posted August 17, 2017 09:00 AM            

When discussing it with a friend I could only think of one other occasion (at 17) when I experienced such a feeling.

I am very social and am always out and about meeting new people, and have always lived in big cities so I personally put a lot of weight on such a feeling, however fleeting, as meaning this person is important.

When I met this current one I happened to be dating someone he knew and was at an event with, however when I started chatting to this man I forgot about why I was there as we got so caught up in talking my date had to come back and pry me away. I just remember feeling an overwhelming warmth, comfort and soul connection with a complete stranger. I also found him to be incredibly attractive, just a huge PULL. It wasn't like we were speaking on matters of heart either or having some sort of D and M, it was a fashion event and that was kind of what the conversation was centred around.

When I finally contacted him via social media last Friday (maybe 3 months later) he just happened to be at a party 500 metres from my house! Talk about synchronosity. He also told me when we met up that he had tried to get my contact details but the person I was with wouldn't share them. Fair enough.

So I'm wondering by looking at this synastry what aspects would indicate a lust at first sight feeling?

Sun conjunct venus I'm assuming? Pluto opposite moon?His sun in my first?

Who have you experienced a similar feeling with and what aspects would you associate with it?

posted August 17, 2017 12:21 PM            

Sun/Venus DW is nice too. You feel the admiration coming from his Venus and though his Sun squares your Venus there is still a level of fascination and interest generated there.

Venus/Mars trine (him being the Mars especially) also helps with attraction.

Jupiter on your Venus is NICE. It trines your Mars too. More happy, joyful and benevolent aspects.

You're getting a lot of positivity out of this! Not much happening with your Moon but the trine to Mercury is nice for more heartfelt communication. It's tough to know if his Moon aspects are correct without a TOB which is a bummer.

posted August 18, 2017 09:04 AM            

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Originally posted by cultstatus:
So you think it's a combination of aspects rather than one specific one?

Have you experienced this feeling? What do you put it down to?

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IMO I think it's combination of everything. I think it would be too narrow-minded to chalk it up to "one thing." As mentioned you're getting a lot of positive vibes so he probably just feels like an easy person to be around. There aren't very many tense aspects to be felt at this stage.

To give you an example of one of the aspects, my coworkers who hardly knew each other at the time had to work on a project together with a client and they said while pitching to the client they worked in perfect synch and almost finished each other's sentences. The biggest thing that jumped out in their chart together is Mercury/Venus conj. DW.

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posted August 27, 2017 01:52 PM            

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Originally posted by VestasLight:
Honestly, the Uranus conjunct Vx is a massive, powerful draw at the soul level.

Uranus/Venus conjunct sun... You were definitely going to notice each other.

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posted August 27, 2017 06:17 PM            

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Originally posted by VestasLight:
Honestly, the Uranus conjunct Vx is a massive, powerful draw at the soul level.

Uranus/Venus conjunct sun... You were definitely going to notice each other.

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I gotta agree with this as well. I am the Vertex person with my own Vertex Conjunct my Saturn. He has his Mars and Uranus Conjunct my Vertex-Saturn. We also have his Uranus-Mars Opp my Venus, my Saturn Conjunct his Mars, and his Uranus Conjunct my Saturn.

I was (and still am) smitten by him (I know I know how corny that sounds as a Cap Moon...but I adore him and feel like I literally met someone exactly like me). I won't say love (lust is DEF there), but something is there. And I met him for a reason (his Chiron is Conjunct my NN).