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astrosaz
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posted October 20, 2017 12:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is the story, first this was just a bit of fun but now I feel it may be going somewhere... I'm afraid I may get hurt though as we're both a little 'crazy' and insecure.. I think that actually reflects in our natal charts but surely natal charts can't be the be all and end all? The synastry (although not a disaster) concerns me as there are a couple of harsh Saturn aspects ( Saturn square Mars exact ), unaspected moon (although it does conjunct my Southnode?) but most of all Moon opposite Neptune!!! Neptune and Uranus aspects always scare the hell out of me more than Saturn..... I'm the red and he's blue, my birth time is accurate and his is unknown.

( Charts are inserted in the bottom post below, had a bit of trouble figuring it out but sorted now )

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posted October 20, 2017 01:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CardinalT-Square     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Did you remember to delete the "s" in "http"? I've used imgur and their copy/paste link option for forums, it's the link: [img]insertlinkhere[/img]. After you paste that into your post just delete that "s" and you should be good to go.

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posted October 21, 2017 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^
Yeah just insert the image as you tried before, and delete the s in "https" to "http". DW had the same issue at first.

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posted October 22, 2017 03:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok let's see if this works

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posted October 22, 2017 03:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WOOOOOOOHOOOO! Lalafortunaea and CardinalT-Square, thanks so much for helping solve my problem, part of it was also not knowing you had to click on the pic to get the right link (incase anyone else is lost)


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posted October 22, 2017 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

This may be easier to read

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Lalafortunaea
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posted October 23, 2017 08:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well it would be helpful if we new the houses were correct. What can you say about this fellow? What was his childhood and upbringing like, for example? Particular life events that stick out?

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posted October 23, 2017 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm convinced his moon is definitely Gemini and I also think he may be Gemini rising or an Aquarius or a fire rising.. I think he's too outgoing to have any more water or any earth.

He was a handful/naughty at school mostly because he had dyslexia and struggled academically but excelled in the arts, and was sent to drama school to channel his energy and is now a pretty successful theatre actor in our city. Had a lot of trouble with drugs and alcohol, bipolar and anxiety... He's very loud, compassionate, sometimes likes to be on his own in the countryside, feisty, good shoulder to cry on and funny.

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posted October 24, 2017 08:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Harsh aspects between Saturn and Mercury can indicate learning difficulties (stunted/misfired communication), though not the only possible one. Pisces would explain that. Sometimes the normal "earthly realm" way of teaching/learning doesn't serve Pisces well.
I've also got dyslexia, and sometimes I don't even realize I've miswritten or misread something until later lol Sometimes words literally rearrange themselves. It's tough!

According to the chart as is, his DSC is Capricorn - this would make him tend to see life through a fairly serious lens. He'd have moments where he'd seem quite somber, even disapproving.

Pisces midheaven would make him quite passive. Not in a spineless way, but not interested in active arguments and fights. He would want to be compassionate with everyone, and if someone hurts him, his pain would be publicly known. Overall he'd much prefer peace and kindness, and could possibly find it difficult to assert himself in front of others in a tough way. It would be a gentle assertion, essentially.

He'd also likely be gullible, think people like him and/or are honest and be shocked if they lied. All the while wearing his heart on his sleeve. He'd essentially wear rose-colored glasses regarding many things. He'd want to help people. He'd feel their pain to some extent and want to try and make their life better in some way.

Virgo IC typically makes me think of the movie "Mathilda". Someone quite smart, precocious in their own way. Possibly likes reading. Virgo ICs tend to take up some sort of typically adult responsibility in their younger years. Virgo IC also tends to mean that some family member could have been ill in some way. Health may have played a prominent role. A family member may have worked some profession regarding health or amelioration of the body in some way - from doctor to physical education teacher. It varies, but something similar could be indicated. Hard work for either the IC person or their family is indicated. This could also mean with regards to their home life, they're perfectionists in some area, or quite picky. They can be critics.

Virgo IC could also mean they have anxiety issues and sensitive nerves, and should anything happen to cause any sort of disruption, it would leave them feeling quite unstable.

Sun and Mercury are in the 9th house for him, and if the house placements are true, then this could very much help explain his outgoing nature. To top that off, Uranus aspects his Mercury.
That would make him rebel, especially in terms of traditional learning. (said sun here earlier - read the aspects from you both by mistake)

So if all of that sounds pretty accurate, then I say it has it's promising aspects, regardless. Pluto conjunct Mars is passionate.
However, Saturn conjunct Merc would create small obstacles in communication, which you'd both have to be able to overcome. It's not harsh so it should be fairly gentle, but it'll cause you both to grow in some way regarding how you share information and communicate with one and other. Sun conjunct Saturn, while some say these two are enemies, this is where they become friends.

Venus in 8th conjunct Saturn on the dsc would indicate an extremely powerful bond between you too, that will be difficult to break.

That's just my 2 cents.

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astrosaz
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posted October 24, 2017 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your expertise is always eloquently written, I would have never guessed that you have dyslexia. I also have Saturn square merc and have problems with dyscalculia the math version but dyslexia seems much harder as you have to read and write everyday!

All of that makes sense, and I actually have a good friend with Virgo IC and that's a pretty spot on description of her childhood.

I'm convinced he's Gemini or Leo rising. I can imagine his moon in the 1st or the 11th and I can imagine his sun and merc in 8th and 10th... He's tall, skinny, tattoos, big eyes dresses kind of edgy. He's not had many relationships and I can't imagine him having 7th house Venus, although I can imagine him having an 8th house Venus so I have no idea what to do about house placements I think I'll just have to give up when it comes to that

I have Mars conjunct Pluto and Mars square Saturn In my natal so how would that play out in synastry?

Thanks for your in depth analysis, I really appreciate you sharing your knowledge

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Lalafortunaea
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posted October 25, 2017 04:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by astrosaz:

Thanks for your in depth analysis, I really appreciate you sharing your knowledge

You're very welcome <3 but really I'm not all that grand compared to some of the ascended astrology masters here, but I try my best.

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astrosaz
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posted October 30, 2017 01:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think your posts are always insightful and everyone has to start somewhere Lalafortuneaa

Bumping it up to ask - I have Mars conjunct Pluto and square Saturn in my natal chart and in this Synastry, what effect will that have? Some people think that makes it worse and others think it makes it easier.

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