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Ami Anne
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posted September 07, 2017 07:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am both loved and hated for telling what I think about the nature of a Nessus relationship. First of all, my findings are based on doing charts. The charts and my clients teach me what I need to know. I try to teach you what I think you should know. Astrology must be practical for there to be any point. I do not like airhead astrology. If people cannot find practical help from what I write, I have failed. I hope you get something valuable from this article.

Most people will have at least one Nessus relationship. I will define a Nessus relationship. It is one in which there is a prominent Nessus—– Nessus in a close conjunction( an orb of 1-2 degrees) with a personal planet. Secondarily, Nessus may be in close aspect to an angle(The ASC, IC, DSC or MC). The angle/Nessus relationship does not seem as powerful as does the planet/Nessus relationship. The conjunction is the strongest aspect. However, another aspect, such as the trine, opposition or square, would count as a Nessus relationship, if the orb were very close(1-2).

The Stages of a Nessus Relationship

1. The Nessus/Personal Planet relationship is the hottest, simply speaking. If there is a aspect that will make a normally sane person crazy, it is this one. You know the stories of someone giving up everything for a person and then waking up one day in a nightmarish hell. Well, I bet it was a Nessus relationship. Why is this so? I think that Nessus calls up some deep childhood abuse/low self esteem and the Nessus relationship seems to be the CURE for it. The Nessus relationship feels like HOME. The Nessus relationship offers the PROMISE of unconditional love. However, what actually happens is quite the opposite. In some magical alchemy from hell, the Nessus relationship turns into exactly that from which one tried to escape *sigh*.
Can you tell that I learned from personal experience?

2.As I said, at first, the Nessus relationship is pure,unadulterated joy and passion that is “off the walls”. However, as all dreams, this does not last terribly long. If I had to put a time on it, I would say three months. However, it will, usually, start to go badly after a month.

3. I have seen people give up, practically, everything to ESCAPE a Nessus relationship. It can be very hard to escape because revenge could come into play when it ends. Somehow, these passions bring out the worst in people. My advice would be to try to leave without escalating already explosive passions. I mean, you want to get out with your body and your sanity. Right?

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Randall
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posted September 08, 2017 06:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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mir
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posted September 08, 2017 08:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow I just bumped that thread of my ex and this girl for an update coincidentelly .. His Nessus conjunct her Sun / Her Nessus conjunct his MC (within 2 deg both yea) ... sex / sex / sex and ofcourse that feigned unconditional LUuvvvvv...

What Ami describes here is exactly how I would predict their The-end (I'm also talking a lot about this with my best old friend) ...

So yea... thanks for sharing again Ami!

I'm so glad not to be driven by lust anymore LOol... too much drrrrama (END) - and no, not denying anything here

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Ami Anne
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posted September 08, 2017 09:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
NOT denying anything, Mir. Welcome to a small and select group

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posted September 09, 2017 01:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sagical     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's Conj my ask.... not liking the interpretation on this.... my partner's conj my Saturn and opposes his sun/mars....😵

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Ami Anne
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posted September 09, 2017 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It has to have a very close orb, my Friend.

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posted September 10, 2017 09:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jjj     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A couple I know (I had a emotional affair with the husband) has exact Sun-Nessus conjunction in compo and his Nessus conjuncts her Moon in synastry, they have been together all the life and have a bunch of children. They seems to stick together through thick and thin, in spite of him being a player.

I experienced recently also a Nessus relship, my Nessus being on his moon and his Nessus opposing my Sun, plus exact Dejanira-Nessus cj in draco.

I think Nessus relationships create a very strong sexual attraction to the point of obsession that has the potential to awake higher energies in both parties and to transform them through anger/pain.

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Ami Anne
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posted September 10, 2017 09:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
YES, a Nessus relationship does make for obsession. I have not seen one that has lasted, myself.

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posted September 10, 2017 12:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Actually, I have, but there was a lot of pain and unhappiness in it.

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