posted December 06, 2017 09:45 PM            

one person's time of birth is unknown so please ignore the house positions,

posted December 07, 2017 04:39 PM            

the composite does have a few favorable aspects for romantic relationship. venus is opposed to the sun and trine to the node/eros/Uranus/Neptune. this shows a inherent affection between you. Uranus gives a strong astral/psychic sense also.with eros present there is likely to be a electric emotional attraction between you. often Uranus can show brief intense affairs but here as it has sextile trine to the venus and sun, the sparkle and vibrancy of the affection is not destabilizing.
with the moon on the ascendant and trine to Saturn and mars,this actually shows a inherent stability and a sincere devotional and respect fro each other.
Jupiter/juno midpoint is square to mercury whuich suggest , you have already spoke to ach other about the intimate feeling between you.....possibly.

a question mark is that the mercury/Jupiter midpoint is opposed to pluto.
this harks back to your question as this aspect suggest a relationship in the workplace or in similar professions. this pattern can show a strong professional ambition, and with pluto , a tendency to put off intimacy in relationship so as to preserve option professionally.in which case this aspect would not mesh well with commitment.

another uncertainty is that the sun/pluto midpoint tis conjunct the Neptune/Uranus/node/Eros stellium.
the exact sun/pluto midpoint conjunction to noder can give signs that this relationship has strong input from a previous life.
this pattern could suggest common dreams and maybe dreams of ominous events to come.

this aspect would add a "seriousness" which might temper the astral/psychic energies between you.
the concern here is that Uranus.neptune node conjunction ,though very astral/visionary can be illusionary, that is the dreams and visions may not come to fruition.
this composite is subtle but complex in its possibilities

posted December 08, 2017 12:54 AM            

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Originally posted by todd:

Jupiter/juno midpoint is square to mercury whuich suggest , you have already spoke to ach other about the intimate feeling between you.....possibly

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yes you are absolutely right,
feelings are expressed,
the were almost very shortly after we met, this surprised me because I never felt such a strong urge to respond to someone's expression of feelings so quickly and so honestly,
it was a new feeling for me but it also felt really nice, warm and assuring,
and for the first time things not only didn't fall apart or start going downhills once I said it back, but they started looking a lot more like what life really should be,

feeling the newness of this kind of human contact for me,
is why I needed your insights to make a decision whether to step inside a relationship with him

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Originally posted by todd:

a question mark is that the mercury/Jupiter midpoint is opposed to pluto.
this harks back to your question as this aspect suggest a relationship in the workplace or in similar professions. this pattern can show a strong professional ambition, and with pluto , a tendency to put off intimacy in relationship so as to preserve option professionally.in which case this aspect would not mesh well with commitment.

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again you are right,
we met because we started working together,
the thing is his job and mine are complementing each other and are just as important, but I felt a bit like he wanted to get more out of me for his personal benefit,
I don't know him very well yet and I wonder if he feels the same about me,
now I know his romantic feelings are sincere, but the thing is this is a relationship you can't take job and ambition out of...both of us are rather career-oriented people

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Originally posted by todd:

the concern here is that Uranus.neptune node conjunction ,though very astral/visionary can be illusionary, that is the dreams and visions may not come to fruition.
this composite is subtle but complex in its possibilities

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could it be an indicator of our job? music?
it does involve both of us dreaming a lot lol
as we compose and write music together
both of us need to put our emotions out there or the song will be lifeless

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Originally posted by todd:

i would suggest proceeding as if this has constructive emotional potential but to watch out for indications that blind ambition may be the over riding motive

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I will be,
thank you again very much for your kindness and wisdom,
best wishes

P.S
I am still friends (for the lack of a better word to describe our relationship) with this guy, and this is our composite, you remember?

posted December 08, 2017 04:05 AM            

however with this newer guy I feel like I need to put more effort to appear nicer than I am,
maybe part of it is because we have just met, but nonetheless, I feel a bit of pressure in this area (maybe it comes from moon/venus square?) we also both have natal venus square moon

posted December 09, 2017 08:13 AM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:

just out of curiosity todd,
if you could choose one composite out of these two, which one would it be?

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posted December 09, 2017 09:53 PM            

I guess you don't get a break from me, do you?!

it's your own fault lol, you shouldn't be so magically correct

thanks a lot for your guidance,
I'll take this newer relationships like a gift, and who knows maybe it was about time I phased things out with the last guy!

posted December 10, 2017 10:55 AM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
please forgive me todd,

I guess you don't get a break from me, do you?!

it's your own fault lol, you shouldn't be so magically correct

thanks a lot for your guidance,
I'll take this newer relationships like a gift, and who knows maybe it was about time I phased things out with the last guy!

by the way I promise I won't make another thread for you

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LOL no its okay with me , that jeeezzz was just because your charts are so complex.(actually it seems several charts have been very complex recently) your making me work. but that's the only way I learn. thank you
todd

posted December 11, 2017 09:52 AM            

the relationships have been complex, I think because I am still not sure what kind of person I want to commit to? the only thing am so far sure of is that I want to be married and share my life with someone within the next couple of years...would need at least a year too to get to know them

I feel that I will finally be able to make up my mind once in my progressed chart the moon leaves the 7th house (in a few months)

the relationship with the first guy is
overall sweet, and romantic and a lot of fun (it's also still at the initial stages, but I get the feeling that it will keep its childish and rather superficial aspect even if it progresses over years)

the relationship with the guy in the second chart..
it's so deep and engaging on so many levels that I find it really hard to stop speaking with him,
I'm also physically really attracted to him, much more than the newer guy, although both are good-looking in my eyes, you can say the guy in the second chart is "my type"...there isn't much romantic feelings, but rather an irresistible connection...somehow I feel like I will never be his priority, but I am very tempted to become a "wife" to him..it comes off a bit silly when I say it but it's the only way I can explain my feeling...he engages my moon I guess
..I also find him very steady and loyal, and I feel like I can count on him and feel strong by his side...while the newer guy has a rather spoiled and childish side to his personality which I can not handle if I am to live with him, I am also not sure if he can grow out of it, because I have seen men well above 40 still acting childish..

when with the guy in the first chart, I see him as a really fun friend to hang out with, and a great colleague, I am not sure if I see myself marrying him (yet)

about the t-square of mars/chiron, mercury, uranus/neptune,
me and the guy in the second chart, both have this t-square natally (he's born two weeks before me) and so it shows in the composite too..perhaps it won't be so fatal because we have both been familiar with it all our lives and may be able to handle it?

these are really confusing times for me,
good thing is both their suns aspect my MC (trine with the newer guy and conjunct with the other), so they both inspire my endeavors and so I have at least my projects to keep my head steady on

posted December 11, 2017 01:06 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
thanks a lot todd,
I learn a lot from you as well,
because you present to me my emotions from an outside perspective and so I can look at them from a more detached point of view making it easier for me to make a decision

the relationships have been complex, I think because I am still not sure what kind of person I want to commit to? the only thing am so far sure of is that I want to be married and share my life with someone within the next couple of years...would need at least a year too to get to know them

I feel that I will finally be able to make up my mind once in my progressed chart the moon leaves the 7th house (in a few months)

the relationship with the first guy is
overall sweet, and romantic and a lot of fun (it's also still at the initial stages, but I get the feeling that it will keep its childish and rather superficial aspect even if it progresses over years)

the relationship with the guy in the second chart..
it's so deep and engaging on so many levels that I find it really hard to stop speaking with him,
I'm also physically really attracted to him, much more than the newer guy, although both are good-looking in my eyes, you can say the guy in the second chart is "my type"...there isn't much romantic feelings, but rather an irresistible connection...somehow I feel like I will never be his priority, but I am very tempted to become a "wife" to him..it comes off a bit silly when I say it but it's the only way I can explain my feeling...he engages my moon I guess
..I also find him very steady and loyal, and I feel like I can count on him and feel strong by his side...while the newer guy has a rather spoiled and childish side to his personality which I can not handle if I am to live with him, I am also not sure if he can grow out of it, because I have seen men well above 40 still acting childish..

when with the guy in the first chart, I see him as a really fun friend to hang out with, and a great colleague, I am not sure if I see myself marrying him (yet)

about the t-square of mars/chiron, mercury, uranus/neptune,
me and the guy in the second chart, both have this t-square natally (he's born two weeks before me) and so it shows in the composite too..perhaps it won't be so fatal because we have both been familiar with it all our lives and may be able to handle it?

these are really confusing times for me,
good thing is both their suns aspect my MC (trine with the newer guy and conjunct with the other), so they both inspire my endeavors and so I have at least my projects to keep my head steady on

thanks again todd, very much
feel free to ask any questions

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about the t-square of mars/chiron, mercury, uranus/neptune,
me and the guy in the second chart, both have this t-square natally (he's born two weeks before me) and so it shows in the composite too..perhaps it won't be so fatal because we have both been familiar with it all our lives and may be able to handle it?