posted August 27, 2017 08:25 AM
Well- His SN wasn't conjunct my Descendant, but it was in my 7th house which probably has similar effects. This man was the only man I've known to straight out tell me he wanted a FUTURE with me. He already planned out our years together.
The only problem was- his wife. Yes, that's right.
So I reminded him of his wife and told him he couldn't possibly be in love with me as there was nothing going on between us. (We never kissed or ANYTHING). And he told me flat out he'd leave his wife for me in a heartbeat if I said I'd be in an open relationship with him. He didn't want to hide me. He wanted to introduce me to his family and friends and kept inviting me to such events. And I could tell by the look on his face that he was serious.
I talked him out of this idea as best as I could and requested we take some space in our friendship.
I didn't tell him this, but the truth is, if he wasn't married I would've taken him to. He's the only guy who told me he loved me and MEANT IT when he said it. I could tell with all the others right away that they didn't. He'd call me on the phone and talk to me for over an hour just because and do little things for me just because he knew they made me happy. But I'm not willing to be the one that broke up a marriage. I told him if a year or two from now he happens to be divorced, then we will see if something can happen between us.
From what I've read about this aspect- NN on the ascendant means the NN person sees a future with the ascendant person so it seems to be playing out in my case too. If his NN was a little closer to my ascendant maybe he wouldn't be married at the time I met him.