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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted August 20, 2017 08:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am trying to buy lingerie to wear for my boyfriend. He has Cancer mars. I have no idea what kind of stuff a Cancer mars finds sexually attractive. The usual stuff that works on Aries mars, Leo mars, or Aqua mars doesn't work. I need ideas.

He says he likes a girl to look innocent and helpless. I'm nothing like that, but I can try.

Please help.

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posted August 20, 2017 09:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I actually have a Cancer Mars/Asc/Sun and I would say that your bf is spot on in regards to what a man with Cancer (I'll actually include any Cancer placement to be honest lol) finds appealing. Cancer types like sweetness. Think Selena Gomez and how cute and innocent she is...but she can be sexy. Play up your chest, and stick with pastels. I'm currently looking for pics to provide an example of what they like...I'll add them as I find examples.

https://www.victoriassecret.com/bras/angel-date/lace-dot-mesh-high-neck-bra-dream-angels?ProductID=343442&CatalogueType=OLS

The makeup in this pic is something that would appealing. http://www.torrid.com/product/mesh-lace-v-neck-bralette/10990334.html?cgid=ne w-intimates#start=45

Here is a specific example of something that would work
http://www.torrid.com/produc t/floral-lace-push-up-plunge-bra-panty/TD_BRA%26PANTYS3_10762529_10789699.html?cgid=intimates-bras-panty-sets#start=68

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posted August 20, 2017 10:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just wrote an article on this but I am not sure I should put it up. People want things to be nice, nice, nice all the time lol

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posted August 20, 2017 10:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
I actually have a Cancer Mars/Asc/Sun and I would say that your bf is spot on in regards to what a man with Cancer (I'll actually include any Cancer placement to be honest lol) finds appealing. Cancer types like sweetness. Think Selena Gomez and how cute and innocent she is...but she can be sexy. Play up your chest, and stick with pastels. I'm currently looking for pics to provide an example of what they like...I'll add them as I find examples.

https://www.victoriassecret.com/bras/angel-date/lace-dot-mesh-high-neck-bra-dream-angels?ProductID=343442&CatalogueType=OLS

The makeup in this pic is something that would appealing. http://www.torrid.com/product/mesh-lace-v-neck-bralette/10990334.html?cgid=ne w-intimates#start=45

Here is a specific example of something that would work
http://www.torrid.com/produc t/floral-lace-push-up-plunge-bra-panty/TD_BRA%26PANTYS3_10762529_10789699.html?cgid=intimates-bras-panty-sets#start=68



He wants something "simple" apparently. I showed him a pic of a playboy bunny outfit and he called it "crazy" lmao

I'm not very much a fan of simple attires. I like to play it up with lace, satin, sheer, etc. I also like dark colors like navy blue, maroon, dark red, dark purple, black, etc. Exception would be white (venus sq pluto).

I super agree with pastels, especially pink. He told me how he liked pink underwear before.

Also, that makeup would def work for him! He likes it when I put on simple makeup, not my typical dramatic smokey eye.

I found this one babydoll outfit that looks really cute. What do you think?

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posted August 20, 2017 10:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I just wrote an article on this but I am not sure I should put it up. People want things to be nice, nice, nice all the time lol


I want to read it, if you're okay with that. I am so curious about his mars.. it's such a different energy from my own Libra mars.

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posted August 20, 2017 11:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecountrystar     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks for asking this @Solar_Leo_Queen because I was thinking about this same subject especially about Cancer Mars Man and Lingerie(since one is really winning me over)

based on the things I know about my cancer Sun/mars guy mixed with my taste,Taurus Mars in play( you have to feel good in it and like it as well.
loving yourself in what you wear will make it sexier)

i would pick the follow

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/halter-lace-tie-cup-babydoll?img=3

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-soft-cotton-chemise-with-lace-trim

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lace-trim-satin-teddy?img=4
https://www.hipsandcurves.com/dot-mesh-ruffle-lace-off-the-shoulder-babydoll

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/crochet-lace-cup-chemise
https://www.hipsandcurves.com/crochet-lace-cup-chemise

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/lace-overlay-padded-cup-chemise

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/carmella-taffeta-corset

https://www.secretsinlace.com/product/Retro-Blue-Plunge-Bra/vintage-retro-chic-collec tion

[URL=https://www.secretsinlace.com/product/vintage-retro-blue-bullet-bra/curvy-bullet-bras]https://www.secretsinlace.com/product/vintage-retro-blue-bullet-bra/curvy-bullet-bras[/UR L]

https://www.secretsinlace.com/product/pinup-rhumba-panty/Curvy_Panties_and_Thongs

that's a lot of examples...

my taste is more glam most of the time when it comes to lingerie: long robes, vintage inspired, jewel tones, silk and an occasional ostrich feather trim. Then there are times I love to just be soft and delicate. so a blend of my taste and his taste would be key

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posted August 20, 2017 12:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:

He wants something "simple" apparently. I showed him a pic of a playboy bunny outfit and he called it "crazy" lmao

I'm not very much a fan of simple attires. I like to play it up with lace, satin, sheer, etc. I also like dark colors like navy blue, maroon, dark red, dark purple, black, etc. Exception would be white (venus sq pluto).

I super agree with pastels, especially pink. He told me how he liked pink underwear before.

Also, that makeup would def work for him! He likes it when I put on simple makeup, not my typical dramatic smokey eye.

I found this one babydoll outfit that looks really cute. What do you think?



I actually think it is REALLY cute (lose the shoes though lol)...but it's quite close...but still has a def Libra feel to it. I could actually see Cancer Sun/Libra Moon Ariana Grande wearing something like this.

Here are a few more pics that I think really fit what I've experienced and like myself being a Cancer. Simple is right though, I do like some lace, but it can't be too over the top for me.

https://www.lanebryant.com/floral-lace-cheeky-panty/prd-244014#color/0000017575

https://www.lanebryant.com/ruffles-and-dots-garter-panty/prd-244055#color/0000006395

https://www.lanebryant.com/eyelash-lace-high-neck-no-wire-babydoll/prd-242054#color/0000031326

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/dot-mesh-ruffle-lace-off-the-shoulder-babydoll


**I'm sorry I don't have them hyperlinked to this page, it's such a pain to do it when I'm not responding by my phone.

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posted August 20, 2017 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecountrystar     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ami anne
i would love to read your article on this.

even if people opinions differ on the subject it's always good to see what others think. it's not that serious and people should calm down about it. and in the end it's not law and we are all allowed to draw our own conclusion based on what we have learned from each other,other sources and experiences.

so please feel free to share your article

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posted August 20, 2017 02:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by littlecountrystar:
thanks for asking this @Solar_Leo_Queen because I was thinking about this same subject especially about Cancer Mars Man and Lingerie(since one is really winning me over)

based on the things I know about my cancer Sun/mars guy mixed with my taste,Taurus Mars in play( you have to feel good in it and like it as well.
loving yourself in what you wear will make it sexier)

i would pick the follow

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/halter-lace-tie-cup-babydoll?img=3

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-soft-cotton-chemise-with-lace-trim

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lace-trim-satin-teddy?img=4
https://www.hipsandcurves.com/dot-mesh-ruffle-lace-off-the-shoulder-babydoll

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/crochet-lace-cup-chemise
https://www.hipsandcurves.com/crochet-lace-cup-chemise

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/lace-overlay-padded-cup-chemise

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/carmella-taffeta-corset

https://www.secretsinlace.com/product/Retro-Blue-Plunge-Bra/vintage-retro-chic-collec tion

https://www.secretsinlace.com/product/vintage-retro-blue-bullet-bra/curvy-bullet-bras[/UR L]

[URL=https://www.secretsinlace.com/product/pinup-rhumba-panty/Curvy_Panties_and_Thongs]https://www.secretsinlace.com/product/pinup-rhumba-panty/Curvy_Panties_and_Thongs

that's a lot of examples...

my taste is more glam most of the time when it comes to lingerie: long robes, vintage inspired, jewel tones, silk and an occasional ostrich feather trim. Then there are times I love to just be soft and delicate. so a blend of my taste and his taste would be key


I really love that blue one! It's simple but it's cute and sexy. I love silk and I also love robes, but my taste in colors is very different. I've found he likes pastels on women, whereas I love more the deep richer colors.

It's a little challenging to find something he likes that I also like because of our clash in sensual taste. I have Libra mars and you would think that would be similar to Taurus mars since they're both venusian; however, I like to look more like a bad girl when it comes to lingerie. I love the same materials, lace and silk are on top of my list.

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posted August 20, 2017 03:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:

I actually think it is REALLY cute (lose the shoes though lol)...but it's quite close...but still has a def Libra feel to it. I could actually see Cancer Sun/Libra Moon Ariana Grande wearing something like this.

Here are a few more pics that I think really fit what I've experienced and like myself being a Cancer. Simple is right though, I do like some lace, but it can't be too over the top for me.

https://www.lanebryant.com/floral-lace-cheeky-panty/prd-244014#color/0000017575

https://www.lanebryant.com/ruffles-and-dots-garter-panty/prd-244055#color/0000006395

https://www.lanebryant.com/eyelash-lace-high-neck-no-wire-babydoll/prd-242054#color/0000031326

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/dot-mesh-ruffle-lace-off-the-shoulder-babydoll


**I'm sorry I don't have them hyperlinked to this page, it's such a pain to do it when I'm not responding by my phone.


Funny you mention Libra because that's my mars sign. This is why it's a little difficult for me to find something for us both that we like.

I love the very first pink one though! I don't know if they sell it in smaller sizes but I'll bookmark it. The lace and pastel appeals to me very much. I showed it to my boyfriend and he said it's simple but sexy. Definitely tickled his mars

Thank you!

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posted August 21, 2017 05:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer Male here.

I actually like the choices. Lace or see through does the trick for me.

Contrary to popular belief you don't need to have a big bust to be attractive to cancer mars.

If your smaller chested but have sensitive nipples that's a real turn on to Cancer mars.

...that's a hint to "knock him dead" Solar_Leo_Queen.

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posted August 21, 2017 06:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScandinavianCrab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
I actually have a Cancer Mars/Asc/Sun and I would say that your bf is spot on in regards to what a man with Cancer (I'll actually include any Cancer placement to be honest lol) finds appealing. Cancer types like sweetness. Think Selena Gomez and how cute and innocent she is...but she can be sexy. Play up your chest, and stick with pastels. I'm currently looking for pics to provide an example of what they like...I'll add them as I find examples.

https://www.victoriassecret.com/bras/angel-date/lace-dot-mesh-high-neck-bra-dream-angels?ProductID=343442&CatalogueType=OLS

The makeup in this pic is something that would appealing. http://www.torrid.com/product/mesh-lace-v-neck-bralette/10990334.html?cgid=ne w-intimates#start=45

Here is a specific example of something that would work
http://www.torrid.com/produc t/floral-lace-push-up-plunge-bra-panty/TD_BRA%26PANTYS3_10762529_10789699.html?cgid=intimates-bras-panty-sets#start=68


Cancer Sun and Mercury here. I just have to say you nailed it pretty good.

And just to make it clear for thoose who think all cancers are into big boobs or bottoms. Some might be, but it might be as bad as saying we är all great cooks. We are not all good cooks..

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posted August 21, 2017 12:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
Cancer Male here.

I actually like the choices. Lace or see through does the trick for me.

Contrary to popular belief you don't need to have a big bust to be attractive to cancer mars.

If your smaller chested but have sensitive nipples that's a real turn on to Cancer mars.

...that's a hint to "knock him dead" Solar_Leo_Queen.

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Funny you say that bc my boyfriend likes to keep touching mine even when I tell him to stop bc it hurts a lot..

I think he owns up to the stereotype a lot. He likes his lady's boobs big.. or to put it more specifically, an "exact fit" for his hand -_-

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posted August 21, 2017 12:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've also noticed Cancer mars are into women on the chubbier side. My boyfriend's exes have all had a bit of extra weight to them. I've gained a couple pounds since we started dating. I'm trying to lose them and become leaner again, eating a healthier diet, not binge-eating, not stress-eating, getting a lot more physical exercise, etc. I don't know if he'll appreciate the change when he's back..

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posted August 21, 2017 06:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I've also noticed Cancer mars are into women on the chubbier side. My boyfriend's exes have all had a bit of extra weight to them. I've gained a couple pounds since we started dating. I'm trying to lose them and become leaner again, eating a healthier diet, not binge-eating, not stress-eating, getting a lot more physical exercise, etc. I don't know if he'll appreciate the change when he's back..

I would tend to agree. Not overweight like Queen Latifah or Oprah. But more curvy like Kate Winselet.

quote:
Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
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He says he likes a girl to look innocent and helpless.

If your petite it adds to the "innocent" look.

Put together what I mentioned, I have always had weakness for people that had the Christina Richi body type. Petite and a bit chubby.

If you've put on a few pounds, I think he'll be one of the few men to say something positive about it and appreciate it.

So I wouldn't be too worried.

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posted August 22, 2017 01:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluejay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My ex was a Cancer Sun and Mercury with Gemini Venus and Virgo Mars. It's funny that several people have mentioned innocent looking lingerie in pastel colors. One of his favorite things that he ever bought me to wear was a sheer baby blue bralette and panty set with a floral pattern. I thought it was cute but not remotely sexy. If it wasn't sheer it would be appropriate for a 12 year old. He loved it though. It had a full coverage bikini cut panty and I always wear thongs or cheeky/tanga cuts so I thought it was odd that he found this look so sexy. Another favorite thing that he gave me was a sheer black halter top babydoll with beading(similar to the second picture below). This was really sexy, although I never wore it for long. I think anything that has the nice but slightly naughty vibe would do, and staying with softer colors, or dark colors as long as it's not raunchy. I personally love corsets, teddies and merrywidows with thigh high stockings, things I can wear under clothes and no one has a clue. But he liked anything girly and innocent which is why he loved sheer or lace babydolls.

Here are a few suggestions
http://www.victoriassecret.com/lingerie/babydolls/lace -trim-halter-babydoll-very-sexy?ProductID=343886&CatalogueType=OLS
http://www.victoriassecret.com/lingerie/babydolls/lace-h igh-neck-babydoll-very-sexy?ProductID=344043&CatalogueType=OLS
http://www.victoriassecret.com/lingerie/ teddies-and-bodysuits/chantilly-lace-plunge-teddy-very-sexy?ProductID=347117&CatalogueType=OLS

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posted August 22, 2017 04:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If your looking for an innocent and cute looking underwear.

The white or cute childish panties works.

I didn't want to say anything.. but my leo sun coworker bent down and I still can't get out of my mind how a 50+ yrs old married female was wearing childish superman underwear.

Somewhat cute, innocent and sexy all at the same time.

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posted August 22, 2017 08:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Bluejay:
My ex was a Cancer Sun and Mercury with Gemini Venus and Virgo Mars. It's funny that several people have mentioned innocent looking lingerie in pastel colors. One of his favorite things that he ever bought me to wear was a sheer baby blue bralette and panty set with a floral pattern. I thought it was cute but not remotely sexy. If it wasn't sheer it would be appropriate for a 12 year old. He loved it though. It had a full coverage bikini cut panty and I always wear thongs or cheeky/tanga cuts so I thought it was odd that he found this look so sexy. Another favorite thing that he gave me was a sheer black halter top babydoll with beading(similar to the second picture below). This was really sexy, although I never wore it for long. I think anything that has the nice but slightly naughty vibe would do, and staying with softer colors, or dark colors as long as it's not raunchy. I personally love corsets, teddies and merrywidows with thigh high stockings, things I can wear under clothes and no one has a clue. But he liked anything girly and innocent which is why he loved sheer or lace babydolls.

Here are a few suggestions
http://www.victoriassecret.com/lingerie/babydolls/lace -trim-halter-babydoll-very-sexy?ProductID=343886&CatalogueType=OLS
http://www.victoriassecret.com/lingerie/babydolls/lace-h igh-neck-babydoll-very-sexy?ProductID=344043&CatalogueType=OLS
http://www.victoriassecret.com/lingerie/ teddies-and-bodysuits/chantilly-lace-plunge-teddy-very-sexy?ProductID=347117&CatalogueType=OLS


Interesting. I love corsets, too, but my boyfriend doesn't seem to have any interest in them. The type I prefer to wear for myself are costume lingerie, whether it's schoolgirl, maid, boss, librarian, leopard, etc. He loved the maid one the most, second school girl.

Honestly, these suggestions don't feel like me at all but I am very willing to try them out. It doesn't hurt to try. I may even end up liking some of them. Who knows.


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posted August 22, 2017 08:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
If your looking for an innocent and cute looking underwear.

The white or cute childish panties works.

I didn't want to say anything.. but my leo sun coworker bent down and I still can't get out of my mind how a 50+ yrs old married female was wearing childish superman underwear.

Somewhat cute, innocent and sexy all at the same time.

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I have a pair of white ones, but I'm not really a fan of them. He likes baby pink ones, I also have a pair. He likes those ones. They're regular panties, one even an 8-year old can wear with the right size.

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posted August 22, 2017 11:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluejay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Interesting. I love corsets, too, but my boyfriend doesn't seem to have any interest in them. The type I prefer to wear for myself are costume lingerie, whether it's schoolgirl, maid, boss, librarian, leopard, etc. He loved the maid one the most, second school girl.

Honestly, these suggestions don't feel like me at all but I am very willing to try them out. It doesn't hurt to try. I may even end up liking some of them. Who knows.


Yeah, it's weird what some people define as sexy. I sleep in chemises similar to the first picture I linked, and I think they are pretty and feminine, but I don't see them as being very sexy. I like anything that accentuates my waist, butt, hips and thighs, or just nothing but a sexy pair of heels. The fact that some men find childish underwear, or granny panties sexy is odd to me. Different strokes for different folks .

I don't want to go too far off topic, but I'm curious about how you snagged a Cancer Mars man. Did you have to chase him, and how did he show he was interested in you? Is he really reserved and cautious when it comes to relationships?

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posted August 23, 2017 06:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Yeah, it's weird what some people define as sexy. I sleep in chemises similar to the first picture I linked, and I think they are pretty and feminine, but I don't see them as being very sexy. I like anything that accentuates my waist, butt, hips and thighs, or just nothing but a sexy pair of heels. The fact that some men find childish underwear, or granny panties sexy is odd to me. Different strokes for different folks .

I don't want to go too far off topic, but I'm curious about how you snagged a Cancer Mars man. Did you have to chase him, and how did he show he was interested in you? Is he really reserved and cautious when it comes to relationships?


I find those weird too tbh. Oh well, like you said.. people find different things sexy.

I don't think I really "snagged" him per se. I first met him at a party, and according to him, I was glancing his way so he came up to me. He has a 1st house mars, so he's a little more direct with his expression. He was flirting with me right off the bat, asked me to dance and for my number. Didn't give him a chance. I met him again a second time after two years, and same thing. He's fairly direct in expressing his interest in a woman. He studied it bc apparently he used to be horrible at coming up amd talking to women.

It kinda took him a while to really open up to me. Even now, I feel like a bit of him is still a little closed off. He's very reserved in his relationships and is also picky with whom he choses to bond deeply with.

I didn't really chase him either. We were in a poly relationship before and then we broke up. But during that time we broke up, we became closer as friends. I was just there for him while he was going through a rough time. Then I guess he realized he really likes me, so that's how we've been dating for a year, and we're monogamous now.

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posted August 24, 2017 12:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I find those weird too tbh. Oh well, like you said.. people find different things sexy.

I don't think I really "snagged" him per se. I first met him at a party, and according to him, I was glancing his way so he came up to me. He has a 1st house mars, so he's a little more direct with his expression. He was flirting with me right off the bat, asked me to dance and for my number. Didn't give him a chance. I met him again a second time after two years, and same thing. He's fairly direct in expressing his interest in a woman. He studied it bc apparently he used to be horrible at coming up amd talking to women.

It kinda took him a while to really open up to me. Even now, I feel like a bit of him is still a little closed off. He's very reserved in his relationships and is also picky with whom he choses to bond deeply with.

I didn't really chase him either. We were in a poly relationship before and then we broke up. But during that time we broke up, we became closer as friends. I was just there for him while he was going through a rough time. Then I guess he realized he really likes me, so that's how we've been dating for a year, and we're monogamous now.


I'm glad when you refused to give your number on the first encounter he gave you a second chance.

Ironically, that sorta thing happened with a Leo I knew. Afterwards she tried to draw me back after she got out of some terrible relationship.

I'm like, your nice but the situation has changed. I think thats a combo of both my sun and mars thought..

When you were there for him that "solidified" everything.

Ironically this works for me! Its innocent and sexy at the same time.


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posted May 08, 2018 04:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by littlecountrystar:
thanks for asking this @Solar_Leo_Queen because I was thinking about this same subject especially about Cancer Mars Man and Lingerie(since one is really winning me over)

based on the things I know about my cancer Sun/mars guy mixed with my taste,Taurus Mars in play( you have to feel good in it and like it as well.
loving yourself in what you wear will make it sexier)

i would pick the follow

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/halter-lace-tie-cup-babydoll?img=3

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-soft-cotton-chemise-with-lace-trim

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lace-trim-satin-teddy?img=4
https://www.hipsandcurves.com/dot-mesh-ruffle-lace-off-the-shoulder-babydoll

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/crochet-lace-cup-chemise
https://www.hipsandcurves.com/crochet-lace-cup-chemise

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/lace-overlay-padded-cup-chemise

https://www.hipsandcurves.com/carmella-taffeta-corset

https://www.secretsinlace.com/product/Retro-Blue-Plunge-Bra/vintage-retro-chic-collec tion

https://www.secretsinlace.com/product/vintage-retro-blue-bullet-bra/curvy-bullet-bras[/UR L]

[URL=https://www.secretsinlace.com/product/pinup-rhumba-panty/Curvy_Panties_and_Thongs]https://www.secretsinlace.com/product/pinup-rhumba-panty/Curvy_Panties_and_Thongs

that's a lot of examples...

my taste is more glam most of the time when it comes to lingerie: long robes, vintage inspired, jewel tones, silk and an occasional ostrich feather trim. Then there are times I love to just be soft and delicate. so a blend of my taste and his taste would be key


These are nice I love wearing garments like this.

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posted May 14, 2018 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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