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Topic: Need help with Synastry and Composite interpretation
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soulstress
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From: Neptune's Fantasy Land
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posted January 13, 2018 04:25 PM
  
Hello! I just want to ask if anyone can shed some light about my relationship with this guy through our chart. I’ve been pining over this guy for more than 2 years now. He knows I have a crush on him. He found out through a mutual friend 😑 She told him but he didn't say anything about it. Anyway I felt like it's mutual. He still talks to me every now and then. Yesterday, I finally had the courage to ask for his place and time of birth and he told me.I was thinking he's interested at some point but not interested enough to pursue me. I tried moving on and forgetting him since I found out that he's dating someone else before so maybe that's why. We're not really friends and he already resigned from the company we both work at so we don't see each other anymore. I tried not talking to him and avoided looking at his social media account, But every now and then he still chats me but he never ask me out, just asking some personal questions, what's going on with my life. Next week he's going to drop by to give me his "christmas gift". I'm so frustrated I don't know what to do anymore. When I tried talking about my feelings in a joking manner, I felt like he was uncomfortable and didn't want to talk about it that's why I didn't push. Am I just a backburner for him? What am I going to do? 😔 Thank you in advice for those who will take time to reply! Synastry:  His chart:
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Kannon McAfee
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posted January 13, 2018 05:44 PM
This goes in Interpersonal Astrology. Moving it there.------------------
Soul Stars Astrology - by the declinations guy
All readings include declinations because the planets also move north and south of the celestial equator IP: Logged |
mereiposa
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posted January 13, 2018 06:00 PM
I could only see his chart. Can you try uploading to tiny pic? That's usually more reliable.IP: Logged |
soulstress
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posted January 13, 2018 06:16 PM
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Originally posted by mereiposa:
I could only see his chart. Can you try uploading to tiny pic? That's usually more reliable.
Hi! I didn't know the pics weren't showing. I uploaded them again 🙂
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mereiposa
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posted January 13, 2018 07:17 PM
well I am trying to see the synastry so forgive me if I miss something. I see your Pluto squaring his Sun, this is very enticing. He may not be open to this. He's an Aqua sun, very independent. Perhaps he is picking up on this and has hesitation? Maybe it's heavy for him. I also see your Uranus squaring his Venus Mars conjunction. I bet he feels the electricity too! His Juno conjunct your ASC? I bet he does like you. But again, he's aqua. He may need time. Your sun on his Lilith- this can be magnetic or repelling. I've experienced both and it really depends on the Lilith person's comfort level with Lilith. Moon square moon can be challenging.
Your angles line up nicely! I think that creates some resonance. You have a Cap DSC and he has Cap Mercury and IC. Your moon conjunct his Mercury is nice and may help smooth out the above square moon aspect. By the way both of you are 3rd house moon people wth moon conjunct your DSC. I think that is also probably helpful for the moon connection. You are different yet similar. Your venus in his 7th- very nice! You have some definite reciprocal aspects. Maybe he needs time to come around. He is a cap mercury too and may be more reserved. I hope someone else can come in and see more! IP: Logged |
soulstress
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posted January 13, 2018 08:53 PM
Hi, Mereiposa! Thanks for the response. 🙂Yes, my Sun conjunct his Lilith and squares my moon. His Juno is in Libra opposite my Sun
My Uranus squares his Venus/Mars plus Composite we have Moon square Saturn. Sounds like a relationship that's doomed to fail. 😔 My Mars conjunct his Neptune. Another bad news.
I don't think he's really reserved person. He has Moon in Aries but has Mars in Pisces. Passive aggressive maybe? I want to believe we can have a chance. I can't stop thinking about him. I'm obsessed and I feel like I'm stuck unless I fall in love with someone else. But I'm also getting that he doesn't want me to move on, doesn't want to let me go that's why he still keeps in touch even though we're not really friends and have not been seeing each other for months now.
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soulstress
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posted January 14, 2018 09:28 PM
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Randall
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posted January 19, 2018 09:40 AM
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mereiposa
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posted January 19, 2018 05:25 PM
I don't think its doomed. And why does he have a gift for you if you barely see each other or talk? Has he brought it by yet? IP: Logged |
soulstress
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posted January 19, 2018 11:12 PM
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Originally posted by mereiposa:
I don't think its doomed. And why does he have a gift for you if you barely see each other or talk? Has he brought it by yet?
Actually I was his client. It was just a Christmas giveaway from his company. Took him so long to give me. He went earlier this morning after my shift in my office to give it to me. It was just a simple planner and a chocolate. There was too much awkwardness between us. He was so anxious and uncomfortable he was even having a hard time looking at me. It was so frustrating. I asked if he’s leaving already and he said yes so I let him go. Nothing happens. Didn’t even ask me out for a coffee or something. I guess that was my cue to just give up and forget about him. IP: Logged |
mereiposa
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posted January 20, 2018 07:44 AM
Well, it sounds like something is going on and awkwardness could be either way- could be he is attracted and interested but doesn't know how to express it or could be he doesn't want to lead you on. I agree- move on. You deserve to have a relationship that is clear and direct. IP: Logged |
soulstress
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posted January 20, 2018 02:16 PM
^ Yes, I talked to my friend about it and that’s what she also told me. Thanks for the response. 🙂 IP: Logged |
mereiposa
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posted January 20, 2018 05:14 PM
I'm sorry Soulstress. I am sure it's not the answer you wanted to hear, though in time you may be thankful for moving on. Trust me, I have been in this situation more often than I care for.IP: Logged |
soulstress
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posted January 27, 2018 12:49 PM
It’s okay. Thanks for the response.  I took the chance to asked him if he’s dating. I asked first how is he going to celebrate his birthday. He said he’s going to have dinner with his mom. Then I asked if he’s dating because someone I know saw him with someone. He answered me with another question of who saw him and maybe it’s not him, he said. Then I told him who and asked again the same question. He didn’t answer and just explained to me that it was just his colleague.
Had he answered directly that he’s not dating I would have asked him out. But maybe he got where the conversation was headed and didn’t want to reject me directly that’s why he’s being evasive. I just ended it saying he was frustrating to talk to in a joking manner and said good night. He asked why lol. I’m not sure if he was playing dense or what. I didn’t answer and just left him wondering.
Maybe I felt this more perhaps because he has three planets falling in my 7th house. But there are no remarkable aspects that could bind us together, sad to say. I guess this really is it. His evasiveness and lack of effort means lack of interest. IP: Logged |
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