posted September 03, 2017 09:25 AM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
No, he was born in 69. But he'd also be craving a curvier woman. And he really really loves a naturally busty woman. Typical of any cancer man.

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Oh, I thought you said earlier that he liked slim models and suggested that you lose weight to suit his tastes?

So Cancer men, it seems, are most often breast animals? I guess it figures, what with the mother association of that sign.

If he is Cancer Sun b. 1969, that makes him a Rooster. Roosters tend to be conservative and are not typically known as major players. You've obviously got an exception.

Roosters are known for messing up periodically, often big time. However, conventional wisdom says they have the ability to recover and move on with life.

Depending on his wife's chart, she might take him to the cleaners - or worse should she happen to be a Scorpio.

posted September 03, 2017 09:41 AM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
I just looked up another past lover. He too had venus and mars in cancer!! He told me he thinks that about 70% of men prefered curvier women and he said he thinks a lot of men are closet chubby chasers. Meh, so whaddya know!

Oddly enough he was stick thin! He had a 6 pack without trying to get one 'coz he was just so thin! Could eat whatever he wanted and just couldn't gain any weight.

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I've heard of Chubby Checker, but never chubby chasers. From the responses to this thread, it looks like that's a female sub-type, as well.

If we could put together a regional map showing these body preferences, it would make life much easier for those in pursuit of the opposite sex.

Alas, the world has become a melting pot.

posted September 03, 2017 03:42 PM            

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Originally posted by GrandFireT:
I've noticed on several different Lindaland threads that Cancer Mars people tend to like their opposite sex partners "on the chubbier side."

Is this a matter of likes attracting, or of opposites attracting? Put another way, do Cancer Mars people themselves tend to be chubby or the opposite of chubby (lean)?

Okay, what about the other 11 Mars signs? How do you characterize their body types, and
what do they prefer for a body on their partner?

It would be informative also to know the Sun signs of individuals whose Mars and body types with whom you are acquainted.

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posted September 03, 2017 07:13 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
I do not like shubby types, I am lean. mars in cancer.

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posted September 03, 2017 07:35 PM            

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Originally posted by MyRealName:
from my direct experiences. please don't be offended by language

pisces mars likes slender, but without extremes. themselves are slender, not muscular

cancer mars likes feminine, fit, preferably with brests. their own body type is pear-shaped, somewhat muscular if they try. often small belly or tire on hips

virgo mars likes skinny, long and tall. doesn't care for breasts. doesn't like bright makeup. some obsess over how the partner looks beside them. themselves are long, even if not skinny. some skinny-fat

libra mars likes feminine, not mascular on girls and not too skinny. likes both large breasts and bums, long hair. themselves are fit, guys inclined to lift weights, athletic. I wonder if any libra mars ladies prefer sports like yoga?

scorpio mars likes their specific fetishes. some may like long sexy legs and some obsess over butts, large breasts. themselves on the bigger side, can have a pot belly.

saggitarius mars (girls) like their men chubbier, with a small belly and cheeks. themselves are curvy, but fit if they try. usually too lazy though. their sports are more like arching, so not too physical. and guys are into sports with lots of running, like soccer. because of this they are fit until they stop exercising. they like average body types, not too skinny or muscular, and also like cheeks.

capricorn mars, based on one person. likes tall very fit, very muscular men. extreme in the gym. themselves are athletic, put on muscle easily. gymnast-type body

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Traditionally, guys from North America have regarded themselves as being either a Breast, Leg or Rearend Man. I suspect that mindset is not limited to NA.

However, from your post it appears that things might not be so simple, and that a new, more comprehensive classification system is called for.

posted September 03, 2017 08:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
Thank you! Wow 60-80 year olds at the gym! Now thats a sight for sure! Kudos to them, it's amazing! Yes indeed it really pays off! I also like feeling able and strong and I look 10 years younger then I am, no joke! I have never consumed alcohol nor smoked. Also it's genetic of course.

Well I think swedes are health concious, and having so close to nature even in big cities is helping too. I'm not sure if swedes are healthier though. I think it may be a generation releted thing too, I have to look up the statistics about this now! It's also a small country with around 9 million citizens.
Swedens rising sign as a country is actually virgo! They are hard workers and hardly no corruptions in this country, but thats an other topic.

Which country are you at?

Haha you are so right about Aries Venus! Indeed, if I hadn't started to give him strong eye contact during conversations,(he seemed a bit confused but didn't back off) all of the sudden when I had decided he is a good and attractive guy, which took me around 3-4 weeks lol. And if I hadn't pursued him by walking up to him to chat, we wouldn't be good friends now. He has Mars in cap and moon in Pisces, Venus Libra.

He waited a long time before he started to initiate touch in our interactions, until he seemed sure my interest was/is genuine.

Well because of some stuff, I can't be more direct. I ones before summer told him I'm gonna miss our group, "and also you" I added, and he immidiately suggested us to meet up and do something during the summer. So if he realy wanted me joining him at the gym, he would have suggested it by now. And I'm not comfy enough to suggest it. I have dropped hints though and he seemed so close a few times!

We also live at different directions, its 27 km between us! So I he may think it would be weird for me to drive that long.

BUT for ex I said a few weeks ago I try to find a better gym, and that I have to take a paus from gym because I don't like my gym.

He asked me about that a week ago, if I have found a new gym. I said no, still looking. He was quite for a moment and then he asked "But you "are" gonna start, right?". And I said yes, when I find a good one.

Haha so well I can't be more open then this I feel . And I guess he prefers to not be distracted by me. OR maybe he wanted me to ask "how is your gym?" and he too doesn't wanna be too direct, dunno. But if he really wanted to, he would have suggested it so... Ah sorry for babbling like this! :O

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Whatever your age, from your posts I have no trouble believing you look ten yeas younger than your age. If the general population understood and appreciated the benefits of exercise and being fit, the planet would be awash in sweat.

Oh, yes, I should have remembered - Vasaloppet and Kungsleden. Of course Swedes are fitness oriented. Possibly you are active in these areas yourself?

And didn't the sport of orienteering have its origins in Sweden?

It would be fun to see the inside of a Swedish fitness center or gym. Do the ones you frequent have websites? The language won't be a problem.

Ahh - - - it appears that romancing in Sweden is no less a subtle and tiring game of gesturing, uncertainties, posturing, risk-taking, clue-searching, doubting, hoping and handwringing analysis than it is elsewhere.

posted September 03, 2017 08:55 PM            

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The 1969 Cancer Mars was on and off for about 7 years casual affair.

posted September 03, 2017 09:03 PM            

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Originally posted by GrandFireT:
Oh, I thought you said earlier that he liked slim models and suggested that you lose weight to suit his tastes?

So Cancer men, it seems, are most often breast animals? I guess it figures, what with the mother association of that sign.

If he is Cancer Sun b. 1969, that makes him a Rooster. Roosters tend to be conservative and are not typically known as major players. You've obviously got an exception.

Roosters are known for messing up periodically, often big time. However, conventional wisdom says they have the ability to recover and move on with life.

Depending on his wife's chart, she might take him to the cleaners - or worse should she happen to be a Scorpio.

If you have the stomach for soap opera, he's an interesting program for you to follow.

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Actually, he likes slim models to show off to the world but behind closed doors, when no one is looking, he likes curvier women. Hes too hung up on what other people think. He's a Libra Sun and Cancer Mars. All I know about his wife is shes a Cancer Sun. She doesnt seem the type to take him to the cleaners, but Im sure once she figures out his philandering ways after a decade or so together, she just might take him to the cleaners!

Roosters are the worst! Will never date one again!

posted September 04, 2017 08:14 AM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
Actually, he likes slim models to show off to the world but behind closed doors, when no one is looking, he likes curvier women. Hes too hung up on what other people think. He's a Libra Sun and Cancer Mars. All I know about his wife is shes a Cancer Sun. She doesnt seem the type to take him to the cleaners, but Im sure once she figures out his philandering ways after a decade or so together, she just might take him to the cleaners!

Roosters are the worst! Will never date one again!

Whats the program?

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He's a bad program, a sorry shrub - to be sure. Could end up in the outback as crocodile delicacy.

If you see him again, suggest Jeremiah 17:10.

posted September 04, 2017 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by GrandFireT:
Traditionally, guys from North America have regarded themselves as being either a Breast, Leg or Rearend Man. I suspect that mindset is not limited to NA.

However, from your post it appears that things might not be so simple, and that a new, more comprehensive classification system is called for.

Your language is just fine, though now you have me curious as to where on the planet you have collected your data.

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Culturally there could be differences in things like defining what chubby, skinny and fit is. So I try to consider such things My collection of charts is a mix of people from Europe, US and Canada. I don't have any Hispanic, Asian or African American charts.

posted September 04, 2017 10:59 AM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
Actually, he likes slim models to show off to the world but behind closed doors, when no one is looking, he likes curvier women. Hes too hung up on what other people think. He's a Libra Sun and Cancer Mars. All I know about his wife is shes a Cancer Sun. She doesnt seem the type to take him to the cleaners, but Im sure once she figures out his philandering ways after a decade or so together, she just might take him to the cleaners!

Roosters are the worst! Will never date one again!

Whats the program?

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I'm curious what are his moon and venus, and any other hard aspects in the chart? Any confidence issues with this guy?

posted September 05, 2017 09:23 AM            

Not sure how to interpret this, if attraction is what the native likes or what the native draws???

It seems they could be two different animals.

What you want is not what wants you. It's starting to sound familiar.

Comments?

posted September 06, 2017 08:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
I'm 30, but people get shocked when I reveal my age . I look 19-20 years old.

I have looked up the statistics for swedes health etc. It's not good! haha!. Only 1% of the citizens are active more then 30 min daily. People that train on gym etc is not included, because even that is not enough according to the health organization. Sitting still for hours daily, and gym 3 days a week for a couple of hours is not enough according to this organization. Also the things you mention "vasaloppet" etc is not something most people participates in. Only a couple of % people competes in thise. And no I have never run a marathon

Yes romancing is hard in Sweden, especially since we are so reserved. But I guess its hard in every country in the world more or less. My Venus Aries (conj Jupiter) is helpful. Also Mars sextile Jupiter gives courage too. But I also have Moon Oppo Saturn (and other saturn energies) that makes me feel vulnerable, exposed and makes me wanna back off if I feel a wiff of negative energy.
He too has his up and downs, so it feels rocky sometimes.

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30 going on 20. Excellent, Melinn. With the correct diet and your current lifestyle, you could well sail beyond the century mark.

Thank you for providing that information on Swedes. I'm surprised to learn that as a country your people are not more active.

I was sure you were going to tell me you are a crosscountry skier. But then possibly you live where snow is in short supply.

Yes, it's startling to discover how much effort is required to keep alive and fit. Many of these so-called "fitness centers" are wasting their members' time (and money). Members grunt and groan for 30 seconds, then sit for ten minutes, grunt and groan again, sit, etc.

Last winter I switched to a gym where the emphasis is on activities like basketball, aerobics, racquetball, volleyball, pickleball, skating. We even practice baseball in the winter, some people run, It's the moving around that helps. They have a small weight room for those who wish to groan.

Oh, Swedes are reserved? No doubt that adds to the challenge of romancing. Then again, those who practice total abandon in the romance arena frequently end up in trouble, so maybe being reserved is better.

Now that Mercury is moving direct, possibly action with the man you like will pick up.

posted September 09, 2017 12:12 PM            

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Originally posted by GrandFireT:
That's good to hear, Nordic. YOu're male, correct? So you like the lean or trim girls?

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no, I am a woman.. I mean, I am slim and I do not like shubby men. I like defined, but not even too muscular. nice button is very important