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abrightfutureahead
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posted September 03, 2017 07:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for abrightfutureahead     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear Todd, it's me again Hello!

After 6 months trying to move on from the father of my baby he's back in the picture. I sooo want to make it work. I would be really interested in what you can gather from our composite &I pray there is some hope for us.

Our synastry looks terrible. THANK YOU it means a lot to me. Your way with words and descriptions are beautiful. Kind regards Lisa


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todd
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posted September 03, 2017 07:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi ya
I need a midpoint composite to read, I don't read synastry charts. use the extended charts selection at astro.com as add 16,433,h13,sedna,nessus,eris,juno,ceres,orcus,ixion,vertex
todd

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abrightfutureahead
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posted September 04, 2017 02:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for abrightfutureahead     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks so much for having a look for me Todd. Having some insight of what to expect and what i could use to work with. I look forward to your response, Lisa

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todd
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posted September 04, 2017 03:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi abrightfutureahead,
I have commented on this composite before haven't I?

the exact stellium of sedna,eris,nessus,juno,ixion,ceres and orcus, is quite amazing .plus chiron is square to this amazing stellium.as well as Saturn.with chiron opposed to saturn

i'll leave this to the end because it is almost "supernatural"

the venus/sun/mercury conjuction shows affection and a optimistic and happy mental connecton.whe things are good,this really quite enjoyable. Neptune is opposed to this stelliun and pluto is trine to the stellium. this pattern gives a considerate,sensitive and supportive energy to the relationship.
eros is square to psyche so there is a very passionate idealistic affection between you.
the moon/Saturn midpoint is conjunct the eros/psyche midpoint which offers hope that this inspirational love between you can keep the relationship together .

juno is square to Lilith so it is clear you feel deep inside this could work out and become serious and long term.

the relationship will have to work on its own but there is little you can do to make it happen so to speak.

and truthfully the odds are against you because the mars/Uranus and mars/satrun midpoints are square to venus/sun and mercury. this uisually shows a intense relationship that is unstable or a off and on relationship.

in addition, he is just a very hard and selfish person as chiron is opposed to Saturn and Uranus, this usually shows someone is is controlling and dominating and who doesn't respect others feelings.

on top of this the Saturn/chiron opposition is square the "amazing" stellium.
the problem with this stellium is that both harsh , unconscious and abusive aspects re combined with very nurturing and caring and truthful aspects.
these impulses are I many ways opposite, so again there image is of a off and on,good/bad relationship

I am sorry I can't be more supportive but I don't think he will stay and I don't see how you can make it work without his help and commitment and I simply do not see him working with you.

frankly, I think you should think of your child first, something that he will not do .

a young child needs emotional consistency which he will not supply.

so try to make it work while he is around but if it does not work out this time, I suggest you go on with your life and don't let him suck you back again.

one other thing,neptune is opposed to the sun.if drugs or alcohol becomes a issue, you need to forget him

todd


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abrightfutureahead
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posted September 05, 2017 04:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for abrightfutureahead     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow todd,
You have said truths about him and our relationship as if I had told you in great detail of our relationship dynamics and past history. I am incredibly impressed and I do hope you get paid for your readings and use this site to practice with.

Firstly the stellium you mentioned. There is most definitely a feeling of "supernatural" especially in our passionate love making. Even a kiss from him is something other worldly that I cannot compare or describe, it's "ethereal" quality of physically touching him.

He is also the most beautiful man i know. Down to his facial bone structure and curly hair. He is 💯 my type on paper and I will find it hard to ever meet someone who could compare to his beauty or love making.

Now comes the bad parts, he is inconsistent, something which is a deal breaker for me, unreliable. Says things and doesn't follow through. I don't feel we are a priority to him.
He is very cold and inconsiderate of my feelings, I received little emotional support throughout my pregnancy, you are very true - He is SELFISH and arrogant. I put this down to his upbringing as a Muslim where men are seen to be superior to woman, and his dad definitely treats his mother as so.. so I try to be understanding that he doesn't know any different.

His mother also told me that all 3 of her sons are on the "spectrum" diagnosed when they were children, and all needed special support at school. He definitely has some "aspie traits" in regards to having to be regimental in his way of thinking and sticking to routines.

I try to take these into consideration, but you are probably right he is unable to provide consistent emotional support for my daughter or me. And I know how that feels as my father was exactly the same!!

The reason we separated is because of his drink and cannabis problem. He promised he would quit, it has a proper hold over him. But when my daughter was 4 days old and I was recovering from a c-section and unable to take care of either of us he continued to do as he pleased so I kicked him out.

Out of sheer stubborness to get his own way and for me to allow him drinking and smoking everyday day he has missed out of 4 months of his daughters life. Hoping that I would "need him and miss him" his words.
I am going to take your advice and allow him this one chance, if he lets us down and cannot stay sober while around us then I will move on and not get sucked in again for someone unwilling to change.

Thank you Todd - absolutely spot on!!

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