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Saraintheski
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posted July 16, 2011 09:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saraintheski     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm in a relationship and we have Saturn in the 7th house no matter how nasty we get in a day or two it's like once we start talking again and even if I'm annoyed with the way things have been going Instantly fall back in love so does he not that I really fell out of love heres astro.coms Saturn in the Seventh House 7th hs
Saturn, the planet of separation and repression, in the seventh, the house of marriage, might seem to be absolutely fatal to such a relationship, but it is not. Saturn here is quite compatible with any kind of relationship, although it does create certain problems.
On the one hand, it can bind the two of you together, because it signifies that together you will have to face certain difficulties and responsibilities. You are tied to each other by duties, obligations, and responsibilities, in addition to any feelings of affection that you may have. In fact, the seventh-house Saturn can tie two people together even when they want to split up.
But this placement can also signify that under some circumstances there will be no relationship at all between you.

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posted July 16, 2011 09:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saraintheski     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
we also have
Mars Square Saturn
Saturn Square Pluto
Mercury Trine Saturn
Venus Trine Saturn

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posted July 16, 2011 09:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ugh, I hate Saturn on the Dsc it's so dull.
Yes there is a feeling of being glued. Question is, do you like all the goo or do you feel like you want to make a run for it.
As the Dsc person, I couldn't take it.

"In fact, the seventh-house Saturn can tie two people together even when they want to split up."
Yesssss.

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posted July 16, 2011 09:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saraintheski     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Ugh, I hate Saturn on the Dsc it's so dull.
Yes there is a feeling of being glued. Question is, do you like all the goo or do you feel like you want to make a run for it.
As the Dsc person, I couldn't take it.

"In fact, the seventh-house Saturn can tie two people together even when they want to split up."
Yesssss.



totally opposite of a dull relationship we actually have a really odd relationship according to society ....We do get really nasty sometimes I don't ever want to run from it but I do feel pressure because it is a hidden relationship like I'm leading a double life being with him...but being with him is were I feel safe I feel more at home at his home then mine ! okay lol you didn't ask for all that but yeah just my experience were you in a relationship like this and his ex has the saturn but in the 4rth which isn't so great but they still have a connection very complicated..

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posted July 16, 2011 09:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"were you in a relationship like this"
I was the other woman once, so yea that was hidden.

Are you the Saturn person or the Dsc person, or are you talking about Saturn Dsc in composite? I feel that the Saturn person in synastry, touching the other's Dsc has more to lose, feels more exposed, etc.

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posted July 16, 2011 09:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saraintheski     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not the other woman .. his ex or hes in the process of divorce she knows me and I've spoken to her it's just hidden from family and friends and would be conisdered weird to most people who are to miserable and a jaded to know what love is ... I mean in a composite I have saturn in the 12th he has it in the 3rd..

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posted July 16, 2011 10:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saraintheski     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
also we have oppostite ascendants which I like he grounds me ..

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posted July 16, 2011 10:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saraintheski     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
also we have oppostite ascendants which I like he grounds me ..

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posted July 16, 2011 10:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You didn't answer, but OK.

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posted July 16, 2011 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saraintheski     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes I did look up 2 lines It doubled what I wrote .. lol sorry

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posted July 16, 2011 10:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CancerRising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this with my friend/ex boyfriend. We can't stay away from each other but want to at the same time. I'm the Saturn on his Dsc and it's awful. I just want to walk away most of the time, and I do, but we pull each other in.

We're really good friends too, which makes it harder staying away. If we hated each other it would be easier lol. And yeah, everytime we get back together we don't tell anyone because they'd just be annoyed.

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posted July 17, 2011 03:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesSun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
(wrong topic)

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posted July 17, 2011 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeleah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
huh..I have saturn on my ascendant with my guy..a bit different but it does make us stay together when I think, why are you still in this with him sometimes...

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posted July 17, 2011 04:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a lot more comfy with Saturn on the Asc. You can take their refining/critiscism, etc. or leave it. It's the Dsc that makes me mad, cos they never want to leave!!

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posted November 13, 2012 03:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for shapari     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
k i have saturn in some1s 7th house..in a synatry book i saw it is a critical relationship..plus his neptone in my 6th chaos.i already went trough the chaos...wondering if critical means my death,lol.and that book says saturn in 7th means the AC one trusts u.

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posted November 22, 2012 06:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for olgatheo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just want some info to Saturn in 7th , My Saturn and Sun conj. fall inn his 7th and his Saturn and Uranus conj. fall in my 7th and in composite chart Saturn &Pluto conj.fall in the 7th.
HELP!

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posted November 22, 2012 11:03 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The problem for me is that I don't think Saturn really binds unless it's there in the synastry touching your planets. Just having it in the composite is not enough imo.

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posted November 23, 2012 05:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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shapari: wondering if critical means my death,lol.and that book says saturn in 7th means the AC one trusts u.

...whaaa? Death? No way. And yes I trusted them, no probs there.

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posted March 01, 2016 08:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sikanda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this natally. I seem to go for mature men who make me feel comfortable and safe. They must also be loyal and respectful.

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posted March 01, 2016 09:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had that with my ex we became serious really fast but it didnt last.We had plenty of saturn aspects but i never felt the glue..

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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
I had that with my ex we became serious really fast but it didnt last.We had plenty of saturn aspects but i never felt the glue..

Same here, but I certainly felt the glue... A whole lot. I was Saturn conjunct his DSC + square his Venus.

But the answer to the OP is: no. You stick together for a while, until it becomes too heavy/depressing (although it doesn't have to, of course). I suppose if Saturn is afflicted either natally or in the synastry, that amplifies the "negatives" (and then you find yourself with yet another "lesson" to learn).

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posted March 01, 2016 03:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can only say no to this, cause my boyfriend just broke up with me recently and we both got each others saturn in 7th house, as well as the composite... we also got sun-saturn doubble whammy, but still, he left me...

So nope, no sticking together no matter what

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Aww I am sorry, NTN!

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posted March 01, 2016 04:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am currently dating someone who's Saturn conjuncts my DSC. Our chart rulers are also conjunct EXACT.

We also have:

His Saturn conjunct my Mars in the 7th at 3 degrees.
His Mars opposite my Venus EXACT.

Along with a Moon-Venus DW with an EXACT opposition.

We've only known each other six months but have spent every single day together since.

I don't think I'll ever be able to leave unless I move away.

Things started out great but my Uranus-Neptune squaring his Mercury/ Venus retrograde started rearing its ugly head after awhile.

I'm dying to get out of the relationship but I'm dying to stay as well. I'm not sure what the future holds for us.. not to mention Saturn is currently transiting my 7th house.

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