posted December 05, 2017 09:03 AM            

He is no longer with his wife, and over a coffee I realized there was a lot of chemistry happening. I was never interested in him prior to this meeting, other than I found him pleasant to talk to. I have his accurate birth time and date.

I sense his intentions are that he is more than interested, and I am receptive. But I am letting him initiate and allowing things to progress naturally. I know what I see in these charts. We have a lot of complementary elements and aspects. He has the intensity I desire, and his moon to mine... never had that before. I felt this- when he hugged me goodnight it was pure affection. There was no sexual undertone, and it was pure warmth and security. I have never experienced that in my life, especially not from a man.

There is a large age difference between us, but it is strictly in number. Mercury trine mercury, moon sextile moon, moon sextile mars, pluto square ASC and pluto conjunct MC, wide mars venus opposition DW, sun trine moon, saturn trine saturn and mercury....

my sun and jupiter in his 7th, my venus in his 8th. I have mars venus in virgo and he was mars venus in pisces. I am a water sun earth moon, he is an earth sun water moon. My moon is in his 1st, his moon in my 12th. Our composite sun stellium is in the 7th house. Our composite north node conjuncts my pluto and his mc exactly.

and the composite- I actually saw this a few months ago and could not understand how this composite existed and all I saw was friendship. Lots of Pluto action, but I think he and both require that in relationships. He even has Saturn conjunct ASC in natal and I am a cap moon- Saturn is important to us both too. Suddenly it hit me the other day. More than friends feelings happening here.

Can you help me see things i may be missing? Thank you so much in advance! Am I missing red flags or misinterpreting the significance of this?

his chart:

my chart:

posted December 05, 2017 07:47 PM            

bump please!

posted December 07, 2017 05:17 AM            

I am feeling so confused by this relationship. One minute I am on, the next I am hesitant. (Uranus opp Sun?)

He looks like a soulmate- Venus SN, my Venus and Saturn in his 8th. Eros opposite Psyche in composite. And there are some very special things happening... so why am I so unraveled?

posted December 08, 2017 09:02 AM            

I am going to try to work this out here. And maybe someone will jump in and help me out.

So in the composite. ASC in Sag, conjunct Mars. Together we are dynamic and adventurous, expansive. We represent a large energy and can achieve a lot. But this energy needs to be directed or it can be unproductive. Moon in first lends a lot of emotional compatibility, a lot of depth and a strong connection. Sag gives us optimism and again, great emotional energy.

This is opposite a love stellium in Gemini, 7th house. Union conjuncts venus and sun. Our union is destined, and the focal point of the relationship is the relationship itself. Venus is opposite mars, albeit wide, but this adds to the physical and sexual attraction, and also contributes to an air of competition. Used positively, this could be playful and a good challenge for growth. Stagnant energy could lead to arguments. I like the involvement of the moon and mars across from this stellium. We both have sun moon opposition in our charts and this is familiar energy. We can use it to our advantage, and as in natal, I think it can be powerful energy as a couple.

Pluto and Uranus squares this whole axis. Pluto is depth, transformation, but it could be used positively. I think there could be challenges to our relationship. One being the age gap between us. He's 20 years older. Also status, as he's very accomplished and stable and I am pursuing my career and establishing my own security. Uranus can also represent these issues, maybe?

But we both have pluto active in our charts, and I like the stimulation, personally. I think he is more familiar with it than i am, so maybe it is for me to adapt.

Saturn trines the sun (wide) and sextiles moon. Stability, structure, dependence. And mars and venus sextile and trine the nodes.

Our vertex is conjunct my natal sun, square composite Saturn, and conjunct the jupiter venus midpoint. I'm working that one out...

Composite Eros opp composite psyche... well the eros in our composite chart conjuncts his natal sun. Our passion as a couple ignites his Sun, energizes him and gives him passion and fuel. Our composite moon is conjunct his natal ASC and Saturn. The emotional energy we have as a couple supports who he is, and activates his own sense of self and stability. This is positive energy for him.

Our love stellium activates my natal 7th house, which is not active in our synastry. As a couple, our energy stimulates my draw to the relationship itself.

Moon trine juno... commitment? Emotional? Not sure.

Ceres trines our composite stellium. Love it. It's active in synastry, and this is very supportive of nurturing and care for the other in the relationship. It's also conjunct the node Saturn midpoint. The direction of the relationship receives support from Ceres.

composite vertex in the 8th? not sure there. maybe it lends to depth... there is a lot of emotionalism happening in this relationship.

jupiter juno midpoint is squared by chiron- healing through the union. Chiron is in Aries, on Aries point actually, so I see this as very significant. I think through the relationship we may both experience a powerful healing to the sense of self. This is supported through the transformations of pluto squaring the stellium/moon axis in 7th/1st houses.

north node in 10th... public, growth in career? It does seem we will both benefit in the sense of public self from the relationship. I know my personal journey is to achieve self sustained accomplishments- career, emotional independence, and his appears to be similar.

how am I doing?