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EmGem
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posted August 11, 2017 05:32 PM
  
Why is this man so sexually obsessed with me??
He masturbates to me almost daily and has for a very long time. Sometimes multiple times. He fantasizes over my insta posts and just talking to me gives him uncontrollable feelings.he tells me no one has ever had this effect on him before. He thinks Im the definition of beauty and sexy. He also sees my soul - but this post is specifically about sexual obsession. I'm not 100% sure about his birth time. He says he was born either early morning or late at night. So gem asc is my guess. However i might have it wrong and may end up putting planets in his 8th?! I'm seeing him in a couple of days after 7 months of not seeing him. The build up is intense.. I don't believe venus or Uranus conjunct asc is to blame. There must be something else in this synastry. But what is it, can you see it? Open my eyes.
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Lalafortunaea
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posted August 11, 2017 08:47 PM
I know you say you don't think it's that, but Venus is touching his ascendant, which can make someone obsessed with how you look and find you VERY physically attractive. And his Venus is on your asc, so, double whammy!!!Before I even looked at the chart, and saw the title, I thought "hmm Scorpio..." And lo and behold, he has a Scorpio moon, so, he very well may be able to see into your soul some what. I had a guy confess to me he masturbated looking at my pictures, and he was a Scorpio as well. I'm not saying every Scorpio is a horny sex fiend, but they do naturally ooze sexuality, sexual magnetism, and desire. I'll let someone else tell you more about the rest, but that's just some very basic info on my part. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted August 12, 2017 04:49 PM
He has mars conjunct moon in scorpio trine jupiter so he must have a very high sex drive and is easily aroused by emotions, jupiter expands what it touches and makes it larger than life. His moon conjunct mars conjuncts your AC and psyche hence you meet his ideal physically and soul wise. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted August 12, 2017 05:14 PM
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EmGem
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posted August 12, 2017 06:07 PM
Thank you guys for your responses  His sex drive is off the charts - so he tells me. He says I won't know what will hit me when we're together because he can keep going and going and going. Plus he has the Scorpio passion to match. His moon might be a little off if he was born at the opposite end of the day but considering he has such a high sex drive he will def have moon/mars conjunct.
We have that mirrored. Actually there's a lot of mirroring between us. Here's the composite Hypatia notice the venus/mars midpoint conjunct the NN. Wanting to consummate the rel.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 12, 2017 06:55 PM
Crazy obsession sounds like Nessus or Dejanira.------------------
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hypatia238
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posted August 12, 2017 07:43 PM
Jupiter trine his mars would give him a high sex drive but with moon conjunct his mars sex nourishes him and is an emotional need that needs to be met. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted August 12, 2017 07:57 PM
Its simple really, he has a very high sex drive and you are his type bc of scorpio rising and how much stuff he has in scorpio including that mars conjunct moon on your AC and psyche which his jupiter trines giving you a huge boost in your self confidence. Given the synastry and that you both have moon conjunct mars with composite Saturn on the AC I feel you will enjoy a sexual relationship for a while but the composite does not give me the confidence it will lead to marriage or a committed long-term relationship but is fun for now, he worships you and your moon conjunct mars in leo is loving it, all that devotion and adoration someone heavy in scorpio can provide. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted August 12, 2017 08:06 PM
Actually it could last, there is potential bc of the saturn in composite on the AC and pluto conjunct moon and mars on the composite... Yes very sexual composite with emotions running high but saturn helping stabilize and giving you two staying power. Very niceee IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted August 13, 2017 11:19 PM
I was sexually obsessed with my ex and we had Mars conjunct Pluto in composite along with Sun and Valentine all in Libra and it was a tight stellium.Mars conjunct Pluto is very hot IMO. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted August 14, 2017 02:09 AM
I am absolutely loving the adoration ❤️
I've never felt so adored and admired EVER. I am perfection to him. And I dont even think I have to try hard lol.Seriously I thought there was something else in synastry that accounted for the obsession. We do have moon/Pluto DW in declinations too though.
But the Jupiter involved does make sense.
Also I noticed the composite Jupiter conjuncts my natal venus, this expanding my Venusian side. So you say it's a sexual composite but I'm hoping it's also emotionally passionate? Is that where the moon/pluto jumps in? Yes mars/pluto is definitely hot but prone to fighting too. I think I had the square in the composite with my ex. @ami, I checked Nessus and Dejanira but they do t do much in our syn or comp, IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted August 14, 2017 05:44 AM
Hmm... interesting, I was thinking planets in the 8th house. I have someone where my venus and sun fall into his 8th house, he doesn't seem obsessed to his degree but he does seem very into me on that level. When we did have a real moment for togetherness, he blew my mind is the best way to say it. He said the sound of my voice would set him off, touching my skin was the soft, well you get the picture. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted August 14, 2017 11:31 AM
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Originally posted by EmGem:
I am absolutely loving the adoration ❤️
I've never felt so adored and admired EVER. I am perfection to him. And I dont even think I have to try hard lol.Seriously I thought there was something else in synastry that accounted for the obsession. We do have moon/Pluto DW in declinations too though.
But the Jupiter involved does make sense.
Also I noticed the composite Jupiter conjuncts my natal venus, this expanding my Venusian side. So you say it's a sexual composite but I'm hoping it's also emotionally passionate? Is that where the moon/pluto jumps in? Yes mars/pluto is definitely hot but prone to fighting too. I think I had the square in the composite with my ex. @ami, I checked Nessus and Dejanira but they do t do much in our syn or comp,
Yes I think it could be great! like I said above after I edited out my comment. Saturn conjuncts your AC so this helps glue you together and helps with stabilization in spite of the desire to pull away at times bc of the intensity between you two due to Pluto. Plutonic relationships don't typically last unless there is some saturn there too! Further bc of Moon conjunct Pluto it ensures that emotions run high between you two and that is not purely just sexual so yes its a nice composite and it could work, its up to you two. The fact you are both older and not 19 like when I met my ex is a huge plus bc you both have experience and maturity to help you deal with the plutonic side effects more effectively. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted August 14, 2017 12:39 PM
Moon conjunct Pluto was hard for me, it was in the composite so I think it went both ways. We both had Libra moons, I understand his flip side because I have the same flip side but it doesn't make it right. Given the moon\pluto to add the sensitivity on that, I ended up just leaving him alone. We couldn't talk and all we did was argue. Venus in Gemini, the fastest way for us to get bored and leave the relationship. Kill the communication and excitement... gone, gone like the wind. We are logical to an extent but like a squirrel our curiosity is going to move on to more interesting things. Also out of sight out of mind, although I did stick around longer than what I thought I would. I don't think he was necessary a bad guy, just self abosrbed to a degree, was only really nice unless he wanted something, manipulative sometimes. I could see beyond his hard exterior though, I know there is more under there than what he really was trying to show but I think I just am generally like this to begin with. I always say if I don't , absolutely don'e like someone, then their pretty evil. IP: Logged |
waxlobster
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posted August 14, 2017 01:13 PM
I think it would be good to see the aspect grid, I can't see all the orbs and don't know if there are any quintiles etc. It's difficult to just look for aspects. Certainly with Moon-Mars in Scorpio and a Mercury-Pluto conjunction you clearly have attracted a man with an already obsessive nature. Mercury-Pluto won't stop until it's reached a conclusion or burned itself out. Of course with your Pluto and Uranus triggering both of his 'obsession areas' your energy assists and magnifies his interest and connection capacity, but these two are generational (as you know). I would think his fixation is most personally supported by your mirroring Moon-Mars conjuntion, indicating you haveg an obsessive side also (but all too often reigned in by Saturn) and the Leo in you absolutely loves the attention!! ;-) Of course at some point your Saturn is going to kick in and analyse whether this man has worthwhile traits for a more estabished relationship and over time you may start to lose respect for him. As the spark of your Uranus to his Moon-Mars burns out, the reality of his neediness and what could become obsessive jealousy (with that Scorpio stellium) will probably lose it's appeal. Enjoy the sparks when you meet, I hope you both have a great time!! ------------------
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hypatia238
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posted August 14, 2017 01:57 PM
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
We couldn't talk and all we did was argue. Venus in Gemini, the fastest way for us to get bored and leave the relationship. Kill the communication and excitement... gone, gone like the wind.
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EmGem
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posted August 15, 2017 12:37 AM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Yes I think it could be great! like I said above after I edited out my comment.Saturn conjuncts your AC so this helps glue you together and helps with stabilization in spite of the desire to pull away at times bc of the intensity between you two due to Pluto. Plutonic relationships don't typically last unless there is some saturn there too! Further bc of Moon conjunct Pluto it ensures that emotions run high between you two and that is not purely just sexual so yes its a nice composite and it could work, its up to you two. The fact you are both older and not 19 like when I met my ex is a huge plus bc you both have experience and maturity to help you deal with the plutonic side effects more effectively.
Yes I thought about the age factor being a huge plus in our situation. I've been told that in past lives he and I loved each other romantically but we fought a lot. There were power struggles and lots of jealousy. So it's time to see now if we can resolve that. I can see some power issues going on already. He needs to be in control and call the shots. Hmmmmm...
Is his Saturn on my moon also binding in case he wasn't born when I thought he was? Meaning composite asc may be different.
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EmGem
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posted August 15, 2017 12:49 AM
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Originally posted by waxlobster:
I think it would be good to see the aspect grid, I can't see all the orbs and don't know if there are any quintiles etc. It's difficult to just look for aspects. Certainly with Moon-Mars in Scorpio and a Mercury-Pluto conjunction you clearly have attracted a man with an already obsessive nature. Mercury-Pluto won't stop until it's reached a conclusion or burned itself out. Of course with your Pluto and Uranus triggering both of his 'obsession areas' your energy assists and magnifies his interest and connection capacity, but these two are generational (as you know). I would think his fixation is most personally supported by your mirroring Moon-Mars conjuntion, indicating you haveg an obsessive side also (but all too often reigned in by Saturn) and the Leo in you absolutely loves the attention!! ;-) Of course at some point your Saturn is going to kick in and analyse whether this man has worthwhile traits for a more estabished relationship and over time you may start to lose respect for him. As the spark of your Uranus to his Moon-Mars burns out, the reality of his neediness and what could become obsessive jealousy (with that Scorpio stellium) will probably lose it's appeal. Enjoy the sparks when you meet, I hope you both have a great time!!
Thanks waxlobster!
I'm curious, why may I start losing respect for him? You're right I do have a pretty potent obsessive side. I can tell he does too. I don't ever recall attracting such an intense person before. I think something in me must have changed in the last couple of years.
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EmGem
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posted August 15, 2017 12:53 AM
@colourful, yes moon conj Pluto is definitely hard. I'm not sure how I'm going to handle seeing him to be honest. Esp since we have it in synastry and composite too. Certainly not light hearted and I can imagine your Gemini venus just wants to have fun! IP: Logged |
waxlobster
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posted August 15, 2017 08:59 AM
Ah yes, sorry EmGem to qualify the 'losing respect comment. It was based upon his obsessiveness being likely to turn into possessiveness. Plus Sun in Libra on a back foot can become very needy. I think your Leo planets would lose patience.....but we're not really talking longterm here. At least not yet so I hope the meet up goes well and I'll be hoping you let us know. :-)IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted August 15, 2017 11:15 AM
Sun in Libra is also great for commitment, both of my committed relationships I had Sun in Libra in composite, the 7th house rules marriage and partnership after all and Libra rules the 7th house (me ex and I almost got engage and I have been with my current partner for a total of 10 years). Marriage is about interdependence and cooperation, is about been a team between two people which is Libra's domain. I don't see how in a composite chart that has to do with two people coming together Sun in Libra is a weakness. That is were American culture comes in and its obsession with independence. In reality we are biologically wired to need each other, to be part of a tribe or community and connect at a deeper level as it increases our chances of survival. This is were Pluto comes in with its strong inclination to form deep attachments and is strong survival instinct. However it also rules joint finances similar to how the 7th house rules contracts and business transactions supporting the history of marriage which was not about love until recently but more about arrangements that ensure survival, protect the resources of your family or increase the resources of your family. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted August 15, 2017 11:24 AM
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Originally posted by EmGem:
Yes I thought about the age factor being a huge plus in our situation. I've been told that in past lives he and I loved each other romantically but we fought a lot. There were power struggles and lots of jealousy. So it's time to see now if we can resolve that. I can see some power issues going on already. He needs to be in control and call the shots. Hmmmmm...
Is his Saturn on my moon also binding in case he wasn't born when I thought he was? Meaning composite asc may be different.
Yes I have read that is binding and good for marriage. You have a nice composite, the strong emotions (moon conjunct Pluto) and the sexual attraction (mars conjunct pluto). I guess just handling that intensity well and maturely will be the key but your age and Saturn on the AC or the Moon should help with this make both want to stick out, hopefully that will be sufficient. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted August 15, 2017 11:49 AM
I will add that my ex has Venus in Libra, I have pluto in Libra and my husband has Sun in Libra and our composite activates my Pluto, his Venus and his Sun. Pluto rules my chart.So there is that too..if you have Libra in your chart there is a good chance you will end up with someone who you have a composite with that activates this in your natal. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted August 15, 2017 05:23 PM
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Originally posted by waxlobster:
Ah yes, sorry EmGem to qualify the 'losing respect comment. It was based upon his obsessiveness being likely to turn into possessiveness. Plus Sun in Libra on a back foot can become very needy. I think your Leo planets would lose patience.....but we're not really talking longterm here. At least not yet so I hope the meet up goes well and I'll be hoping you let us know. :-)
Thank you wax, I see what you mean. He's already playing power games I feel. It's like he's scared of what he will feel if he looks into my eyes when we see each other. And I'm frustrated...... It's only Leo Saturn and mars. I have a Virgo moon, if that makes any difference
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EmGem
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posted August 15, 2017 05:26 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I will add that my ex has Venus in Libra, I have pluto in Libra and my husband has Sun in Libra and our composite activates my Pluto, his Venus and his Sun. Pluto rules my chart.So there is that too..if you have Libra in your chart there is a good chance you will end up with someone who you have a composite with that activates this in your natal.
Thanks hyp I have a feeling his asc might be a little off by my guess and if it's the other end of the day the composite moon may in fact conjunct his natal sun. I know I have a huuuge effect on him so I'd be surprised if all the composite is activating is his natal NN. But the push pull is tiring me.... I'm sad today. It's like he so wants to see me and then backs off. And we both planned to be in LA at the same time for this meeting. After 7 months.....
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