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Topic: Are we compatible?
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 2152 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 30, 2018 07:06 AM
Regardless of the other persons birth time. We still have a Sun/Moon aspect. I changed it to different times of the day just to see if the aspect would change. The person might have Moon in Sagittarius. I'm the blue and the other person is the red. Do you think we could be good friends? IP: Logged |
mereiposa Knowflake Posts: 514 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 30, 2018 07:34 AM
I don't see this as having a lot of lasting potential. He's kind of your type bcs he is a Sun opposite Uranus and your 7th is ruled by Aqua/Uranus. He does hit your venus and neptune and uranus (important rulers in your chart) but he's not hitting them in positive ways. And you don't have a lot of stress aspects to these in your natal chart, so I feel like this is attraction that will go south after a while. His moon may be in your 5th, which could be a positive, but it could be in your 4th. I just don't think that's enough. Is this one you wanted for long term potential? I just don't get a great feel from this one. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 2152 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 30, 2018 08:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by mereiposa: I don't see this as having a lot of lasting potential. He's kind of your type bcs he is a Sun opposite Uranus and your 7th is ruled by Aqua/Uranus. He does hit your venus and neptune and uranus (important rulers in your chart) but he's not hitting them in positive ways. And you don't have a lot of stress aspects to these in your natal chart, so I feel like this is attraction that will go south after a while. His moon may be in your 5th, which could be a positive, but it could be in your 4th. I just don't think that's enough. Is this one you wanted for long term potential? I just don't get a great feel from this one.
No he's just someone I want to be friends with maybe a friends with benefits type thing. I guess the Sun/Moon aspects and his Saturn in aspect of my Moon and Mercury don't mean much of anything?
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 2152 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 30, 2018 08:25 AM
I don't have his correct birth time. But we do have a Sun/Moon aspect. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 2152 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 30, 2018 08:52 AM
Attraction that will go south on my part? What about the Jupiter aspects? I thought we could be friends since he asked me to hang out but I guess not. I just wanted us to be friends I don't ever seem to be compatible with anyone I want to be friends with. I think maybe I will just leave astrology out of this because sometimes it's discouraging.IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 2152 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 30, 2018 08:55 AM
I'm upset because I want to be friends with him.IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 996 From: Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted January 30, 2018 09:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: I'm upset because I want to be friends with him.
If you are taking astrology as gospel to tell you who you should/should not associate with then you are doing yourself a disservice. Astrology is merely POTENTIAL as there is no way of knowing exactly how a relationship will turn out. I have a couple married friends together for 9 years with two children and their synastry and composite is TERRIBLE in my opinion. So...you never know! I would follow your gut instincts first and if you really like someone and want to be their friend, then do so!!!! Only if issues arise should you be seriously consulting the charts. And hey if your attraction to him ends up going south well then so be it! That could happen with any guy.
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 2152 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 30, 2018 11:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by margym0o: If you are taking astrology as gospel to tell you who you should/should not associate with then you are doing yourself a disservice.Astrology is merely POTENTIAL as there is no way of knowing exactly how a relationship will turn out. I have a couple married friends together for 9 years with two children and their synastry and composite is TERRIBLE in my opinion. So...you never know! I would follow your gut instincts first and if you really like someone and want to be their friend, then do so!!!! Only if issues arise should you be seriously consulting the charts. And hey if your attraction to him ends up going south well then so be it! That could happen with any guy.
So are you saying that I'm the only one who is attracted? That he's not attracted to me?
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margym0o Knowflake Posts: 996 From: Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted January 30, 2018 11:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: So are you saying that I'm the only one who is attracted? That he's not attracted to me?
Only you would know that How does he treat you in real life? IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 2152 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 30, 2018 05:03 PM
His Sun and Venus trine my Moon I thought those aspects in synasty were favorable. I read those were two of the most important aspects two people can have. So I don't think it's only about him having Sun opposite Uranus.IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 2152 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 30, 2018 05:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by margym0o: Only you would know that How does he treat you in real life?
We have never really been around each other. I've only ever saw him in the store. But he's always been nice towards me. But that could just be his personality. IP: Logged |
mereiposa Knowflake Posts: 514 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 30, 2018 05:19 PM
I think if you want to be friends, then be friends! Remember the days when you didn't know astrology and just decided if you liked someone or not? Do that!Friendship charts are different than romantic. And I don't know that crossing friends with FWB always points to lasting connections either. So if you want to be friends, be friends. If you want to be FWB, be FWB. Let things play out how they should. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 91538 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 04, 2018 05:40 PM
Bump!IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 2050 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted February 04, 2018 07:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by mereiposa: I think if you want to be friends, then be friends! Remember the days when you didn't know astrology and just decided if you liked someone or not? Do that!Friendship charts are different than romantic. And I don't know that crossing friends with FWB always points to lasting connections either. So if you want to be friends, be friends. If you want to be FWB, be FWB. Let things play out how they should.
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