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Topic: Dilemma - who do I choose and why??! Charts added
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abrightfutureahead Knowflake Posts: 164 From: kent uk Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 12, 2017 04:00 PM
So it has been a very long time since I have had any psychical contact and there are two men who are interested in getting to know me. I feel both are equally as promising, kind, funny, good looking etc. I don't know either of them very well but talking to both trying to decide who is better to form a closer bond to. I don't see that either of these have any soulmate type aspects although I could be wrong.. I have a little girl so can't afford to make any more mistakes but a girl has needs and if anything I would just like someone to cuddle up to that will be good to me. First synastry and composite = Blake Synastry Composite Guy B = James Synastry Composite Thank you so much for taking a look! I really need to chose one of these guys to get to know better, my libra moon doesn't enjoy being single!! Thanks again in advance you wonderful people !!
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abrightfutureahead Knowflake Posts: 164 From: kent uk Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 12, 2017 04:10 PM
P.s Todd I am most excited to have your kind interpretation of these charts. Your knowledge and way of explaining the effects of the aspects and midpoints are like poetry, just beautiful. After such a promising chart from your last thorough evaluation on a synastry and composite, the guy in question still texts me but hasn't seen me as he lives far away, so think that it will probably never happen!! What a shame after having a rare grand sextile, I was excited to see how that panned out! Let's hope these two beautiful (and local) men have something substantial to bring to my life x IP: Logged |
abrightfutureahead Knowflake Posts: 164 From: kent uk Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 12, 2017 04:18 PM
P.s Todd I am most excited to have your kind interpretation of these charts. Your knowledge and way of explaining the effects of the aspects and midpoints are like poetry, just beautiful. After such a promising chart from your last thorough evaluation on a synastry and composite, the guy in question still texts me but hasn't seen me as he lives far away, so think that it will probably never happen!! What a shame after having a rare grand sextile, I was excited to see how that panned out! Let's hope these two beautiful (and local) men have something substantial to bring to my life x IP: Logged |
comdoc Knowflake Posts: 726 From: Tucson Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 12, 2017 06:22 PM
Abrightfuture, the neighbor James wins. Overall synastry potential of 65%(6.5/10). Composite relationship chart synergy with others value of 75%(7.5/10). Are there any other choices? You are wise to consider carefully his relationship with your daughter.IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 7412 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 12, 2017 08:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by comdoc: Abrightfuture, the neighbor James wins. Overall synastry potential of 65%(6.5/10). Composite relationship chart synergy with others value of 75%(7.5/10). Are there any other choices? You are wise to consider carefully his relationship with your daughter.
My gut also tells me she should keep looking... IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 7412 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 12, 2017 08:21 PM
Venus square mars generates attraction but it also puts the two at odds sexually, when one is hot the other one is cold. Eventually it puts a strain in the relationship with the more sexual partner seeking to get their needs met outside of the relationship even if they love their partner. IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl200 Knowflake Posts: 404 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 13, 2017 02:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by comdoc: Abrightfuture, the neighbor James wins. Overall synastry potential of 65%(6.5/10). Composite relationship chart synergy with others value of 75%(7.5/10). Are there any other choices? You are wise to consider carefully his relationship with your daughter.
Can I ask how you came to the numbers? Did you run it in a program? quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Venus square mars generates attraction but it also puts the two at odds sexually, when one is hot the other one is cold. Eventually it puts a strain in the relationship with the more sexual partner seeking to get their needs met outside of the relationship even if they love their partner.
I didn't know this! And it does make so much sense, as in literally every time I've been cheated on and/or the "physical act" reduced it was with a person who I had a Venus-Mars Square with. This oddly enough has never occurred when there is a Conjunction, Trine, Sextile, and esp Opposition. IP: Logged |
abrightfutureahead Knowflake Posts: 164 From: kent uk Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 13, 2017 02:54 AM
Comdoc could you tell me the score for Blake and what the positives would be? The neighbour James is too complicated, living next door etc. things could get messy and our charts are not screaming soulmate so probably best to swerve this one, but I haven't had a man to cuddle in nearly a year and my evenings are long and lonely when my 7 month old goes to bed. Would just like some company while I keep searching for the one! Thanks x IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 7412 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 13, 2017 11:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by GrlyGirl200: I didn't know this! And it does make so much sense, as in literally every time I've been cheated on and/or the "physical act" reduced it was with a person who I had a Venus-Mars Square with. This oddly enough has never occurred when there is a Conjunction, Trine, Sextile, and esp Opposition.
I didn't read this anywhere but is a personal observation of mine so is nice to see you have noticed this to be the case with your own personal experiences as well. IP: Logged |
abrightfutureahead Knowflake Posts: 164 From: kent uk Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 14, 2017 09:26 AM
@Todd could you please give a look into the first chart Blake. Neighbour James is too close to home (literally) and I wouldn't want to mess with a Scorpio heavy man if there is no potential there. Just too complicated...Blake is someone I see potential with romantically, but don't get much from this chart, I like this house placements going on with us though, and never experienced moon conjunct moon, so hope to see how it plays out. If you rule it out I'll have to keep on looking, like another poster said. IP: Logged |
abrightfutureahead Knowflake Posts: 164 From: kent uk Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 14, 2017 09:27 AM
@Todd could you please give a look into the first chart Blake. Neighbour James is too close to home (literally) and I wouldn't want to mess with a Scorpio heavy man if there is no potential there. Just too complicated...Blake is someone I see potential with romantically, but don't get much from this chart, I like this house placements going on with us though, and never experienced moon conjunct moon, so hope to see how it plays out. If you rule it out I'll have to keep on looking, like another poster said. IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 937 From: Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 14, 2017 10:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by abrightfutureahead: @Todd could you please give a look into the first chart Blake. Neighbour James is too close to home (literally) and I wouldn't want to mess with a Scorpio heavy man if there is no potential there. Just too complicated...Blake is someone I see potential with romantically, but don't get much from this chart, I like this house placements going on with us though, and never experienced moon conjunct moon, so hope to see how it plays out. If you rule it out I'll have to keep on looking, like another poster said.
I feel like you've already made up your mind, without having to look at the charts... The neighbor seems to be a risky choice for respectable REAL LIFE reasons and a chart reading shouldn't sway you from your reasoning. You're a smart woman to put your daughter's safety and well-being first and you would know your own situation better than a stranger on the internet. Common sense says, give Blake a try if you're interested in him. There is obviously positive and negative in both charts but you won't really know how any of it feels until you experience it for yourself. IP: Logged |
abrightfutureahead Knowflake Posts: 164 From: kent uk Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 15, 2017 04:54 PM
Yes guys you're right. There is definite undeniable chemistry and mutual sexual attraction with neighbour James, but just too close to home to pursue anything there...@todd where are you? Really want your input on Blakes chart. Your knowledge is golddust. Thank you everyone x IP: Logged |
abrightfutureahead Knowflake Posts: 164 From: kent uk Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 15, 2017 05:16 PM
Yes guys you're right. There is definite undeniable chemistry and mutual sexual attraction with neighbour James, but just too close to home to pursue anything there...@todd where are you? Really want your input on Blakes chart. Your knowledge is golddust. Thank you everyone x IP: Logged |
abrightfutureahead Knowflake Posts: 164 From: kent uk Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 20, 2017 02:10 PM
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ScandinavianCrab Knowflake Posts: 123 From: Scandinavia Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 22, 2017 07:34 AM
I dont know if this applies to men but the experience i have from Scorpio women with fire moons is that they are crazy, all 3 of them Moon conjunct moon goes a looong way, but im a Cancer.. IP: Logged |