posted November 26, 2017 05:56 PM            

this composite has aspects of ffection and happiness but it also has aspect that are oddly adversarial .

with the stellium of sun/venus/mercury/pluto opposed to mars/sedan,the affection is extremely strong between you nad you are always filled with joy and openness to each other. sedan shows a commitment to truth beyeeen you as honest in this relationshiop is paramouint.butwith pluto conjunct to the sun and orcis forming a tsquare to this opposition, there is still hidden recesses that arenot being communicated. it could be there are past relationships that still excert an affect on you and so are mentioned. pluot and orcus can also indicate that theres still a stand offish energy between you as one or both are unsure wheter you can make serious comptromises that are necessary for the relationship to go to the next level.so amid the openness and joy, there is a inner suspicion that something is being held back.

with Neptune conjunct to satrun and sexxtile to the sun ,thereis a inherent sensitivity between you. this can indicate that very often words are not necessary as you are very in tune with each other.

the sexual chemistry is very strong with mars/venus/pluto/orcus. very strong but sometimes conditional. this aspect can at times be very non sexual if one of you are feeling taken for granted.and generally pluto and orcus can indicate that you have sexual/emotional issue from the past . possibly abusive previous relationships or childhood abusive experiences.The Saturn/moon midpoint is square to eris which shows that there might not be a lot of public affection shown between you but when the doors are closed , your libidos take off.

ixion is square to the node which usually shows a innate social difference or a different take on social issues. this tends to be a disruptive aspect.
but any tensions created likely never cause negative feelings because the nide is sextile a perfectly exact vertex/Lilith conjunction . this conjunction is conjunct the descendant which shows there is a feeling of supernatural or a other worldly connection. this shows that you lives have had similar unusual coincidences or seemingly altered dimension feelings and experiences. this conjunction usually make one feel that there is destiny at play and the feeling of soul mate often arises because nothing else=e can explain the impossible similarities you have shared in your lives. this conjunction is square to the moon/chiron opposition which is one of the adversarial aspects I mentioned. this aspecy shows that you two are really into each others heads, by that I mean you seek to understand each others psyches completely. this is a very analyticak aspects and it shows that you ar evvboth very intelligent and very desirous of knowing/understanding the most minute dynamics in each other personalities. this adds to the other worldly connection but if arguments arise then this aspect shows that you can hurt each other deeply because you both know each others weak spots as well as strengths .but this pattern gives a almost transcendent understanding of each other and of the social milieu in general. as mentioned the node forms a sextile to the vertex and Lilith ,so all the most powerful and sensitive "psychic" dynamics in the relationship are in harmony. this pattern will keep the adversarial aspects in check or rather harmonize the way they manifest.
interestingly Jupiter is sextile to the node and trine to the vertrex and Lilith . this is extremely favorable for a long term relationship or marriage , if the unusual psychihc connections do not cause doubt,or if the Uranus/nessus square does not disrupt the over all harmony present.
as the juno/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct to the sun/venus/mercury stellium, the chances are very good this relationship could in fact lead to commitment or marriage. there is such a strong "otherworldly" connection here that these energies must be integrated to achieve commitment.
todd

posted February 20, 2018 06:23 PM            

it seems that the relationship is not going well as he likely is distant and cold. the transitting node has been exactly square to the composite pluto 14scorp57. the transiting node was at 14leo57 on jan 28 and remiane exactly square pluto thru feb 19.
a pluto square is not usually good for relationships because of the overwhelming selfishness that appears.
so my first flash is that he may have ended the relationship.

but the node will square the stellium of mercury/venus/sun opposed to mars, from april 15 til may 16 th.

so it is very likely that if he has brokenup that he will be drawn back to you.
if this is the case, chill out and don't try to contacthim as if it is to be then he will return. you can't lose that which is really yours.

posted February 20, 2018 07:37 PM            

Note: the orb for the trine is debatable. I think it could qualify as a force, contrary to public opinion. It might depend on how many rocks are in the way. LOL

posted February 25, 2018 10:11 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
hi AriesLilith

it seems that the relationship is not going well as he likely is distant and cold. the transitting node has been exactly square to the composite pluto 14scorp57. the transiting node was at 14leo57 on jan 28 and remiane exactly square pluto thru feb 19.
a pluto square is not usually good for relationships because of the overwhelming selfishness that appears.
so my first flash is that he may have ended the relationship.

but the node will square the stellium of mercury/venus/sun opposed to mars, from april 15 til may 16 th.

so it is very likely that if he has brokenup that he will be drawn back to you.
if this is the case, chill out and don't try to contacthim as if it is to be then he will return. you can't lose that which is really yours.

todd

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We are still dating, but he's been cold towards me and I will have to go away all march for work reasons but will be back in late march. I hope once I come back, things will get better!!! Our composite looks great, synastry is ok, so I hope things work out.

posted February 25, 2018 10:13 PM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
If I were the male, it might be too much for me seeing your Nessus close to being trine my Dejanira. Too close for comfort I think. He might not feel it though. Since his Mars is parallel to your Nessus, he might retaliate if necessary to protect himself.

Note: the orb for the trine is debatable. I think it could qualify as a force, contrary to public opinion. It might depend on how many rocks are in the way. LOL

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What would my nesuss trine his dejanira entail? Thank you for reeplying!