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Ami Anne
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posted August 13, 2017 09:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Someone asked me how the Moon, Venus and Uranus acted in synastry. I assume that other people have the same question, so I will try to tackle it here. I think I am going to use the conjunction and the easy/positive aspects for this article. These are the trine and sextile. I could do another article using the hard aspects–the square and opposition. I like to make my articles kind of bite size. That way people can snack on them. The best learning is when it is easy and fun. If you like to learn this way, thank my Ninth House Gemini stellium of the Sun, Mercury, Venus and the South Node. Onto the article.

1 Venus/Moon

Venus/Moon is a warm, gentle and loving interaction. I don’t mean to give an absurd example, but it would be how one loves one’s dog. My dog is so adorable that I could pat her for hours. I rub behind her ears and she makes cooing noises. I pat her stomach and she looks like she smiles. I could eat her up: she is so beautiful to me. This would describe Venus/Moon, as I see it. Venus/Moon is not sexual, per se. It is more of pure love.

2. Venus/Uranus

This would be more sexual in that it is kind of love at first sight.You see the person and there is a ZING. A lightning bolt hit each person. If the level of soul is not in the chart, this relationship will not last on Venus/Uranus alone.

3.Venus/Sun

This is said to be a marriage aspect. It is similar to Venus/Moon, but not as MUCH of a warm fuzzy. It may be more of “deeper regard” love, if you understand what I mean. It would be more of thinking very highly of your partner, rather than wanting to eat him up :/


4.Venus/Chiron

This relationship may have a very early and intense bonding. You may feel as if you finally found someone who understands you deeply. The trine and sextile may not be as unstable as the conjunction. The conjunction seems to be such an intense bonding that is scares one person away. That has been my experience with Chiron in conjunction with personal planets.

5. Venus/Pluto

This is a wonderful aspect: the stuff of romance novels. This is deep love and deep passion. You will know it if you have experienced it once. You can feel it when you meet it again. In a relationship, this one aspect alone will not keep you connected. You still need Moon connections, but this aspect is very romantic.

6.Venus/Mars

This is similar to Venus/Uranus in that both people are hit with a lightning bolt. This aspect is not quite as intense as Venus/Uranus, which takes your breath away. You can still breath with this one, although your breathing may be shallow.

7.Venus/Neptune

This is a mixed bag. The conjunction is not, usually, a good thing. There can be deception on both sides. Neither person may see the TRUE nature of the other. When the blinders come off( and they, always, do) there can be great rifts Venus trine and sextile Neptune is, likely, a good thing. Each can see the other through an optimistic, rosy glow.

8. Venus/Saturn

This is, also, a mixed bag. Venus conjunct Saturn may result in the Saturn person”riding the behind” of the Venus person. The Saturn person may be critical of the appearance and/or tastes of the Venus person. With the trine and sextile, there may be a nice sense of bonding and a glue that keeps the relationship together.


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posted August 13, 2017 10:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Love this ami, ilove your articles.

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posted August 13, 2017 10:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
Love this ami, ilove your articles.

Thank you so much, Sweetie. You made my day

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posted August 13, 2017 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So helpful, I learned! TY!!!

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posted August 14, 2017 07:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrandFireT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In your Venus/Moon analogy, who is the dog and who is the dog owner?

Or is this a mutual scratching of ears and belly?

Thanks.

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posted August 14, 2017 08:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
So helpful, I learned! TY!!!

Thank you, Love!

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posted August 14, 2017 08:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GrandFireT:
In your Venus/Moon analogy, who is the dog and who is the dog owner?

Or is this a mutual scratching of ears and belly?

Thanks.


GREAT question. There is a mutual warmth but the Venus may be more of the dog owner, I think

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posted August 14, 2017 12:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could you add venus\neptune?

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posted August 14, 2017 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Could you add venus\neptune?

Sure, CB. I will add Saturn too. xx

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posted August 14, 2017 03:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Done, my Friends

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posted August 14, 2017 04:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know a guy and we have:

Venus conjunct Sun, Venus conjunct Mars, Venus square Mars, Venus conjunct Uranus, Venus conjunct Neptune, Venus sextile Neptune, Venus sextile Pluto (exact, not even a minute orb there!) Venus trine Pluto....

I absolutely adore him ♥
it seems one-sided
as I can barely get him to speak to me, but then he'll appear from the shadows and give me a big long hug and disappear again with hardly a word. So I suppose he must like me a little. ♥
beautiful man.

This is a lovely write-up by the way Ami, it's gotten me all mushy so you've gotten right to the core of each mix. :-)

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posted August 14, 2017 05:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, Wax. That is supreme compliment and so very appreciated!

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posted August 22, 2017 08:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stellia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Great list Ami!

Would also add on venus-saturn that the venus can have a softening effect on the saturn person, and the saturn person can apply boundaries to the venus person. These don't have to be negative - eg healthy boundaries can encourage towards maturity or responsibility.

I have this with someone, I'm the saturn. He's more responsible as a result of my influence, I'm more chilled out and positive with his venus. It's about striking a balance between a healthy interaction and unhealthy stifling or criticism. Being aware of it helps me keep it light.

With the same guy, my venus closely conjuncts his NN. The other way of looking at this is as saturn as karma king, especially in our case where we have a karmic double whammy going on.

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posted August 22, 2017 12:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank u, S! The Venus/NN really softens things

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