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Topic: On and off for 5 months - he keeps ending it but coming back and I want to scream
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rubynoir Knowflake Posts: 86 From: United Kingdom Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 27, 2017 12:58 PM
We were dating on and off for 5 months, he gets really close to me and then completely backs away and ends things. This is constant and last night was the third time he has said we should part ways but he is now talking to me again saying he'll drop the remainder of my belongings before saying goodbye.For some reason I do not believe this is the end because it never seems to be but can you see anything in the chart that would signal this odd behavior on his part? He is The Aries outside. IP: Logged |
rubynoir Knowflake Posts: 86 From: United Kingdom Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 27, 2017 01:00 PM
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Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 1121 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 27, 2017 01:10 PM
Try uploading the images to an image hosting site like tinypic..IP: Logged |
rubynoir Knowflake Posts: 86 From: United Kingdom Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 27, 2017 01:17 PM
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margym0o Knowflake Posts: 972 From: Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted November 27, 2017 02:01 PM
To be honest I see this as less of an astrological issue and more of just plain old lack of maturity. There is nothing so obviously WRONG with your synastry that is causing the lack of commitment on his end. I've seen far worse-off synastries turn into successful long-term relationships.He obviously doesn't know what he wants at whatever stage of life he's at (still young by today's standards) so I wouldn't continue to put yourself in a position to be taken advantage of. Unless there is something so mind-blowingly awesome about this guy that you can't let go I suggest you move on and find someone who you will treat you with the respect you deserve. IP: Logged |
racole12 Knowflake Posts: 1156 From: the world is my home! Registered: Feb 2010
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posted November 30, 2017 01:57 AM
Tr Pluto is dancing all over his Sun, ASC and soon to be Mars... When I had this going on I ended a 10 year relationship and moved across the country... also, I don't know his progressions either. Most of the time when I hear about a relationship issue I want to look at the people separately with natal, prog and transits b/c there is a huge chance that's the reason things are not going right in the relationship... IP: Logged |
racole12 Knowflake Posts: 1156 From: the world is my home! Registered: Feb 2010
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posted November 30, 2017 01:58 AM
Tr Pluto is dancing all over his Sun, ASC and soon to be Mars... When I had this going on I ended a 10 year relationship and moved across the country... also, I don't know his progressions either. Most of the time when I hear about a relationship issue I want to look at the people separately with natal, prog and transits b/c there is like a huge change that's the reason things are not going right in the relationship... IP: Logged |
rubynoir Knowflake Posts: 86 From: United Kingdom Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 30, 2017 08:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by racole12: Tr Pluto is dancing all over his Sun, ASC and soon to be Mars... When I had this going on I ended a 10 year relationship and moved across the country... also, I don't know his progressions either. Most of the time when I hear about a relationship issue I want to look at the people separately with natal, prog and transits b/c there is like a huge change that's the reason things are not going right in the relationship...
Thank you for your responses! Racole12 it's interesting you say that because he did tell me when we first met he had ended his relationship with his girlfriend of 11 years at the beginning of the year and he moved straight to England. He has now been here for just over 1 year and adjusting to his new life from Romania. Would a progressed synastry chart be helpful? I wish I could read at least one chart but I just don't understand them even after reading about it! IP: Logged |
rubynoir Knowflake Posts: 86 From: United Kingdom Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 30, 2017 08:25 PM
If I calculated a progressed chart or his natal could you take a look for me please?IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 89295 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 07, 2017 05:39 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 89295 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 16, 2017 06:09 PM
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