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Topic: Goat Man Contacting Stellium
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StelliumH6 Knowflake Posts: 635 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 25, 2017 06:22 PM
Hi everybody, As some of you know, Goat Man ended our two and a half year relationship in June. I was devasted and hurt. When it ended we said that we are friends, and we would continue to be good friends. (We have known each other for over thirty years.) He has been seeing another woman since last month. About two/three weeks ago he started contacting me. We have talked, and I have tried to keep it light and pleasant. He has been flirty and has made sexual innuendos. Your thoughts?IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 2632 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 25, 2017 11:44 PM
My honest thoughts; I feel so much disgust against such men. As if nothing ever happened! He hurt you a lot and still only driven by his genitals I'm sorry but that's what I feel deeply {scorp moon) NO SORRY / NO CARE FOR YOUR EMOTIONAL WELL-BEING / NO "PROMISE FROM THE HEART"
^ it's the least you deserve now (all included) IP: Logged |
StelliumH6 Knowflake Posts: 635 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 26, 2017 02:36 AM
mir, I appreciate your honest thoughts. Thank you for your passionate feedback. IQ told me that Capricorn men with Cancer Rising and self-admitted commitment issues will commit only when they are absolutely certain that they will not get a better deal than in the present relationship. The Deal is to extract more from the relationship than give to the partner. His 7th Lord Saturn is about structure in relationships but this is afflicted by Jupiter and hence the imbalance of giving and receiving. He has ongoing transit Pluto conjunct his Sun for the next few years and perhaps this will transform his attitude to that of more selflessness. Who knows? We did see each other one afternoon, and we talked about a lot things. He said he ended it as I deserve more. He also told me he cares for me. I do not take his sexual banter too seriously as I know from experience that he uses humor quite a bit to hide/a deflection. mir, I have learned so much since the break up, and my self-worth and relationship needs are the most important.IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 2632 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 28, 2017 01:52 PM
quote: mir, I have learned so much since the break up, and my self-worth and relationship needs are the most important.
Love to hear that stellium Btw, my 7th ruler is also heavily conflicted. It's Neptune (conj jupiter-IC / pisces desc) and making a grand square with Saturn and Mercury/Asc. I'm not born to have a relationship, a clearly proven fact over time. And with a Scorp Moon square Aqua Mars/NN.. poeh! IP: Logged |