HelixID
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posted July 19, 2017 12:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HelixID     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@areesquivel, don't drive yourself crazy.
In this synastry you have the advantage, imo.
The guy has Sagittarius on the Descendant and the ruler Jupiter is in Scorpio conjunct your Asc ruler Pluto and near your Asc! His Sun and Asc ruler Mercury don't touch your Dsc, Sun, Mars or Asc/Dsc rulers at all. So rest assured that he's more attracted to you than you will ever be to him.

If I were you, I wouldn't expect much of him. When you guys meet, you'll probably think, what was I thinking.

Astrologically speaking, he is not your type.
Go for a Leo Sun (your Mars is there), Taurus Asc (conjunct your Dsc) and Venus as his Asc ruler in Cancer conjunct your Dsc ruler Venus. Placements like that would suit you much better.

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areesquivel
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posted July 19, 2017 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by HelixID:
@areesquivel, don't drive yourself crazy.
In this synastry you have the advantage, imo.
The guy has Sagittarius on the Descendant and the ruler Jupiter is in Scorpio conjunct your Asc ruler Pluto and near your Asc! His Sun and Asc ruler Mercury don't touch your Dsc, Sun, Mars or Asc/Dsc rulers at all. So rest assured that he's more attracted to you than you will ever be to him.

If I were you, I wouldn't expect much of him. When you guys meet, you'll probably think, what was I thinking.

Astrologically speaking, he is not your type.
Go for a Leo Sun (your Mars is there), Taurus Asc (conjunct your Dsc) and Venus as his Asc ruler in Cancer conjunct your Dsc ruler Venus. Placements like that would suit you much better.



THANK YOU! that gives me more confidence, I know his NN conjunct my SUN and I had this before with someone but it was HIS sun and I swear i loved his personality, I guess he's attracted to my personality also.

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areesquivel
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posted July 20, 2017 11:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jupiter rules his DSC and transit Jupiter is getting close to his natal moon so that could play a big role for him too right?

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