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Rosalind
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posted October 20, 2017 01:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey everyone. Long time no see. I am back with a new request. I need a little bit of insight regarding my boyfriend and I synastry chart. Long story short, we got together like 3 weeks ago and I would like to know if this relationship has future or not and if there are karmic bounds. We feel that way. When we got together we felt very familiar about each other and since then we are inseparable.


I can exchange with ASTROLOGY READINGS and TAROT READINGS. Thank you!

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posted October 20, 2017 02:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I will leave posted also the composite chart if that helps. NO TOB for him. I am inside. Thank you!

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posted October 20, 2017 03:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for crystal_clear     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, you have tight conjunction between Moon and Venus, that alone is very nice. Sun-Mars conjunction and his Moon on your IC (depending on exact TOB can be pretty tight).

Looks good. Whether this can turn into something more permanent, you can see only later. There is Pluto Saturn sexile Venus which can add up one side to attraction and on the other side glue you two together.

Then also a square from Jupiter and Uranus conjunct your Saturn and Square both Venus/ Moon conjuction and his Venus.

It really depends how you two handle your own natal charts.

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posted October 20, 2017 03:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by crystal_clear:
Well, you have tight conjunction between Moon and Venus, that alone is very nice. Sun-Mars conjunction and his Moon on your IC (depending on exact TOB can be pretty tight).

Looks good. Whether this can turn into something more permanent, you can see only later. There is Pluto Saturn sexile Venus which can add up one side to attraction and on the other side glue you two together.

Then also a square from Jupiter and Uranus conjunct your Saturn and Square both Venus/ Moon conjuction and his Venus.

It really depends how you two handle your own natal charts.


Thank you! Anything in return?

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posted October 20, 2017 05:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Todd, I would like your insight too. Thank you!

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posted October 20, 2017 06:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for crystal_clear     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Thank you! Anything in return?

If you could take a look at this thread, would be nice. Thank you !
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/007221.html

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posted October 20, 2017 07:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by crystal_clear:
If you could take a look at this thread, would be nice. Thank you !
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/007221.html


Sure. A bit later though. Just got home from work.

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posted October 20, 2017 09:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In the first chart, the red person(outer person) has not aspects from his moon to the other person. I could not see this relationship going the distance, in my experience. The Moon is the heart and soul of the person. No aspects to the other person would be something that may bring a profound sense of lack of simpatico, in my opinion.

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posted October 20, 2017 10:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
In the first chart, the red person(outer person) has not aspects from his moon to the other person. I could not see this relationship going the distance, in my experience. The Moon is the heart and soul of the person. No aspects to the other person would be something that may bring a profound sense of lack of simpatico, in my opinion.


Nobody asked for your opinion. Keep it to yourself. thank you!

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posted October 20, 2017 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello, Rosalind

I am still on an email sabbatical but I just saw this thread and felt excited for you, girl.

Unaspected Moon is okay, I have this with my estranged hubs, it's his Moon that does not aspect my chart, we have been together for a decade. He feels very emotional with me but he says i do not tend to his emotional needs, he is needy and wants this and that but I dont offer this to him. He's fine with it.

Your synastry is very intense. His saturn and Pluto on your South Node and his Juno on your North Node is a karmic bond brought into this life and with Juno on the North Node- it may lead to a marriage.
Moon - Venus conjunction is incredibly tender and sweet, very loving, one of the best aspects to have between partners.
Mars on Sun and Mars on Mars is very invigorating and creates strong sexual attraction.

The Saturn on South Node conjucntion is very binding, and with Pluto in the mix - it will be very difficult to leave that relationship if any reason appears and force you to leave, it is just that binding.

is the time of birth correct? because the angle conjucntion of ASC to DSC is incredible. I have this with my Aries, it's an immediate bonding.

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posted October 20, 2017 12:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hello, Rosalind

I am still on an email sabbatical but I just saw this thread and felt excited for you, girl.

Unaspected Moon is okay, I have this with my estranged hubs, it's his Moon that does not aspect my chart, we have been together for a decade. He feels very emotional with me but he says i do not tend to his emotional needs, he is needy and wants this and that but I dont offer this to him. He's fine with it.

Your synastry is very intense. His saturn and Pluto on your South Node and his Juno on your North Node is a karmic bond brought into this life and with Juno on the North Node- it may lead to a marriage.
Moon - Venus conjunction is incredibly tender and sweet, very loving, one of the best aspects to have between partners.
Mars on Sun and Mars on Mars is very invigorating and creates strong sexual attraction.

The Saturn on South Node conjucntion is very binding, and with Pluto in the mix - it will be very difficult to leave that relationship if any reason appears and force you to leave, it is just that binding.

is the time of birth correct? because the angle conjucntion of ASC to DSC is incredible. I have this with my Aries, it's an immediate bonding.


Thank you, Orange. Unfortunately I dont have his TOB.... Yet. If I ask him that now it will feel weird. Its OK though. Thank you!

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posted October 20, 2017 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
if you dont have the time of birth, then his Moon could move a few degrees up or down, and in any case his Moon will make either a an opposition to your Venus ( i think this is the case here) or sextile to your Uranus, which is very sparky and never dull.

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posted October 20, 2017 12:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Orange:
if you dont have the time of birth, then his Moon could move a few degrees up or down, and in any case his Moon will make either a an opposition to your Venus ( i think this is the case here) or sextile to your Uranus, which is very sparky and never dull.

Thought so too.

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I'll start with what is in plain evidence at the top of the synastry chart since you have a time of birth to make for a Moon position for you.

- Your Moon very closely conjunct his Venus. This is one of the most desirable synastry aspects in any kind of relationship. It creates an immediate dynamic of affection and mutual understanding at an emotional level.

- These (Moon-Venus) are square his Uranus. Not necessarily a bad thing, but may involve some on-off dynamic that may not be that noticeable in the long run. It introduces some changeability, some freedom, spontaneity. You may at some point notice times when you are a bit out of rhythm with each other, but that will not overcome the basic Moon-Venus dynamic.

- Your Sun closely conjunct his Mars. This is a dynamic of fused energies that is another point of unity/bonding.

- Your Mercury conjunct his Sun. Excellent for communication, developing plans, finding single-mindedness together. Another point of bonding will and mind.

- Your Mercury trine his Uranus & Jupiter. More excellence in communication dymamic. Make that extra effort for optimism and mutual understanding at times when it is more needed and it will pay off. There may be times when there is a literal psychic exchange (Uranus) in your communication. This level of communicative interaction is rare. Put it to good use everywhere you find it.

- Your Venus sextile his Saturn & Pluto. Yes, stability and depth of affections which can be turned into long term agreements by applying your minds to making room for both your longer-held, deeper values.

- Your Venus trine his Neptune adds even more to this dynamic. There is some really good transcendent dynamic here to overcome challenges and maintain love and affection. Don't take these flowing sextiles and trines for granted. Consider how Neptune can aid in the realization of mutual dreams and aspirations and make that extra effort to talk it out, to keep it in heart/mind.

- Your Jupiter square his Nodes. This brings in some can-do optimism to help deal with the challenges sure to come. You can maintain a vision to options and what is over the horizon even when things seem tough.

- Your Saturn trine his Sun is another stabilizing supportive aspect.

- Your Uranus trine his Mercury means your synastry has mutual Mercury-Uranus trines. Quite desirable and very uncommon. Very hard to ignore a relationship with this dynamic as it sparks up and electrifies from the point of first interactions.

- Your Neptune trine his Venus. Well now, with mutual Venus-Neptune trines there is no way you can ignore the trans-personal dynamic that must surely feel like soul mates. Such Venus-Neptune aspects help immensely to help sustain the core Moon-Venus dynamic. Compassion can truly take this relationship places if you are only both willing and willing to stretch and grow that just a bit at a time as challenges arise.

- Your Pluto sextile his Venus. These sextiles are preferable when Venus and Pluto are in aspect. They can enormously influence depth of desire and determination to remain consceintious about the good of the other, and to keep the inner fires of passion alive.

- Your N.Node sextile his Saturn, stabilizing if only the mental effort is made to plan a future small steps at a time.

- Your N.Node trine his Neptune, helps even more to build a future with common dreams and towards a mutually held ideal -- with just a bit of effort made consistently.

Then some challenges ...

- Mars positions are opposite. This supports the validity of the actions of both persons even at those times when a similar mindset causes you to make efforts in different directions. Just let that fill the two-sided roles and express appreciation for the results -- or at least intentions.

- Your Saturn square his Venus. This one is a bit wide, so don't worry wart it. This can also aid in longer-term relating if you loosen up a bit and consider some of his ways of expressing affection may at first seem odd or unfamiliar. Stretch yourself a bit, but do keep a sense of yourself and affirm the worth of your relationship and how that translates into agreements/standards/commitment between you.

- Your Saturn conjunct his Jupiter indicates that you may to some degree eventually find yourself the limiter, the budgeter, the one who keeps some sensibility to counterbalance his optimism or urge to roam too wide. The more you turn inflexible to the point of not communicating the less influence you'll have. Keep it warm and talkative around these things for best outcomes.

- Your Uranus quincunx his Mars indicates some adjustment will be needed for mutual understanding as to what freedoms and impulses are acceptable to keep honoring each other and keep the relationship healthy. This may simply mean different ways of recreating or types of hobbies that aren't similar or similarly timed, but could require more adjustment than that (give a trans-personal planet).

- Your Pluto square his Sun shows there will be times of differences in which neither of you wants to budge, but this will power can also be consciously channeled into a determination and drive to see things through to the betterment of each and the relationship. Just reaffirm that determination every time you find obsession or stubbornness between you.

- Your S.Node conjunct his Saturn-Pluto. This dynamic will not show immediately, but represents hidden control/power issues that probably relate to fear. (All relationships can have issues of some type.) Let it come up in its own way without apprehension and put forward equality and a can-do attitude with your interactions.

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The composite reaffirms many of these points, showing challenges with plenty of determination to meet them; active communication that transcends common ability.

Without actually counting up the pros/cons of supporting/challenging aspects, it looks good to me with many enviable aspects.

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posted October 20, 2017 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OMG! I am speechless. Dunno what to say. THANK YOU!

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posted October 20, 2017 05:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Orange and Kannon if you want a reading just tell me. Leave your charts or tarot questions. Thank you again!

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posted October 20, 2017 06:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sorry just saw that that there is no TOB for your bf.

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posted October 21, 2017 12:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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sorry just saw that that there is no TOB for your bf.


No worries

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posted October 21, 2017 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump for todd. I would really like your opinion.

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posted October 21, 2017 02:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
In the first chart, the red person(outer person) has not aspects from his moon to the other person. I could not see this relationship going the distance, in my experience. The Moon is the heart and soul of the person. No aspects to the other person would be something that may bring a profound sense of lack of simpatico, in my opinion.

This is a great example of exactly why I have taken the time to thoroughly thrash this 'unaspected' concept -- and how it is yanked out for quick-and-easy use in this fashion.

No matter where his Moon is (from mid-Aqua to 0 Pisces), it makes significant aspects to her planets starting with her Sun/Uranus, then her Jupiter, then her N.Node and Venus. There are two possible major aspects in declination as well.

[edit] I erased the biting comments I made directed at Ami. Ami, if you see this, I apologize. We can disagree, and I can make my point without biting or getting accusatory in any way.

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posted October 21, 2017 02:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
This is a great example of exactly why I have taken the time to thoroughly thrash this 'unaspected' concept -- and how it is yanked out for quick-and-easy use in this fashion. You either did not read her preface stating she does not have a birth time for him, therefore any condition of aspects by her planets to his Moon is [b]undetermined. Or you have so sloppily applied the notion of 'unaspected' as to render this 'opinon' worthless.

I also question your experience leading to the conclusion you have come to based on a supposed 'unaspected' Moon on one side of a synastry. No matter where his Moon is (from mid-Aqua to 0 Pisces), it makes significant aspects to her planets starting with her Sun/Uranus, then her Jupiter, then her N.Node and Venus. There are two possible major aspects in declination as well.

The composite also shows Moon sextile Jupiter and trine Sun, as well as in aspect with the Nodes.

Are you possibly flippant in offering up such an opinion because you are jealous of her happiness?

Worth considering.

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Thank you! You are the best!

Orange, dont get jealous! )

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posted October 21, 2017 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The composite Moon position should not vary more than around 3° earlier or later, depending on what his birth time is. That is 28° Scorpio to 4° Sagittarius, so most likely square Venus. Great aspect.

Most importantly, go with the feeling and energy of the relationship as it is now. Then if difficulties come up, return to what astrological insights may be here.

When I got with Heather I didn't consult astrology. Our relationship started during Venus-Rx. Our synastry would scare away many astrologers and students. But she is my best friend and our relationship continues to grow. But we do have challenges. All relationships do. The key is not expecting a 'perfect' synastry/composite (whatever that is), just as we don't expect a 'perfect' relationship (whatever that is).

Positive feelings of friendship and trust can be turned into a decision to Love.

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posted October 21, 2017 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wonderful said. God bless you!

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posted October 22, 2017 03:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Kannon,just remembered something that suits the Saturn /Pluto conjunct SNode the best. Before getting together, I feared having a relationship with him. Because of my complexes I didn't want to ruin his life. He already has built a successful career and I feared with friends and family wouldn't agree with what I am. Does this fear related to the aspect? Thank you again.

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posted October 22, 2017 05:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am not ) I know you luv me )

And I'm glad to hear about your BF

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