posted January 29, 2018 04:26 PM            

I hope you don't ind me asking, but you seem so knowledgable with synastry/composites....would you mind looking at one for me? If you don't mind, I will post it...just let me know and I will go ahead and post..

posted January 29, 2018 08:19 PM            

Thank you! I'd be more than happy to look but I actually am pretty novice. I just get a feel for them, and I hate to see threads go unanswered, so I share what I see in them. I am more familiar with synastry than composite. But post your charts in a new thread and let's see if I can help and others will chime in.

posted February 06, 2018 09:05 AM            

Here's the synastry

And here's the composite

posted February 06, 2018 05:12 PM            

I see really nice things that I like:
moon trine moon- so nice
juno trine juno?
valentine trine valentine?

Person in red is a Cancer moon, and person in blue is a 12th house Taurus Sun conjunct ceres, sextile a moon in Pisces. This is a soft and Neptunian vibe, and Ceres and Chiron conjunct Sun probably give this person a natural nurturing healing ability. The Pisces moon is 10th house though, so there's some Saturnian stability there.

Person in red is an 8th house Leo Sun, 7th house cancer Moon. I am going to guess there is a lot of depth and intensity happening. And the nurturing and caring feel of the Blue person probably really appeals to that Cancer Moon. With a Cap NN, the 10th house moon probably appeals too. Moons in trine is very nice, especially for two water moons. This probably adds some nice emotional depth between the two people.

Junos line up nicely too. Not only is that a trine (possible), you both identify the other as your type.

But then you have some concerns. There's some harsh Pluto happening. The only thing hitting blue person's Taurus stellium is an inconjunct to Pluto. I feel like they would want and need something softer. (Although there is a natal square to Mars Jupiter, so maybe the intensity is well received and not unfamiliar?) And the Pluto opposite Mars. Right now it probably feels like sexual attraction, but it amounts to some struggles later. Mars Venus conjunct in Virgo is similar. Sexual attraction but it can be a lot to deal with.

Then we have some Neptune squares. Moon square Neptune and Neptune square Mars Jupiter the other way. I would worry. Sometimes the deception is not at all intentional, like lying and cheating, but of trying to be something they're not and falling short of the ideal. Its hard on both people.

I feel like this is strong attraction that can be long term, but will fall short of what they want. Venus Saturn conjunction in blue person's 1st could feel heavy. I have experienced the conjunction in my 10th, and it was a little easier to handle bcs it was my 10th house, house of public expression. But 1st, that's the expression of self. It's possible red person adds some stability to blue person, which maybe feels good with a lot of innate Neptunian things happening.

The composite, I see similar. Mars conjunct Sun Mercury is action and energy, drive. And in Gemini, it's hitting both people personally- blue person's ASC and red person Saturn. I'm not very comfortable with the Saturn Eros conjunction, though there are possible positive expressions with it. Chiron conjunct Moon squares the wide Venus Saturn conjunction. This looks like emotional hurts. And it feels like it will leave someone (Venus) feeling cold or lacking love.

posted February 06, 2018 11:10 PM            

I wonder though- am I too 'soft' for him? I'm blue, he's red...a part of me feels like he may smother me, and try to control my sweet, loving venusian nature...not sure I can deal with that....it took me YEARS to get out of a unhealthy relationship a few years prior... this feels good when we are around each other, but circumstances have kept us apart. However, we have been led back to each other..GAH the chemistry! It also feels like there is an emotional connection, which makes sense with the moons trining..this makes me want to go for it. But then I read the caution signs...I dunno...

JUST curious- any idea more of what RED feels, according to the synastrY? Becasue I know what I feel ! (blue)...

posted February 07, 2018 06:26 AM            

I think he feels the same. There are a lot of unaspected planets, like his Sun, and his Jupiter, the chart ruler. But, you hit his relationship houses. Your Sun stellium is in his 5th, you have Venus in his 7th, and Mars Jupiter in his 8th. And your Saturn in his 9th may satisfy the chart ruler aspect- 9th being the Sag house. Saturn may feel good to him again given his Cap NN. I think there's attraction there in a big way. I do think he's power over you, just given his 8th house sun and the heavy Pluto. His Pluto squares your Venus.

I don't know how you came back together, whether it was random or he contacted you or vice versa... but sometimes I believe this happens because there is more to be played out. That doesn't mean you have to take that opportunity though.

Depending on how tight those trines are between your Junos and your Valentines, I think this could signify true caring between you two. And that could add a lot to the relationship in terms of longevity and love. But I also think you will feel that heaviness over time from the composite. I don't think it will be the satisfying relationship you probably hope for it to be.

posted February 07, 2018 09:29 AM            

There's a lot more to the story..I won't bore you though LOL. Nothing has ever officially happened, except a bunch of missed opportuniites. BUT the universe seems to keep conspiring to entice us...it's interesting though. Just curious, you say he holds all the power ? Can you elaborate on that? I feel all of that Pluto- I also feel that perhaps while right now I am addicted to the chemistry, I also feel that he would be very possessive and in the long run, I may feel repressed. It's hard to be so psychic sometimes, LOL.

Please let me know if you have a situation you would like me to look into for you...I will give you my email and happy to read for you..I am quite clairvoyant and accurate (not to toot my horn just being honest).

ONE LAST THING- would you mind looking at my comp posite with my Ex? Would love your take on that! Just curious .....

posted February 07, 2018 11:44 AM            

Ok, on to the composite with your ex. I feel like there is a lot of energy concentrated in Taurus. He was a Taurus too, with a Cancer moon? That Taurus moon would have felt good to both of you, grounding for the emotional Water moons. I like the Sun and Moon, and the love stellium but that Chiron seems like it would be painful. Especially in opposition to Uranus. Did you have a lot of setbacks or complications making the relationship stable?

Then there is the square to Mars and Saturn. Saturn is conjunct to Juno, so I would imagine this would provide some stability and add to you feeling like you were good partners for each other. But it is hitting your cMoon, so this would be problematic in the long run. And the Mars is squaring the stellium. So you have this energy and need to move or act with that Mars, but its not really in harmony with who you were. Was this you two moving in different directions or were there fights?

It's wide but the square between Mars and Uranus wouldn't have helped either. If Man is mars traditionally, was this you not feeling stable towards him? Did he want something different than you in the relationship? I feel like this one was probably loving in the beginning, and soothing with the Sun and Moon, but then tensions were building and it got heavy.

Given you are a Virgo Mars, your ex must have been a Cancer Mars? If so, that Leo Mars in composite might have added more anxiety because it was so unfamiliar? Yet that Stellium and Moon would have been familiar and grounding.

And the Jupiter on ASC is nice. I feel like there would have been some really nice positive, happy energy between the two of you. It would have emphasized your natal Venus and his natal Mars, if I am doing my math correctly. I am wondering if this made you feel more feminine and him more masculine just by being together, which is a nice characteristic to have in a romantic relationship. I don't know, I feel like this one was good in many ways. Without synastry I am not sure what some issues would have been, but it just wasn't stable in the long run. This was also for growth and learning, and healing. Looking at the Nessus in the first house, maybe this relates to healing more so than negativity? It's not squaring anything and actually sextiles your love stellium. How did that play out?

The only thing I am wondering here is that the composite Nessus would have been right around his natal Mars. Did this pertain to him being the force for pain over time? (I almost wonder if something he did ended the relationship or led to a crack? ) This is more me trying to understand Nessus and less of me getting this feeling, so I may be off base.

How long were you together? It feels like this one would have been long term.

As for the current one, I don't know that he has all the power. The energy in his chart is just feeling stronger to me, or at least more forceful. You are coming at me like you are strong, but it's understated and earthy. Your Taurus stellium and that 1st house Venus feel very positive to me. I see the word "Sweet" in your chart. You feel very comforting to me. I keep saying that, but that's what I get. Every time I look at his chart, the first thing I see is Leo Sun in 8th. I feel like he's forceful. And his Saturn on your 1st house Venus could turn out to be oppressive for sure. I feel how it is drawing you in though. Its hard to see through the draw of Pluto!

posted February 07, 2018 11:55 AM            

YES I have Chiron in the 12th as well- and I do healing work as a profession . You have described me quite accurately. I also feel that my own childhood experinces of low self-sesteem and self worth has helped me to be a gifted healer. I truly resonate with the pain of others...I am a high level empath. I've worked REALLY hard on my self, I do quite a bit of soul work .

As far as the X- yes, he was very verbally abusive towards me, which really broke me and the relationship down over time...it felt secure but not stable, if that makes sense. I also had zero sexual attraction for him beyond the first few months of dating....some parts were good, but he was very manipulative and it took me (Neptune in the 7th) a LONG time to see things for what they REALLY were..

I also suspect, although he would never admit, that he was not faithful to me. Oh , and he was an Aries Sun, not Taurus with a LEO moon. (YIKES)

SO- million dollar question- based off the x, and the new guy- how would you compare?

posted February 07, 2018 01:23 PM            

I like the Juno trines and Valentine trines in this synastry. I don't know how the Nessus plays out. But in this synastry, his Nessus is in your first house. I don't have the other synastry to compare these things to.

I don't really see this one being 'it' for you either. That Uranus is opposing your Moon Chiron composite conjunction. Now you and I are close in age, and this is a common aspect in charts thanks to that. Still, I think this is not usually a good sign. I feel like our generation is going through a lot of healing, and it produced a lot of healers. There is a lot of chiron activity for us. I wish I had more answers for you though!