posted August 18, 2017 09:07 AM
He's got a cluster of planets in Capricorn. Capricorn, ruled by Saturn, is slow moving by nature. They're very serious and don't like casual flings (in general and by default on their own). Their prerogative is if it lasts and survives the test of getting to know one and other, then it's real and serious, and Capricorn is very serious and broody In a way, it's a bit like Aquarius, the following sign, in that they want to be friends first and then lovers. Capricorn is all about "building" and solid foundations, and they need security, so they'd want to build something that they know will last before they jump right in. Take it as a good sign (lit and fig).
Then you've got the Aquarius sun, and for them, friendship before lovers is of the utmost importance. They need to know that they can be best friends with their partner before they take the plunge. For them if there's only pure romantic passion but zero friendship, it's unappealing.
He's got some heavy Scorpio as well (which I see you do, too) on the MC. Scorpio is also a very serious sign who is not into anything casual by nature. They want it to be real (and passionate), and they also need to know they can trust you, which I'm sure you feel too.
The moon is how he feels on the inside, in his mind, and his emotions. He probably has very serious feelings, but he'll need to know they're returned, and thus, with this mixed in with everything else, will take time to know if what he feels for you is serious, and if what you feel for him is serious as well.
3 months isn't really a long time, but your Libra moon, sun (and mars in Libra) probably thinks that's really slow and maybe too intense or confusing, but maybe if you tap into your own Scorpio feelings, you'll understand him better. There's also the studies that have been done that suggest if feelings last only 3 or 4 months, then it's just infatuation or a crush.
He probably wants to be sure that what you two have is more than infatuation, because again, Capricorn is serious about these things. That's probably why he's slowly "grilling you" to see if you are both combatible in your values on love and such.
Also, take note that Aquarius can be verrrrrryyyy shy and passive when it comes to sharing their feelings. They'll probably even be too nervous to go up and tell someone they like them and want a relationship - though, his Scorp moon might help with that, but, again, they prefer to have their potential partner confess their feelings first sometimes.
Best thing to do IMO is if you're serious about him and want to dedicate time and effort, then, just wait and see, but if it becomes too long a wait for you, then probably not a good match. However, there is the potential for it to be a very passionate, loving union, especially with the conjunctions (which are pretty hot) going on in his MC and your AC.
And if his DC really is in Cancer, security is even more important to him.
Buuut also with indecisive air signs, like Aquarius, if after several months (or even a year. A year's wait can seem like nothing to steady Capricorn, plus if you're friends, according to what his Aqua wants, then, again, what's a year? ) he still hasn't made a move but you also both still like each other, you may want to be the one to make the first move because it's possible he's just terrified himself with the prospect of rejection and can't decide.