posted January 20, 2018 05:30 PM            

With the amount of inconjunctions (+ two yods) in the composite, it definitely seems like you guys have a lot of past life stuff to work through (if you believe in that).

This also goes to show how picky and neurotic Virgo is. It wants to escape itself, it doesn't want to be reminded of itself (Moon/Moon conjunction and Moon/Venus conjunction).

Venus is exalted in Pisces, maybe it doesn't enjoy being stressed out by his Virgo Moon?

The ruler of your Venus is Neptune, which has his Mars conjunct it. His Mars is also square your Venus. There has to be sexual tension here. I can see why he would stress you out rather than seduce you though.

His Pluto widely conjunct your ASC probably sucks. I have this aspect with my parents. Pluto can feel extremely oppressive and wants to be the star of the show, particularly at the ASC's expense. Given that you're a Leo ASC, you don't take to this kindly.

Actually I just now see an ugly mutuable t-square forming in this synastry. Natally you have a Venus/Moon opposition. It's already in a natural t-square with your Neptune.

Then he comes along and adds personal planets on top of your stressed out personal planets. His worst qualities remind you of your worst qualities. He doesn't bring out the best in you and elevate you from your dark thoughts, instead he compounds them and makes them a thousand times worse simply by being himself.

He's like an uncomfortable karmic mirror for you. Everything about this synastry screams "doomed, but important for personal development".

posted January 20, 2018 08:49 PM            

Yes there is an element of sexual tension. We fooled around once, then about a week ago we had sex. It didn’t quite work out the way he had hoped & he basically had to come to terms with changing his thinking about what he’s supposed to do during sex. It turned into a deep conversation & it got us both thinking about things. I admit it was nice to just sit there & talk with him & we were our most vulnerable if you know what i mean. He’s not sure if we’ll ever do it again though. Things were cool for a few days but then there was some weird drama with his ex (daughter’s mother) & now I’m kind of irritated with him, but at the same time i don’t want to lose him if they makes sense. BUT i do find myself wanting to get away from him. It’s confusing. ..thank you for your insight though. I welcome any others who want to chime in too.