posted August 27, 2017 01:27 PM
I've had quite a few lilith relationships. When his Mars was conjunct my lilith our sex was rich and dark. Very fun times. However, he intentionally hurt me in numerous ways. One being that he hid the fact he was in a fully committed relationship with someone else for an entire year. He was only using me for sex. (He had a hard time resisting that lilith pull.)
When things went really wrong, I went total Lilith on his ass and sought my revenge. I shocked myself with some of my behavior. Lesson of that aspect is: NEVER scorn your lilith lover. It will not end happily for you.
On a side note he was an actual narcissistic abuser. The real deal... The damage he inflicted...
As for the other strongly lilith based relationships, some also carried the theme of "the other woman", but they ALL carried a heavy sexual/obsessive attraction on both sides. It's quite delicious.