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LexusVirgo
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posted September 21, 2017 02:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My first lover, who was an unrequited love after all these years came back, he added me on Facebook and apologized for being mean. But this was years ago, I just wonder if there's anything in the synastry to make him return.

The synastry not that great imho.

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LexusVirgo
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posted September 21, 2017 02:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Synastry with asteroids,

Composite

Just wondering if anything shows why he'd come back and be thinking of me after all these years.

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racole12
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posted September 21, 2017 04:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for racole12     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is just a guess...

Soo... your pVen (female) is sextile his nMars... applying

Since his birth time is at 12pm I'm guessing it's not right, so, I'm not going to use his pMoon...

Your pMoon is in aspect to this pVen/nMars sexile... with Tr Neptune triggering it too...

In my past... I have had people come back into my life to apologize/our relationship is restarted when there is some kind of prog to natal synastry going on with with either Venus to Mars, or Venus to Sun (in any aspect...hard, soft, inconj)...

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LexusVirgo
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posted September 21, 2017 02:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you,

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areesquivel
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posted September 21, 2017 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've experienced that this year with someone I've known for over 12 years, we didn't talk to each other for 5 years and came back... We keep talking. The one thing I notice in our Synastry was a Kite Pattern.

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LexusVirgo
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posted September 21, 2017 03:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, I have heard patterns give a feeling of completion. How did your reunion go with yours areyes, was he somone you wanted to see or nah?

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manderin
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posted September 22, 2017 02:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This question is probably best answered by looking at HIS transits rather than a synastry with your chart.

He may be experiencing a transit that has made him deal with a break up... which tends to make people think of past love interests or conquests.

Synastry is about how two people affect one another in each other's presence. Since you hadn't been in each other's presence for years until now, his return is not likely that influenced by the synastry chart between you imo. Now that you have reconnected your synastry will start to come into play more as you continue to interact.

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posted September 22, 2017 03:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
Yes, I have heard patterns give a feeling of completion. How did your reunion go with yours areyes, was he somone you wanted to see or nah?


I'm dating someone at the moment so I wasn't ready for it, he was someone really important for me and when he came back felt really weird for me, though I still care for him and I mean 12 years and then 5 not even speaking a word, I felt confused :/ that happened months ago I can tell you now we keep talking, I do care he says he loves me but knows I'm not interested, I'm ok with being friends now.

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todd
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posted September 23, 2017 06:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi LexusVirgo

the first thing that jumps out is that the node transited lust at 25 leo48 on june 21 and was conjunct the mars/Venus midpoint at24leo3 on sept 9 has been transiting through the lust /node, 23tau49, square on sep 21.

by itself this indicate that he has come back because of the sexual chemistry between you. but he may just want to get off as lust is ephemeral.

so if this is true then he will being moving away in the near future.

I notice the composite has mars square to Neptune which is usually a indicator of infidelity and I assume he left before because he found a new squeeze. in addition the midpoint is conjunct to Saturn, so there is very little indications that he has changed his stripes.

I also notice that Jupiter is trine to the node. this often shows financial stability, so I would have to ask if he is needing financial help now.

mars is conjunct union which could be interpreted as him wanting a stable hookup but keep in mind that union is also square to Neptune which most likely shows he is not sincere.

the composite has multiple aspects of love such as amore conjunct the sun,jupiter opposed to cupid,psyche conjunct Lilith and eros conjunct destiny. so I assume he is a smooth talker and charismatic to boot.

if all he is interested is in sex then as this transit wanes, his interest in you will wane

todd


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LexusVirgo
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posted September 23, 2017 10:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow Todd just wow, I amazed.. yes wayyy before when we first were together as teens he left me for my best friend. Yes he's a smooth talker and a liar. I used to help him alot so what you said about him coming back becus of a financial crisis is probadly right. As for chemistry he told me once we had no chemistry, but we did have a sexual thing when we were 19. Wow todd, I am flabbergasted at how good you nailed how the past was between us.you are amazing

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posted September 29, 2017 04:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, todd!

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